Guest guest Posted May 11, 2001 Report Share Posted May 11, 2001 Hi everyone, I don't post a lot, but I check out the posts everyday and I feel the need to comment on the flurry of emotions on the list recently. Honestly, I can sympathize with how just about everybody feels! I have definately noticed a trend over the last maybe,6 weeks, of more and more " I'm not doing the diet anymore because I've found this better thing " type posts. The latest postings that have sparked all of this acrimony are probably just catching most of the flack from a trend that has been building up some frustration in people. We are all, if nothing else, passionate, dedicated parents. If we were the " putting our heads in the sand " types we wouldn't even be here on this list. Let's face it, when you make the decision to do this diet it's a pretty dramatic decision and you are forced to defend yourself endlessly. Naturally, we're all a bit sensitive about it. We all get to make big, tough decisions with little professional guidance. Sometimes, just one more alternative can send you around the bend! And yet, if we hadn't been open to learning new ideas we would never have tried the diet in the first place. So...I do want to hear about the new enzymes. And I certainly understand the zeal of discovering something that works for you child and needing to share it. (Hey, I'm downright charismatic about bio- medical interventions myself!) But.... I can't help thinking about all the people who I know are lurking out there, trying to decide if they want to start the diet, or trying to start it (we all remember what that was like!) and just looking for some clear-cut, reassuring advice and help. They've gotta be mighty confused right now. The worst thing is, I bet a lot of people will back away from the whole idea because we appear to be in such a state of disagreement. I don't think we really are. FYI, I did go check out the website and the manufacturer's position on whether or not the enzymes can replace the GFCF diet is, and I quote, " not yet. " I was thrilled to read their statements that they are committed to finding the complete enzyme to accomplish that. We will gratefully remain GFCF for the rest of my kid's lives if we have to, but that doesn't mean that I don't pray that THE enzyme is found. Like most people, I'm just cautious, and I don't want to jeopardize the progress we've made. The manufacturer makes a valid point. Much as I don't like it, GFCF isn't for everyone. Raising an autistic child can be an overwhelming experience. I know more than one wonderful parent who, just quite simply, cannot handle doing this diet. I thank God that I can. Those parents include some of my best friends. It's so easy to judge them, isn't it? Instead, as I continue to prod, maybe this is an imperfect alternative for some of those friends of mine, and maybe, just maybe, it will cause some improvement in their child and they will be inspired to go GFCF. This is a brave new world isn't it? God bless all of you for having the courage to ask the questions, and seek the answers. Be proud of yourselves and be kind to each other. Sara in Indianapolis Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2001 Report Share Posted May 12, 2001 > > This is a brave new world isn't it? God bless all of you for having > the courage to ask the questions, and seek the answers. Be proud of > yourselves and be kind to each other. > > Sara in Indianapolis After almost five years of searching for something (we've tried meds, ketogenic diet, vagal nerve stimulator and brain surgery!) to help with my daughter's seizures, I found this diet in December on an epilepsy list. I had to have the doctor's signature for the Great Plains test and was apprehensive about his reaction to my request. I loved his response. He said that the diet was like alternative medicine but that conventional medicine had not done anything for us so it was time to do something else. Also he said that what is now conventional medicine was once alternative. I have watched this list for about 3 months and have been overwhelmed by all the vitamins/supplements/tea/enzymes available. You all are my clinical trial. I watch for what works and what doesn't and try to make decisions based on this list. Please don't stop the communication of ideas and experiences! I admire you all because you have not accepted status quo with your child's illness! Happy Mother's Day!!!! Rhonda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2001 Report Share Posted May 12, 2001 Sara, I couldn't agree more. At the recent conference here in Detroit, Jon Panghorn talked about using EnZymaide in addition to the diet. Studies are showing good results. Every now and then, I see Austin's ears turn a little red and his pupils get big. I know he has gotten something somewhere. Evelyn Mom to Austin (recovered from pdd) and (nt) 5 yr old twins Everybody take a deep breath! > Hi everyone, I don't post a lot, but I check out the posts everyday > and I feel the need to comment on the flurry of emotions on the list > recently. > > Honestly, I can sympathize with how just about everybody feels! I > have definately noticed a trend over the last maybe,6 weeks, of more > and more " I'm not doing the diet anymore because I've found this > better thing " type posts. The latest postings that have sparked all > of this acrimony are probably just catching most of the flack from a > trend that has been building up some frustration in people. > > We are all, if nothing else, passionate, dedicated parents. If we > were the " putting our heads in the sand " types we wouldn't even be > here on this list. Let's face it, when you make the decision to do > this diet it's a pretty dramatic decision and you are forced to > defend yourself endlessly. Naturally, we're all a bit sensitive > about it. We all get to make big, tough decisions with little > professional guidance. Sometimes, just one more alternative can send > you around the bend! And yet, if we hadn't been open to learning new > ideas we would never have tried the diet in the first place. So...I > do want to hear about the new enzymes. And I certainly understand > the zeal of discovering something that works for you child and > needing to share it. (Hey, I'm downright charismatic about bio- > medical interventions myself!) > > But.... I can't help thinking about all the people who I know are > lurking out there, trying to decide if they want to start the diet, > or trying to start it (we all remember what that was like!) and just > looking for some clear-cut, reassuring advice and help. They've > gotta be mighty confused right now. The worst thing is, I bet a lot > of people will back away from the whole idea because we appear to be > in such a state of disagreement. I don't think we really are. > > FYI, I did go check out the website and the manufacturer's position > on whether or not the enzymes can replace the GFCF diet is, and I > quote, " not yet. " I was thrilled to read their statements that they > are committed to finding the complete enzyme to accomplish that. We > will gratefully remain GFCF for the rest of my kid's lives if we have > to, but that doesn't mean that I don't pray that THE enzyme is found. > Like most people, I'm just cautious, and I don't want to jeopardize > the progress we've made. > > The manufacturer makes a valid point. Much as I don't like it, GFCF > isn't for everyone. Raising an autistic child can be an overwhelming > experience. I know more than one wonderful parent who, just quite > simply, cannot handle doing this diet. I thank God that I can. > Those parents include some of my best friends. It's so easy to judge > them, isn't it? Instead, as I continue to prod, maybe this is an > imperfect alternative for some of those friends of mine, and maybe, > just maybe, it will cause some improvement in their child and they > will be inspired to go GFCF. > > This is a brave new world isn't it? God bless all of you for having > the courage to ask the questions, and seek the answers. Be proud of > yourselves and be kind to each other. > > Sara in Indianapolis Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted May 12, 2001 Report Share Posted May 12, 2001 Sarab thanks for making sooooo much sense!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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