Guest guest Posted January 23, 2006 Report Share Posted January 23, 2006 Donna: I will take your advice. Thanks! Francisco > Hello everyone: > > I went out on a date tonight with who is a bit overweight. > He's a nice man who is handsome, articulate and has a nice career as a > psychologist. > > However, over dinner, he said that I was " gaunt. " I know that it is a > reflection of his own issues with being overweight, but being > called " gaunt " took me aback. > > Kay (in San Leandro) and , you saw me on Saturday. Did I > appear " gaunt " ? > > Why is this playing on my mind so much? Why do I care what this man > thinks of my weight/appearance? > > It's bizarre, but I hesitate going on a second date with > because his lifestyle doesn't seem to fit into mine. And it has > nothing to do with his appearance. It's a reflection of the fact that > I want to be with someone who is by nature active and healthy. I don't > want to have to change that part of anyone or struggle with HIS issues > around food. > > OK, I'll stop babbling... > > Francisco > > > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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