Guest guest Posted March 13, 2006 Report Share Posted March 13, 2006 Hello, I went and saw Dr. Stiles on Tuesday, and she is making me lose 10%, so guess some rules are bent for some but not for others. Not sure why they do that. Randy, Keep up the exercise! Your in my prayers. I am sure it is rough on you calling family for the last time as well. My father died of cancer a year ago, about 6 months prior to him dying, I went to see him. It was so hard to get on the plane and go home, knowing I would never see him alive again. (He lived in Miss. and I live in CA) I was trying not to blubber in front of him too badly..lol. But crying is a way of release, so let the tears flow. I still have to have a PET scan to make sure I don't have cancer in a lymph node near my heart. I also, have to have a CT scan every 3 months for a year and then every 6 months for another year. My Pulmonary Doctor thinks it will not grow and be benign, so he says I can go ahead with the surgery. So, still waiting to get my last 2 lifestyle classes and then lose the rest of my weight and get my surgery. Going to join a gym today! Take care everyone, Esther 328/317/Goal 299-then surgery! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted March 13, 2006 Report Share Posted March 13, 2006 Esther Crying is away to release, but for the person who is sick or dealing with the health issues it's harder on them when the people who are suppose to be there for them are breaking down. Randy may need to cry, scream, be mad but he knows when he needs to do this and not just because others are, it makes it even harder. I had a Aunt at 45 years of age and I was 44 (this was 6 years ago) I went to see her and I knew it was the last time. She was a very strong lady, as I bent to hug her when I arrived to see her tears came to my ears. She looked at me and said don't cry I need every one to be strong for that's the way I want to leave this life, and if you break down so will I. I want you to set visit talk about family, talk about all the good memories and I only what you to cry once when I pass, then remember I am in a better place and with no more pain. Then just recall all the good memories. So in my heart we may need to cry, just not in front of the one who is already dealing with so much, they don't need the worry of how sad it makes us, they really need our strength and any thing we can do for them. Randy let us know how you feel, I know all people are different. We are here for you, and in my thoughts and prayers everyday. Take care. Donna J.Freya wrote: Hello,I went and saw Dr. Stiles on Tuesday, and she is making me lose 10%, so guess some rules are bent for some but not for others. Not sure why they do that. Randy, Keep up the exercise! Your in my prayers. I am sure it is rough on you calling family for the last time as well. My father died of cancer a year ago, about 6 months prior to him dying, I went to see him. It was so hard to get on the plane and go home, knowing I would never see him alive again. (He lived in Miss. and I live in CA) I was trying not to blubber in front of him too badly..lol. But crying is a way of release, so let the tears flow.I still have to have a PET scan to make sure I don't have cancer in a lymph node near my heart. I also, have to have a CT scan every 3 months for a year and then every 6 months for another year. My Pulmonary Doctor thinks it will not grow and be benign, so he says I can go ahead with the surgery. So, still waiting to get my last 2 lifestyle classes and then lose the rest of my weight and get my surgery.Going to join a gym today!Take care everyone,Esther328/317/Goal 299-then surgery!Donna JordonDSJordon@... Brings words and photos together (easily) with PhotoMail - it's free and works with Yahoo! Mail. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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