Guest guest Posted August 13, 2004 Report Share Posted August 13, 2004 An excellent message and very well written. Thanks for taking the time to do it. Debby A Promise Made is a Debt unpaid. > Dear RSS Family, > > I am going to write about something today that might offend you. > The topic is money and how to save it. Please know that I am not > intentionally trying to pick on anyone's choices or lifestyle. I am > merely pointing out some options that you all may have not heard of > or tried before. My motivation is simple. THe more people we get > on board with the Magic Foundation as members, the greater pay off > we all will have in the long run - especially for our precious > children. As has said in the past, the more members we > have, the more funding we are likely to get from the major > pharmaceuticals who help our kids. This would lead to research > which someday will help prevent RSS. Call me a dreamer, but if they > can find the cause of Progeria (the aging disease that affects so > few people in our country), why not find the cause of RSS which > affects thousands? > > A few months ago when my fund raising efforts were done, I was > talking to Salem on the phone. We were both lamenting the > fact that membership in Magic is no where near the level it is here > on the list serve. I told her, that as I am a consumate tightwad > (thrifty, frugal, penny watcher and pincher) getting information > (medical, educational and emotional) for free is just to good to > pass up. She agreed, and then we started talking about how hard it > is to raise a family when there are so many lay offs and down sizing > not to mention, primary care givers giving up jobs and benefits to > stay at home and care for their sick children. Speaking of sick > children, we all know how expensive it is to care for our RSS kids. > Some of us get government help. Other's can't. I've often joked > with my husband that by the time Connor reaches college years, we > will have already financed an Ivy League education with his medical > exspenses. I'm sure many of you are in the same boat. But, beleive > it or not, we have still managed to save money every month even > though I am a stay at home mom now. It can be done. asked > me to write an article about how to save money painlessly so that > the option of Magic membership would not seem oo daunting to our > list serve families. > > With the next few tips that I have collected over the past few > months I hope to educate you all on some alternatives to spending > which can create savings in your checkbook and thus income for the > 30.00 membership fee or whatever you may fancy. Everybody repeat > after me, " Saving money is not a bad thing. " > > Knowledge is power - let us proceed. > > 1. Purchase 10 articles of clothing at thrift shops and yard sales > this year instead of paying department store prices. I'm really not > bragging but many of you commented on how nice I dressed Connor and > myself at convention. Please let me inform you, every article on my > back (including underwear) was purchased at Goodwill or a thrift > shop. It's not uncommon to find Liz Claiborne and Ralph at > these places. You're saving huge amounts of money buying second > hand. > > 2. Hang four loads of laundry per week instead of using your > dryer. Your dryer is the hugest energy sucker of wattage in your > home. Cutting back will show up in savings on your monthly bill. > > 3. Wash your own car this month and save the $ 15.00 - $20.00 > charge per wash for the car wash. That's a savings of 30.00 -40.00 > dollars in one month. > > 4. Mow your own lawn. Not only will you save money, you'll burn > calories!!!! > > 5. Once a month, make a pizza from scratch and buy the soda on > sale. The average family of 5 spends $25-40.00 on this meal. I can > get the soda for .69 cents a liter and make the pizza (meat included > for 5.00. Total savings $22.00. > > 6. Drop down your cable to broadcast stations only. We went from a > 47.00 a month bill to 13.00. The savings were invested in some > reader rabbit software to help the children learn to read. Yes, I > miss HGTV, but I have found that the public library has a ton of > home interiors how to books which I can check out for free. > Speaking of the Library... > > 7. Start using the Library five times more than you have. Books, > best sellers, how to, crafts, history, videos, books on tape, free > internet access, children's literacy programs. Etc. Etc.Etc. > Folk's the public library is a stay at home mother's salvation for > entertainment value for the kids! > > 8. Buy the generic lable of food rather than the name brand. THere > is no difference between Del Monte canned veggies and the store > brand except .25 a can in price. Same goes for coffee, flour, eggs, > cereal, etc. Yes, I know, choosy mother's choose Jiff. But, if you > buy generic on 80% of your groceries and leave 20% for those special > items you simply can't do without your savings will be substantial. > > 9. Learn the