Guest guest Posted January 23, 2006 Report Share Posted January 23, 2006 Tina: Thanks for the reassurance. Yep, I'm looking for Mr. Right. He's elusive (and maybe I've met him already--Chip?) but I won't give up hope. Francisco > > > > Hello everyone: > > > > I went out on a date tonight with who is a bit > overweight. > > He's a nice man who is handsome, articulate and has a nice career > as a > > psychologist. > > > > However, over dinner, he said that I was " gaunt. " I know that it > is a > > reflection of his own issues with being overweight, but being > > called " gaunt " took me aback. > > > > Kay (in San Leandro) and , you saw me on Saturday. Did I > > appear " gaunt " ? > > > > Why is this playing on my mind so much? Why do I care what this > man > > thinks of my weight/appearance? > > > > It's bizarre, but I hesitate going on a second date with > > because his lifestyle doesn't seem to fit into mine. And it has > > nothing to do with his appearance. It's a reflection of the fact > that > > I want to be with someone who is by nature active and healthy. I > don't > > want to have to change that part of anyone or struggle with HIS > issues > > around food. > > > > OK, I'll stop babbling... > > > > Francisco > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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