Guest guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 I know where your coming from, my late husband was a god sent when I first got sick. He sat endless nights in the ER and Dr's offices, test and driving to other states trying to get DX . and when he died I fell apart, other than my 12 yr old son I had no one who understood what I was going through. My family to this day does not acknowledge that I am really sick. I have 3 brothers and 1 sister and since i've gotten sick and Dx they have yet to pick up the phone and just say hey Jess how are you feeling , do you need anything. But boy when they want me to do something they can dial that phone. My New husband is not quiet as supportive as my late husband, I find him in denial , and has a hard time excepting that I have a illness that keeps me from doing things he wants me to do. I told him just the other week I have NS, I try to keep a house going, and even though Seth is 18 he still needs me, in a different way than b4 but still needs me. Seth has grown up with me being ill so he goes with the flow and understands. Somedays I just have to tell Sherif, I feel way to bad to do that or can you help me out around the house. I returned to school and that's just 2 hours a night 4 days a week, but add that all onto normal things is hard, than add the NS into the mix and wowwwww . Just take care of yourself first . and Rest rest rest when you need to. many blessings and hugs and a pain free day It's Tax Time! Get tips, forms and advice on AOL Money Finance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 I know where your coming from, my late husband was a god sent when I first got sick. He sat endless nights in the ER and Dr's offices, test and driving to other states trying to get DX . and when he died I fell apart, other than my 12 yr old son I had no one who understood what I was going through. My family to this day does not acknowledge that I am really sick. I have 3 brothers and 1 sister and since i've gotten sick and Dx they have yet to pick up the phone and just say hey Jess how are you feeling , do you need anything. But boy when they want me to do something they can dial that phone. My New husband is not quiet as supportive as my late husband, I find him in denial , and has a hard time excepting that I have a illness that keeps me from doing things he wants me to do. I told him just the other week I have NS, I try to keep a house going, and even though Seth is 18 he still needs me, in a different way than b4 but still needs me. Seth has grown up with me being ill so he goes with the flow and understands. Somedays I just have to tell Sherif, I feel way to bad to do that or can you help me out around the house. I returned to school and that's just 2 hours a night 4 days a week, but add that all onto normal things is hard, than add the NS into the mix and wowwwww . Just take care of yourself first . and Rest rest rest when you need to. many blessings and hugs and a pain free day It's Tax Time! Get tips, forms and advice on AOL Money Finance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 Thank you . I am totally wiped after 40 hrs in a high stress job and add the duties of my own home. I live alone and I need the weekends to rest up. I do appreciate the advice. Hugs, KatIt's Tax Time! Get tips, forms and advice on AOL Money Finance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 12, 2008 Report Share Posted March 12, 2008 Thank you . I am totally wiped after 40 hrs in a high stress job and add the duties of my own home. I live alone and I need the weekends to rest up. I do appreciate the advice. Hugs, KatIt's Tax Time! Get tips, forms and advice on AOL Money Finance. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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