Guest guest Posted December 6, 2005 Report Share Posted December 6, 2005 I've been lurking on the list for sometime...while starting the process headed to wls. I have not been posting but I definitely read each and every one of your posts. Today posts from Francisco and Katchick have really been so helpfull and informative. I have tried to come to terms with so many issues reguarding my weight, wls and what changes would hit my life....the divorce rate is so high after wls...and I love my husband so much... I don't want to loose him in the process of finding me....i dont think i would change...but...who knows. We have a wonderful intimate life...would the weight loss change things somehow??? I too am a survivor of childhood sexual abuse....from what is suspected to be about age 3 (everything before age 10 is a total blank so it's more a guess based on other factors) until I left home at 17.. then a really young marriage (18-20) to a serious abuser...I know I'm just sort of rambling in this post....but it has meant so much to me to know...I'm not isolated in my feelings in these things....nor in the expreiences in my life that have led me to this point. Anyway...within all this rambling is a HUGE Thank You to everyone for their postings and sharing of such personal issues at times. You have helped me to feel like I am not so alone in all this. BY the way..I am just starting the process...my PCP started suggesting the surgery a year and a half ago and I resisted the idea of it for a long time....Have just finally come to terms with it and have had my first psyc evaluation...going to my first group meeting re: gastric bypass in the morning at Santa Clara...we'll see how it goes from there. sun Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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