Guest guest Posted August 9, 2004 Report Share Posted August 9, 2004 What a sweet picture. I love her big eyes! Beth > First of all I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to the > group! I feel blessed that I came across this group. It is so nice > to read about people with the same issues that I am dealing with. My > daughter is Mia and we live in Tampa, Florida. > > I posted 2 photos of her on the photo page. Mia hasn't been > diagnosed yet but as I said in an earlier email, she has many > characteristics. > > Mia was almost 18 pounds at her last check up. I finally purchased a > big carseat (her legs are finally starting to hang over in her infant > seat). I still have it facing backwards. I am anxious to turn her > around when she makes it to 20 pounds. I don't know how long that > will be. I feel like she will be 3 and still facing backwards! I > don't want to turn it around when it is unsafe. Does anyone else > have this problem? > > Thanks for the referrals to MAGIC too! nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2004 Report Share Posted August 9, 2004 Hi nne, What a sweet little girl! I love those big eyes too! We had the same problem with our daughter as she was still in an infant seat when she was 3. I finally had to get a note from both the Dr. and the Public Health Nurse giving permission for Olivia to be forward facing in a toddler carseat since her muscle tone allows her to ride safely this way. In Canada (our province any way) we have Carseat Checkstops where they stop all cars and check the installation of the car seat and weigh all of the children... big fines if they're not safe so that's why we have to keep the notes in the car at all times. I'm very glad that we have that option since Olivia is now almost 5 and still not 20 lbs yet. It may be worthwhile to ask your Dr and see what the state will allow. Hope this might help some! Leah, mom to 9yrs and Olivia, 4.75yrs, 18lbs, 33 " , RSS, OI, lots of meds > First of all I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to the > group! I feel blessed that I came across this group. It is so nice > to read about people with the same issues that I am dealing with. My > daughter is Mia and we live in Tampa, Florida. > > I posted 2 photos of her on the photo page. Mia hasn't been > diagnosed yet but as I said in an earlier email, she has many > characteristics. > > Mia was almost 18 pounds at her last check up. I finally purchased a > big carseat (her legs are finally starting to hang over in her infant > seat). I still have it facing backwards. I am anxious to turn her > around when she makes it to 20 pounds. I don't know how long that > will be. I feel like she will be 3 and still facing backwards! I > don't want to turn it around when it is unsafe. Does anyone else > have this problem? > > Thanks for the referrals to MAGIC too! nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2004 Report Share Posted August 9, 2004 Hi nne, What a sweet little girl! I love those big eyes too! We had the same problem with our daughter as she was still in an infant seat when she was 3. I finally had to get a note from both the Dr. and the Public Health Nurse giving permission for Olivia to be forward facing in a toddler carseat since her muscle tone allows her to ride safely this way. In Canada (our province any way) we have Carseat Checkstops where they stop all cars and check the installation of the car seat and weigh all of the children... big fines if they're not safe so that's why we have to keep the notes in the car at all times. I'm very glad that we have that option since Olivia is now almost 5 and still not 20 lbs yet. It may be worthwhile to ask your Dr and see what the state will allow. Hope this might help some! Leah, mom to 9yrs and Olivia, 4.75yrs, 18lbs, 33 " , RSS, OI, lots of meds > First of all I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to the > group! I feel blessed that I came across this group. It is so nice > to read about people with the same issues that I am dealing with. My > daughter is Mia and we live in Tampa, Florida. > > I posted 2 photos of her on the photo page. Mia hasn't been > diagnosed yet but as I said in an earlier email, she has many > characteristics. > > Mia was almost 18 pounds at her last check up. I finally purchased a > big carseat (her legs are finally starting to hang over in her infant > seat). I still have it facing backwards. I am anxious to turn her > around when she makes it to 20 pounds. I don't know how long that > will be. I feel like she will be 3 and still facing backwards! I > don't want to turn it around when it is unsafe. Does anyone else > have this problem? > > Thanks for the referrals to MAGIC too! nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2004 Report Share Posted August 9, 2004 Hey nne!! i turned christopher around when he got to big fo the infant seat. he had good neck control at the time as well. he is 25lbs 