Re: Re: The affair, revealed - Mister Starchy

[Guest guest]

Martha, you are so crazy (lol) but there is so much

truth there.

Pam Marsh

--- Uncle Timmy wrote:

> Or in my case, Mistress Starchy, " Beat me, whip me,

> make me eat

> cchips! " - LOL!

> Tim

>

>

> >

> > Hi, everyone. Great responses to my post about the

> affair. The truth

> > follows.

> > I got an email from a postop, the usual story:

> This lady was totally

> > miserable preop. Postop she'd worked hard and done

> really well. Then

> > she started snacking, experimenting, etc...and now

> she's regaining.

> > She says " I don't know what happened " . She says

> she can't help it.

> She

> > says she tries, but ends up eating. You know the

> story, and you know

> > all the reasons.

> > I flashed on this thought: We value faithfulness

> in committed

> > relationships. If one of us had an affair, we'd be

> all over it.

> Well,

> > how is this so different from a sexual affair? We

> " married " our

> > pouches and promised to be faithful to our meal

> plans. What if we

> > thought about our food habits the way we think

> about sex?

> > So I created the story of the affair as a parable.

> Read it back to

> > yourself: Your responses were beautiful,

> supportive, and clear. Lots

> > of energy there, lots of anger and sympathy. Now

> what about the

> affair

> > that all of us are at risk for, the affair with

> the seductive Mr.

> Starchy?

> > Martha

> >

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