receipe for a lattee and make your own at home. Need > help? 1 can of sweetened condensed milk. Instant coffee to taste. > Heat, the milk, beat in a blender add coffee and them smooth with > milk. Viola. Lattee for .49 cents rather than $5.00 . Do this for > one week and you can mail in your saving to Magic for your > membership before school starts. > > 10. This last tip will involve a mind over matter reorganization in > your thought process. In anthropology, we call it a paradigm shift. > Understand Time and the importance of patience. Today's new release > at the movie theater will eventually be on video. Total savings for > the family 22.00. Same goes with best sellers. Our culture has > programmed us to want everything right away. Instant gratification > sells. Folks, buck the system!!!!! Wait. Everything goes on > sale. Everything goes off the market. Everything, and I mean > everything ends up in a yard sale!!!!! Time is your friend when > saving money. Exercise patience and you will reap the benefits. > > Money is a trick subject with many emotional strings attatched. My > greatest hope is that anyone today reading these points can feel > empowered to be a member of Magic and reap those benefits as well. > My membership has helped me educate the care team who works on > Connor. How many of you have had to contradict Dr.'s with the > latest research from the Journal of Endocrinolgy because you've read > the article and they haven't? Thank Magic for that. Thank Magic > for gathering the information and organizing it so that you can get > it to your doctor. Thank Magic for that Handy Dandy brochure which > could save your child's life in an emergency room when some idiot > Dr. wants to send you child home in a full blown Hypo-g drop in > their blood sugar. Thank Magic for creating a community of caring > individuals who help each other out in every aspect of life. Thank > Magic for the convention where we can gather and the people staring > at your child look just like him, and then they smile because they > have found a friend. > > Hope is a powerful motivator. I can't put a price tag on it. But I > know that in July, I left the Magic convention with buckets of hope > to report back home with and to live on for the rest of the year. > If we all work together, joining Magic and continuing to help each > other on this list serve, no one will be able to put a price tag on > our collective achievements. But, we will have living proof in our > children and our friends. > > Sincerely, > > Kearns > Mom to Graham 7, Cameron 4, Connor IUGR, RSS, Periactin, Zantac, > Prevacid ST, PT, NT, Ciphosis. > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 13, 2004 Report Share Posted August 13, 2004 hey mary!! well said!! i live by these words myself and that is how i am able to stay home with our three kids. i also babysit for extra cash. and dont forget the coupons!! i have saved $100 before on my grocery bill just from clipping coupons and i shop usually once a month (except for milk and such). and i push mow over 1 1/2 acreas of lawn 2 x a week at home and believe me it is a great work out as well as a saving!!! i have friends that spend $30 every 2 weeks on a cleaning lady (mind you some of them are at home moms) i would rather have that money for other things!! good tips mary!!! and i hope all is well with connor!! jodie c. > Dear RSS Family, > > I am going to write about something today that might offend you. > The topic is money and how to save it. Please know that I am not > intentionally trying to pick on anyone's choices or lifestyle. I am > merely pointing out some options that you all may have not heard of > or tried before. My motivation is simple. THe more people we get > on board with the Magic Foundation as members, the greater pay off > we all will have in the long run - especially for our precious > children. As has said in the past, the more members we > have, the more funding we are likely to get from the major > pharmaceuticals who help our kids. This would lead to research > which someday will help prevent RSS. Call me a dreamer, but if they > can find the cause of Progeria (the aging disease that affects so > few people in our country), why not find the cause of RSS which > affects thousands? > > A few months ago when my fund raising efforts were done, I was > talking to Salem on the phone. We were both lamenting the > fact that membership in Magic is no where near the level it is here > on the list serve. I told her, that as I am a consumate tightwad > (thrifty, frugal, penny watcher and pincher) getting information > (medical, educational and emotional) for free is just to good to > pass up. She agreed, and then we started talking about how hard it > is to raise a family when there are so many lay offs and down sizing > not to mention, primary care givers giving up jobs and benefits to > stay at home and care for their sick children. Speaking of sick > children, we all know how expensive it is to care for our RSS