Guest guest Posted August 24, 2001 Report Share Posted August 24, 2001 Hi Judie! I really believe that it is the last stop before MAJOR health considerations for the both of us. I am a BMI 37, but my wife is easily a BMI 50, and we both have co-morbidities that make life hard for us. My wife is getting positive feedback about Lap DS from a chorus she belongs to, and I am starting on the financial angle. ly, I'm tired of being fat, and I know my wife is too. If all goes well, I am hoping to have the insurance pay for both of us and I'll have her go first. Life would really suck is we were both disabled and trying to help/support the other. Anyway, that's why I am here. I am glad to learn that I have a chance with UHC, so I'll twist someone's arm until they cry " Uncle! " . Thanks again...good, interesting list. Carl Carl, I cant help you with the insurance bit but wanted to say congrats for both you and your wife looking into getting the DS. My husband and I both had it done last November and I only have 22 more lbs to go to goal! Hope you stick around so we can get to know you better! Judie ===== Carl Swanson, CBRE, CEA Broadcast Engineer, KFI AM 640 GROL: PG-GB-03704 HAM: K6CRS GMRS: WPOJ453 SHIP: WCF6161 __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2001 Report Share Posted August 24, 2001 Hey Carl! Youve come to the right place. Lots of caring and loving people on this list.....humor too!! (and of course an occasional outburst but that happens in all families, right?) My husband and I had it done within 2 days of each other. I went first. Becuz I was so out of it I completely forgot he was having surgery until Dr Welker came in to tell me everything had gone well! I was discharged on a sunday and Mike on Monday. Gave me one night to rest up before he got there. We stayed in a motel in Portland, not far from the hospital and Welker called every day to check up on us and in addition we had help every day in the form of an angel I had met online 2 yrs previous! She came over every day after work, made sure we had everything we needed in foods, etc and even cooked thanksgiving dinner and brought us over some! We had to fight our secondary insurance so it took us 9 months from the day we found out about wls to when we actually got a date. It was a time of tension as we knew we wanted this badly and were so afraid we might not get it. As luck would have it, if medicare covers a surgical procedure then by law, the secondary has to pay too. They balked and hemed and hawed but once it went to medicare review board they lost! I cant tell you the pleasure we had in calling them and telling them to get on the ball and get things going for us! Mikes co morbs were sleep apnea, mild congestive heart failure, swelling of the leg and ankle, borderline diabetes etc so it was just a matter of time. I was very afraid he would not live for another 5 yrs if we didnt do something. My comorbs were arthritis of the weight bearing joints and back pain, high blood pressure (mild.....Mikes was under control with meds though but it was pallative)....basically our lives were really non existant....we didnt go anywhere or do much of anything except watch tv all the time......and EAT since that was all there was to do. A vicious cycle, indeed! My BMI was 42 and Mikes was 48..... You WILL NOT regret the DS.....we love it! For the first time in our lives we do not have to diet....ever! We eat anything we want only in smaller portions than we did before simply becuz we get full faster. Glad you are here.......you will find alot of help and fellowship amongst those of us who are post op and those still waiting....we have lots to offer you. Just ask if there is anything you want to know. Where are you from? Judie --- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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