a little romance/body types

[Guest guest]

Well ,

It's going very well. Steve and I have had three dates, and there's

no indication of the " third date skids. " We don't know where things

are going, but it feels really good, really nice.

Yesterday, we spent the day together doing nothing really except

passing time together, window shopping, relaxing and cuddling.

Here's what I wrote to him in an email this morning:

******

Steve:

Yesterday was wonderful.

I hope we can do that again soon.

I slept well, but there was a space in my bed that needed your

warmth. I woke up several times reaching out for you, but all there

was to fill the gap in my embrace was a pillow, a poor substitute

indeed.

No matter where we are or what we're doing, when we're together, the

world fades away into a dreamy haze, and I only feel your presence.

Hugs,

Francisco

*****

And his reply:

I couldn't agree with you more. Yesterday and into the evening was

fabulous. I was so comfortable and warm in your home and bed. It was

wonderful snuggling with you. Looking forward to the next snugglefest.

-Steve

*****

I don't know how this one's gonna turn out, but he could easily be

the one.

As an aside, I now have TOTAL confirmation that body type and weight

has a HUGE genetic component.

Steve's body has almost no fat, so all the muscles show through even

though he hasn't exercised regularly in a while. He has a tiny

waist, and his abdominal muscles are the perfect six-pack without

having done any sit-ups. Life is SOOO unfair, but wow, what

beautifully masculine abs. Yikes! The way the shadows dance on his

muscles in the candle light is amazing.

I've done hundreds of thousands of sit-ups, and my abs will never

look like that, but I'm OK with that.

But the nice thing is that he is sympathetic to my

nutritional/exercise needs. He even let me prepare him a total

Bariatric dinner—1/3 cup cottage cheese, 2.5 oz tuna (with Smart

Balance mayo), 1 oz cheddar cheese, 1 oz peanuts, 1/8 cup raisins.

And he loved it because it was so nutritious (and tasty! I added

spices to make it delicious).

Steve eats a bowl of Dreyer's chocolate ice cream every night before

bed, and he actually has to work on NOT losing weight. But don't

hate him. He's a real sweet heart.

Maybe I can teach some things about nutrition (he wants me to teach

him that stuff). He doesn't even know the difference between

carbohydrate and protein. He certainly can teach me about moving

past my fears and embracing joy.

Thanks for asking,

Francisco

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> Francisco,

>

> I can't blame you at all I'd be the same way here you are trying to

> help her out through the process and she sticks her nose in where

it

> does not belong. What you eat is your buisness.

>

> So how is the new romance going??

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Well ,

It's going very well. Steve and I have had three dates, and there's

no indication of the " third date skids. " We don't know where things

are going, but it feels really good, really nice.

Yesterday, we spent the day together doing nothing really except

passing time together, window shopping, relaxing and cuddling.

Here's what I wrote to him in an email this morning:

******

Steve:

Yesterday was wonderful.

I hope we can do that again soon.

I slept well, but there was a space in my bed that needed your

warmth. I woke up several times reaching out for you, but all there

was to fill the gap in my embrace was a pillow, a poor substitute

indeed.

No matter where we are or what we're doing, when we're together, the

world fades away into a dreamy haze, and I only feel your presence.

Hugs,

Francisco

*****

And his reply:

I couldn't agree with you more. Yesterday and into the evening was

fabulous. I was so comfortable and warm in your home and bed. It was

wonderful snuggling with you. Looking forward to the next snugglefest.

-Steve

*****

I don't know how this one's gonna turn out, but he could easily be

the one.

As an aside, I now have TOTAL confirmation that body type and weight

has a HUGE genetic component.

Steve's body has almost no fat, so all the muscles show through even

though he hasn't exercised regularly in a while. He has a tiny

waist, and his abdominal muscles are the perfect six-pack without

having done any sit-ups. Life is SOOO unfair, but wow, what

beautifully masculine abs. Yikes! The way the shadows dance on his

muscles in the candle light is amazing.

I've done hundreds of thousands of sit-ups, and my abs will never

look like that, but I'm OK with that.

But the nice thing is that he is sympathetic to my

nutritional/exercise needs. He even let me prepare him a total

Bariatric dinner—1/3 cup cottage cheese, 2.5 oz tuna (with Smart

Balance mayo), 1 oz cheddar cheese, 1 oz peanuts, 1/8 cup raisins.

And he loved it because it was so nutritious (and tasty! I added

spices to make it delicious).

Steve eats a bowl of Dreyer's chocolate ice cream every night before

bed, and he actually has to work on NOT losing weight. But don't

hate him. He's a real sweet heart.

Maybe I can teach some things about nutrition (he wants me to teach

him that stuff). He doesn't even know the difference between

carbohydrate and protein. He certainly can teach me about moving

past my fears and embracing joy.

Thanks for asking,

Francisco

>

> Francisco,

>

> I can't blame you at all I'd be the same way here you are trying to

> help her out through the process and she sticks her nose in where

it

> does not belong. What you eat is your buisness.

>

> So how is the new romance going??

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Francisco,

Sounds like you and Steve may not be ready to pick out china together

yet, but maybe you've reached what a friend of mine used to call

the " picking out the Chinette " stage! Steve definitely sounds like a

good prospect, and I'll keep my fingers crossed for you and say some

prayers.

Cathy C.

[Guest guest]

Francisco,

Sounds like you and Steve may not be ready to pick out china together

yet, but maybe you've reached what a friend of mine used to call

the " picking out the Chinette " stage! Steve definitely sounds like a

good prospect, and I'll keep my fingers crossed for you and say some

prayers.

Cathy C.

[Guest guest]

Francisco

I am so happy things are working out for you and Steve.

Best Wishes,

> >

> > Francisco,

> >

> > I can't blame you at all I'd be the same way here you are trying

to

> > help her out through the process and she sticks her nose in where

> it

> > does not belong. What you eat is your buisness.

> >

> > So how is the new romance going??

> >

> >

> >

>

[Guest guest]

Francisco

I am so happy things are working out for you and Steve.

Best Wishes,

> >

> > Francisco,

> >

> > I can't blame you at all I'd be the same way here you are trying

to

> > help her out through the process and she sticks her nose in where

> it

> > does not belong. What you eat is your buisness.

> >

> > So how is the new romance going??

> >

> >

> >

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