kids. > Some of us get government help. Other's can't. I've often joked > with my husband that by the time Connor reaches college years, we > will have already financed an Ivy League education with his medical > exspenses. I'm sure many of you are in the same boat. But, beleive > it or not, we have still managed to save money every month even > though I am a stay at home mom now. It can be done. asked > me to write an article about how to save money painlessly so that > the option of Magic membership would not seem oo daunting to our > list serve families. > > With the next few tips that I have collected over the past few > months I hope to educate you all on some alternatives to spending > which can create savings in your checkbook and thus income for the > 30.00 membership fee or whatever you may fancy. Everybody repeat > after me, " Saving money is not a bad thing. " > > Knowledge is power - let us proceed. > > 1. Purchase 10 articles of clothing at thrift shops and yard sales > this year instead of paying department store prices. I'm really not > bragging but many of you commented on how nice I dressed Connor and > myself at convention. Please let me inform you, every article on my > back (including underwear) was purchased at Goodwill or a thrift > shop. It's not uncommon to find Liz Claiborne and Ralph at > these places. You're saving huge amounts of money buying second > hand. > > 2. Hang four loads of laundry per week instead of using your > dryer. Your dryer is the hugest energy sucker of wattage in your > home. Cutting back will show up in savings on your monthly bill. > > 3. Wash your own car this month and save the $ 15.00 - $20.00 > charge per wash for the car wash. That's a savings of 30.00 - 40.00 > dollars in one month. > > 4. Mow your own lawn. Not only will you save money, you'll burn > calories!!!! > > 5. Once a month, make a pizza from scratch and buy the soda on > sale. The average family of 5 spends $25-40.00 on this meal. I can > get the soda for .69 cents a liter and make the pizza (meat included > for 5.00. Total savings $22.00. > > 6. Drop down your cable to broadcast stations only. We went from a > 47.00 a month bill to 13.00. The savings were invested in some > reader rabbit software to help the children learn to read. Yes, I > miss HGTV, but I have found that the public library has a ton of > home interiors how to books which I can check out for free. > Speaking of the Library... > > 7. Start using the Library five times more than you have. Books, > best sellers, how to, crafts, history, videos, books on tape, free > internet access, children's literacy programs. Etc. Etc.Etc. > Folk's the public library is a stay at home mother's salvation for > entertainment value for the kids! > > 8. Buy the generic lable of food rather than the name brand. THere > is no difference between Del Monte canned veggies and the store > brand except .25 a can in price. Same goes for coffee, flour, eggs, > cereal, etc. Yes, I know, choosy mother's choose Jiff. But, if you > buy generic on 80% of your groceries and leave 20% for those special > items you simply can't do without your savings will be substantial. > > 9. Learn the receipe for a lattee and make your own at home. Need > help? 1 can of sweetened condensed milk. Instant coffee to taste. > Heat, the milk, beat in a blender add coffee and them smooth with > milk. Viola. Lattee for .49 cents rather than $5.00 . Do this for > one week and you can mail in your saving to Magic for your > membership before school starts. > > 10. This last tip will involve a mind over matter reorganization in > your thought process. In anthropology, we call it a paradigm shift. > Understand Time and the importance of patience. Today's new release > at the movie theater will eventually be on video. Total savings for > the family 22.00. Same goes with best sellers. Our culture has > programmed us to want everything right away. Instant gratification > sells. Folks, buck the system!!!!! Wait. Everything goes on > sale. Everything goes off the market. Everything, and I mean > everything ends up in a yard sale!!!!! Time is your friend when > saving money. Exercise patience and you will reap the benefits. > > Money is a trick subject with many emotional strings attatched. My > greatest hope is that anyone today reading these points can feel > empowered to be a member of Magic and reap those benefits as well. > My membership has helped me educate the care team who works on > Connor. How many of you have had to contradict Dr.'s with the > latest research from the Journal of Endocrinolgy because you've read > the article and they haven't? Thank Magic for that. Thank Magic > for gathering the information and organizing it so that you can get > it to your doctor. Thank Magic for that Handy Dandy brochure which > could save your child's life in an emergency room when some idiot > Dr. wants to send you child home in a full blown Hypo-g drop in > their blood sugar. Thank Magic for creating a community of