Guest guest Posted December 10, 2004 Report Share Posted December 10, 2004 MY FRIEND SHAYNA WENT UP TO THE HOSPITAL LAST NIGHT AS HER WATER BROCK AND THE BABY'S FEET ARE IN THE BIRTH CANEL AND THEY GAVE HER ANOTHER NEEDLE AND SENT HER HOME. CAS WERE AT HER HOME THIS AM AND THEY ARE USING THAT WHEN HER 11 WAS 1YR, ALYSHIA HAD PNEMOUA AND SHAYNA MISSED THE LAST 3 PARENTING CLASSES AND WITH THIS PREG. SHE DIDN'T GO TO THE DR'S TILL SEPT. WHICH IS LATE AND HAS NO HEALTH CARD OR COVERAGE SO HAS TO PAY FOR EVERYTHING AND HAS NO INCOME WAS GETTING WELFARE AND GOT 250$/MONTH BUT NOW NOTHING AS SHE LIVES WITH ANOTHER FRIEND WHOM IS VERY SUPPORTIVE AND THEIR FAMILY IS REALLY GOOD AND HELPFUL. BUT SHE IS SCARED AND THEY [CAS] CALLED HER AND ASKED HER TO SIGN A PAPER FOR THEM TO TALK TO HER OB, SHAYNA LIVES IN FEAR RIGHT NOW AND SHE TOLD THEM HER OB WON'T TALK TO THEM NOMATTER IF SHE SIGNED THE PAPERS AND SHE SAID [sHOULDN'T HAVE BUT DID THAT THE OB WOULD JUST LIKE TO BLOW UP THE BUILDING INSTEAD OF TALKING TO THEM.] SHE ALSO TOLD THE HEALTH NURSE TO F'OFF AS SHE CALLED AND WANTED TO GO TO THIER HOME. ALSO CAS CALLED TODAY AND ASKED SHAYNA IF THEY CAN BRING THE PARENTS INTO THE HOME THAT WANT TO ADOPT HER BABY WHEN IT IS BORN, SHE ISN'T SIGNING IT OFF SHE WANTS A CHANCE TO BE A FAMILY BUT THEY WON'T GIVE HER A CHANCE, AND ALSO HER PARENTS HAVE FOSTER DAUGHTER ALONG WITH HER DAUGHTER AND THE OTHER GRANDGIRLS SAID THE 2 GIRLS TOUCHED THEM BUT THE PARENTS WOULDN'T LET THE GIRLS EXPLAIN THAT THE OLDER GIRLS WOULD CHANGE AND DIAPER THEM AND ALL THE 4 GRANDDAUGHTERS ARE 4YRS YOUNGER THAN ALYSIA, SHAYNA'S DAUGHTER. SO I DO UNDERSTAND SHE IS SCARED CAUSE THE BAB'S FATHER IS BACK IN JAIL AND HE DID RAPE HER, IS A DRUG DEALER AND SHAYNA HAS LOST 1 GIRL, NOW 11YRS OLD, TO HER MOM AS SHE IS LIKE A 14YR IN A 28YR BODY AND THE GUY THAT IS HELPING HER AND HIS FAMILY ARE SUPPORTING HER ARE ALL CHRISTIAN BUT CHARLIE WANTS TO BE THE FATHER AND THEY ARE GETTING MARRIED WHEN SHAYNA SAYS OKAY AND THEY LIVE WITH HIS PARENTS IN SEPARATE LOCATIONS OF THE HOME AND NOT LIVING AS PARTNERS OR ANYTHING HAPPENING. ANYWAY ALOT OF PRAYER IS NEEDED FOR HER. AND THE CAS IS SAYING IF SOMEONE IS HOME AT ALL TIMES WITH HER THEN SHE CAN BRING THE BABY HOME BUT I KNOW IT IS JUST A LIE AS HERE IN BRANTFORD THE APREHENTION RATE IS 85% AND THE INFANTS ARE GIVEN TO ADOPTING PARENTS NOT FOSTER PARENTS AND THE OVER ALL IN ONTARIO FOR APREHENTION RATE IS ONLY 20%. AND HERE IN TOWN THE DR'S AND PROFESSIONALS GET CUT BACK FROM CAS AND THEIR BUDGET RAISED OVER 100,000. IN ONE YR. AND THE CAS ALSO HATE THE CHRISTIAN SECTOR HERE AS THEY DON'T WANT ANY MOM INCLUDING SHAYNA TO ATTEND CHURCH OR THE PREGNACY CENTER WHICH SHE HAS DONE BOTH AND GETS GOOD SUPPORT FROM THEM. ANYWAY LATER THANKS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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