Facing a huge decision... plz any advice excepted :) long plz be patient

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Well to start I didn't want to say anything to soon, until I was sure.....

well last year me and sheriff went to a high risk Obgyn for a consult for how safe it would be for me to carry a baby to term, and have a healthy one. We also consulted my Neuro -Dr who care's for my NS. and both said there would be no reason I couldn't carry a baby safely, But both of there concerns were all the bad meds I am on for the NS.

Since we have gotten married I have been wanting to have another baby with Seth growing up and now graduated. And has plans on going off to college and getting married to Niki. When I first got really sick in 95 me and Seth's father -my late husband, decided that it would not be a good idea to try, so I got my tubes tied in 99.

I never thought He was going to pass on. And now since seth is 18 and Sherifs son is almost 5 and we do not get to see him to often, I am really wanting sherifs baby.

I feel this is my time now, I raised Seth into a wonderful productive adult, and as you all know I have returned to college . (by the way is going great) and a baby would not stop me) I told sherif, I will graduate .!!!! I have spend the last year really questioning if this is a good idea. Sherif, said is against me getting preg, but as time does pass he has warmed up to the idea... sooooo I saved up the money to get the tubal reversal. and made an appt with the obgyn on the 27 of this month to set up the surgery date.

I do not want to be 60ty and regret that we didn't even try. Sherif, said if god wants us to have a baby, it will happen! But I told him God has been yelling at me telling me i've given the dr's the ability to undo my tubes and if I want a baby get the surgery. So I decided to go ahead with the surgery, it will be out-pt and be home in 3 hrs. and the dr told me I could return to school long as I felt fine and was sitting.

My Neuro-dr said if I get preg, than we will just try to get me off as many meds that has been proven to hurt a fetus. and I will have to go to the high risk obgyn for the preg.

I had talked to Duffy the actress lucky I emailed her publisher and gave her my email addy and she did email me back ... she was so much worse off with her NS, and she got preg, and had a healthy baby boy. so that was promising.

I was just wondering if anyone in the group has gotten preg, and decided to go on with the preg....?

sorry for being so long, but I had a lot of feeling to get out.

Anyone who knows something or did it themselves I would love to hear your input. Good /bad

thank you so much for listening

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