Guest guest Posted January 22, 2006 Report Share Posted January 22, 2006 Hello everyone: I went out on a date tonight with who is a bit overweight. He's a nice man who is handsome, articulate and has a nice career as a psychologist. However, over dinner, he said that I was " gaunt. " I know that it is a reflection of his own issues with being overweight, but being called " gaunt " took me aback. Kay (in San Leandro) and , you saw me on Saturday. Did I appear " gaunt " ? Why is this playing on my mind so much? Why do I care what this man thinks of my weight/appearance? It's bizarre, but I hesitate going on a second date with because his lifestyle doesn't seem to fit into mine. And it has nothing to do with his appearance. It's a reflection of the fact that I want to be with someone who is by nature active and healthy. I don't want to have to change that part of anyone or struggle with HIS issues around food. OK, I'll stop babbling... Francisco Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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