caring > individuals who help each other out in every aspect of life. Thank > Magic for the convention where we can gather and the people staring > at your child look just like him, and then they smile because they > have found a friend. > > Hope is a powerful motivator. I can't put a price tag on it. But I > know that in July, I left the Magic convention with buckets of hope > to report back home with and to live on for the rest of the year. > If we all work together, joining Magic and continuing to help each > other on this list serve, no one will be able to put a price tag on > our collective achievements. But, we will have living proof in our > children and our friends. > > Sincerely, > > Kearns > Mom to Graham 7, Cameron 4, Connor IUGR, RSS, Periactin, Zantac, > Prevacid ST, PT, NT, Ciphosis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 13, 2004 Report Share Posted August 13, 2004 - you are a truly amazing woman. Thank you so much for the wonderful tips. I have actually been considering quitting my job ($75,000 plus a year) to stay at home and take care of my kids and give them (both) the attention they need and deserve (fortunately grandma is okay as second best). I struggle with this all the time. I take no offense to what you have said and agree that we might be able to do wonders if more money was available through Magic. I am willing to pay more for membership as well, though I am still in a working status so it's not as MUCH of an issue. Anyway, just wanted to say thanks for your time and efforts and for sharing such great ideas. I will use some of them myself and maybe next year I can help assist someone else with their membership or by getting them to the convention. God Bless. 5 1 (RSS) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 13, 2004 Report Share Posted August 13, 2004 I hate to be the " negative " response to your post but some of us do ALL of those things and still come up short. Between the mortgage payment, the car lease that you can't get out of, the cost of formula, diapers, medications, dr's copays..it adds up. I can't tell you the last time I bought anything at all for myself or even ate out. We haven't been to or even rented a movie since I was 2 mos pregnant. I clip coupons, I have tried to get WIC but we are barely over the cutoff line. We were told that children we would not have children and 5 years later.. we have Mr. Isaac.. That being said...I do agree that $30 is not much to ask for all that MAGIC does. The information, convention, doctors..it has changed our lives for ever. The people I have met on here have been such a comfort and a blessing. My one indulgence is Diet Coke...I drink one a day. I would gladly give them up for a month to pay the membership fees Just my 2 cents.. Mimi (mom to Isaac RSS, hypothyroid...7 mos next week) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 14, 2004 Report Share Posted August 14, 2004 , Thank you for that reminder! I too do most of the things you suggested, I also am a member of MAGIC. But I must say, if there is no income, there is no savings, and that is true for some people, BUT those are the people MAGIC has scholarships for. So, all in all, there are no excuses! Even for us, we paid the $30.00, no jobs! It is SOOOOO worth it! I don't know where we would be without MAGIC. Besides our yearly trip to " normal " MAGIC has been Godsend, full of support, friendships and encouragement! WHAT A BLESSING!!!! THANK YOU MAGIC!!!!! Carmen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 15, 2004 Report Share Posted August 15, 2004 - Dear , I love what you have wrote, It brought tears to my eyes to, I am so much like you on the bargining and saving money, you have to be when you are in my situation Thanks so much for posting this, If I can think of some of my cheap savers then I will post them to for you and others, you gave some great advice though and some I didn't know thanks and hugs to you -- In RSS- Support , " Kearns " <maknjess@m...> wrote: > Dear RSS Family, > > I am going to write about something today that might offend you. > The topic is money and how to save it. Please know that I am not > intentionally trying to pick on anyone's choices or lifestyle. I am > merely pointing out some options that you all may have not heard of > or tried before. My motivation is simple. THe more people we get > on board with the Magic Foundation as members, the greater pay off > we all will have in the long run - especially for our precious > children. As has said in the past, the more members we > have, the more funding we are likely to get from the major > pharmaceuticals who help our kids. This would lead to research > which someday will help prevent RSS. Call me a dreamer, but if they > can find the cause of Progeria (the aging disease that affects so > few people in our country), why not find the cause of RSS which > affects thousands? > > A few months ago when my fund raising efforts were done, I was > talking to Salem on the phone. We were both lamenting the > fact that membership in Magic is no where near the level it is here > on the list serve. I told her, that as I am a consumate tightwad > (thrifty, frugal, penny watcher and pincher) getting information > (medical, educational and emotional) for free is just to good to > pass up. She agreed, and then we started talking about how hard it > is to raise a family when there are so many lay offs and down sizing > not to mention, primary care givers giving up jobs and benefits to > stay at home and care for their sick children. Speaking of sick > children, we all know how expensive it is to care for our RSS kids. > Some of us get government help. Other's can't. I've often joked > with my husband that by the time Connor reaches college years, we > will have already financed an Ivy League education with his medical > exspenses. I'm sure many of you are in the same boat. But, beleive > it or not, we have still managed to save money every month even > though I am a stay at home mom now. It can be done. asked > me to write an article about how to save money painlessly so that > the option of Magic membership would not seem oo daunting to our > list serve families. > > With the next few tips that I have collected over the past few > months I hope to educate you all on some alternatives to spending > which can create savings in your checkbook and thus income for the > 30.00 membership fee or whatever you may fancy. Everybody repeat > after me, " Saving money is not a bad thing. " > > Knowledge is power - let us proceed. > > 1. Purchase 10 articles of clothing at thrift shops and yard sales > this year instead of paying department store prices. I'm really not > bragging but many of you commented on how nice I dressed Connor and > myself at convention. Please let me inform you, every article on my > back (including underwear) was purchased at Goodwill or a thrift > shop. It's not uncommon to find Liz Claiborne and Ralph at > these places. You're saving huge amounts of money buying second > hand. > > 2. Hang four loads of laundry per week instead of using your > dryer. Your dryer is the hugest energy sucker of wattage in your > home. Cutting back will show up in savings on your monthly bill. > > 3. Wash your own car this month and save the $ 15.00 - $20.00 > charge per wash for the car wash. That's a savings of 30.00 - 40.00 > dollars in one month. > > 4. Mow your own lawn. Not only will you save money, you'll burn > calories!!!! > > 5. Once a month, make a pizza from scratch and buy the soda on > sale. The average family of 5 spends $25-40.00 on this meal. I can > get the soda for .69 cents a liter and make the pizza (meat included > for 5.00. Total savings $22.00. > > 6. Drop down your cable to broadcast stations only. We went from a > 47.00 a month bill to 13.00. The savings were invested in some > reader rabbit software to help the children learn to read. Yes, I > miss HGTV, but I have found that the public library has a ton of > home interiors how to books which I can check out for free. > Speaking of the Library... > > 7. Start using the Library five times more than you have. Books, > best sellers, how to, crafts, history, videos, books on tape, free > internet access, children's literacy programs. Etc. Etc.Etc. > Folk's the public library is a stay at home mother's salvation for > entertainment value for the kids! > > 8. Buy the generic lable of food rather than the name brand. THere > is no difference between Del Monte canned veggies and the store > brand except .25 a can in price. Same goes for coffee, flour, eggs, > cereal, etc. Yes, I know, choosy mother's choose Jiff. But, if you > buy generic on 80% of your groceries and leave 20% for those special > items you simply can't do without your savings will be substantial. > > 9. Learn the receipe for a lattee and make your own at home. Need > help? 1 can of sweetened condensed milk. Instant coffee to taste. > Heat, the milk, beat in a blender add coffee and them smooth with > milk. Viola. Lattee for .49 cents rather than $5.00 . Do this for > one week and you can mail in your saving to Magic for your > membership before school starts. > > 10. This last tip will involve a mind over matter reorganization in > your thought process. In anthropology, we call it a paradigm shift. > Understand Time and the importance of patience. Today's new release > at the movie theater will eventually be on video. Total savings for > the family 22.00. Same goes with best sellers. Our culture has > programmed us to want everything right away. Instant gratification > sells. Folks, buck the system!!!!! Wait. Everything goes on > sale. Everything goes off the market. Everything, and I mean > everything ends up in a yard sale!!!!! Time is your friend when > saving money. Exercise patience and you will reap the benefits. > > Money is a trick subject with many emotional strings attatched. My > greatest hope is that anyone today reading these points can feel > empowered to be a member of Magic and reap those benefits as well. > My membership has helped me educate the care team who works on > Connor. How many of you have had to contradict Dr.'s with the > latest research from the Journal of Endocrinolgy because you've read > the article and they haven't? Thank Magic for that. Thank Magic > for gathering the information and organizing it so that you can get > it to your doctor. Thank Magic for that Handy Dandy brochure which > could save your child's life in an emergency room when some idiot > Dr. wants to send you child home in a full blown Hypo-g drop in > their blood sugar. Thank Magic for creating a community of caring > individuals who help each other out in every aspect of life. Thank > Magic for the convention where we can gather and the people staring > at your child look just like him, and then they smile because they > have found a friend. > > Hope is a powerful motivator. I can't put a price tag on it. But I > know that in July, I left the Magic convention with buckets of hope > to report back home with and to live on for the rest of the year. > If we all work together, joining Magic and continuing to help each > other on this list serve, no one will be able to put a price tag on > our collective achievements. But, we will have living proof in our > children and our friends. > > Sincerely, > > Kearns > Mom to Graham 7, Cameron 4, Connor IUGR, RSS, Periactin, Zantac, > Prevacid ST, PT, NT, Ciphosis. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 28, 2004 Report Share Posted September 28, 2004 I am way behind on reading my email as you can tell with my late response to this one. I just wanted to add one more money saving tip. Wal-Mart will honor all ads from all other stores. If apples are on sale at Kroger, Wal-Mart honors the ad. Just take the ads in with you and show the cashier. They will not be UNDERSOLD. This is a great saver (money and time) a Christmas when you are toy shopping too....and remember to save those receipts. If an item comes on sale within 30 days, I think is the limit, you can get the refund too. If they balk, just tell them you want to return it and then repurchase it (I have never had to do this because they have always honored it - at least for the past 13 years). This goes beyond guaranteeing their own prices, they match the other ads for 30 days too. I hope this tip helps!! Regards, Re: A Promise Made is a Debt unpaid. , Thank you for that reminder! I too do most of the things you suggested, I also am a member of MAGIC. But I must say, if there is no income, there is no savings, and that is true for some people, BUT those are the people MAGIC has scholarships for. So, all in all, there are no excuses! Even for us, we paid the $30.00, no jobs! It is SOOOOO worth it! I don't know where we would be without MAGIC. Besides our yearly trip to " normal " MAGIC has been Godsend, full of support, friendships and encouragement! WHAT A BLESSING!!!! THANK YOU MAGIC!!!!! Carmen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 29, 2004 Report Share Posted September 29, 2004 This does only apply to stores they consider to be their 'competitors'. I saw a woman's ad refused last week because the store was too far away. I am not sure what the criteria are, exactly, but they did refuse to honor the ad. Also, the product must be exactly the same. The same brand, the same variety of apples, the same size container, whatever. Conny > I am way behind on reading my email as you can tell with my late > response to this one. I just wanted to add one more money saving tip. > > Wal-Mart will honor all ads from all other stores. If apples are on sale > at Kroger, Wal-Mart honors the ad. Just take the ads in with you and > show the cashier. They will not be UNDERSOLD. This is a great saver > (money and time) a Christmas when you are toy shopping too....and > remember to save those receipts. If an item comes on sale within 30 > days, I think is the limit, you can get the refund too. If they balk, > just tell them you want to return it and then repurchase it (I have > never had to do this because they have always honored it - at least for > the past 13 years). This goes beyond guaranteeing their own prices, they > match the other ads for 30 days too. > > I hope this tip helps!! > > Regards, > > > > Re: A Promise Made is a Debt unpaid. > > , > Thank you for that reminder! I too do most of the things you suggested, > I also am a member of MAGIC. But I must say, if there is no income, > there is no savings, and that is true for some people, BUT those are the > people MAGIC has scholarships for. So, all in all, there are no excuses! > Even for us, we paid the $30.00, no jobs! It is SOOOOO worth it! I don't > know where we would be without MAGIC. > Besides our yearly trip to " normal " MAGIC has been Godsend, full of > support, friendships and encouragement! WHAT A BLESSING!!!! > THANK YOU MAGIC!!!!! > Carmen > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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