1oz and he sits in a high back booster seat with the 5 point harness. he was over a 1 1/2 when we turned him, but he didnt weigh 20lbs until he was 2yrs. maybe ask your ped what they think. jodie c. > First of all I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to the > group! I feel blessed that I came across this group. It is so nice > to read about people with the same issues that I am dealing with. My > daughter is Mia and we live in Tampa, Florida. > > I posted 2 photos of her on the photo page. Mia hasn't been > diagnosed yet but as I said in an earlier email, she has many > characteristics. > > Mia was almost 18 pounds at her last check up. I finally purchased a > big carseat (her legs are finally starting to hang over in her infant > seat). I still have it facing backwards. I am anxious to turn her > around when she makes it to 20 pounds. I don't know how long that > will be. I feel like she will be 3 and still facing backwards! I > don't want to turn it around when it is unsafe. Does anyone else > have this problem? > > Thanks for the referrals to MAGIC too! nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2004 Report Share Posted August 9, 2004 hey marianne!! i just looked at mia's pic and what a little cutie pie!!! jodie c. > First of all I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to the > group! I feel blessed that I came across this group. It is so nice > to read about people with the same issues that I am dealing with. My > daughter is Mia and we live in Tampa, Florida. > > I posted 2 photos of her on the photo page. Mia hasn't been > diagnosed yet but as I said in an earlier email, she has many > characteristics. > > Mia was almost 18 pounds at her last check up. I finally purchased a > big carseat (her legs are finally starting to hang over in her infant > seat). I still have it facing backwards. I am anxious to turn her > around when she makes it to 20 pounds. I don't know how long that > will be. I feel like she will be 3 and still facing backwards! I > don't want to turn it around when it is unsafe. Does anyone else > have this problem? > > Thanks for the referrals to MAGIC too! nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 9, 2004 Report Share Posted August 9, 2004 hey marianne!! i just looked at mia's pic and what a little cutie pie!!! jodie c. > First of all I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to the > group! I feel blessed that I came across this group. It is so nice > to read about people with the same issues that I am dealing with. My > daughter is Mia and we live in Tampa, Florida. > > I posted 2 photos of her on the photo page. Mia hasn't been > diagnosed yet but as I said in an earlier email, she has many > characteristics. > > Mia was almost 18 pounds at her last check up. I finally purchased a > big carseat (her legs are finally starting to hang over in her infant > seat). I still have it facing backwards. I am anxious to turn her > around when she makes it to 20 pounds. I don't know how long that > will be. I feel like she will be 3 and still facing backwards! I > don't want to turn it around when it is unsafe. Does anyone else > have this problem? > > Thanks for the referrals to MAGIC too! nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2004 Report Share Posted August 10, 2004 Hi nne, All of us have had this problem. I have boy/girl twins where my son has RSS. My daughter was front facing at 10 months and wasn't front facing until 2 1/2. We actually turned him before he reached 20 pounds because his legs were getting a little long for the seat. Also, the 20 pound rule is mainly for head control so they don't get whipped around so easily in an accident. By that age, had good head control even though he was still under 2o pounds. If you search the archives, you should be able to find old posts on this. Judith, Steve, (RSS) and (non RSS) 4 1/2 year old twins Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2004 Report Share Posted August 10, 2004 Yep we are in the same boat. Keigan is 16 moths and 16 Lbs. It feels like forever until we can turn him. He is in an infant seat still but we are looking at purchasing a different seat. Here in Nebraska we can not forward face until 22 Lbs. I agree, it feels like he will be 3 before we can turn him. (he may be!) In my opinion though, he really doesn't know any different and rear facing is safer at his weight. So we are just sticking with and waiting it out. question about turning my daughter around in big carseat First of all I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to the group! I feel blessed that I came across this group. It is so nice to read about people with the same issues that I am dealing with. My daughter is Mia and we live in Tampa, Florida. I posted 2 photos of her on the photo page. Mia hasn't been diagnosed yet but as I said in an earlier email, she has many characteristics. Mia was almost 18 pounds at her last check up. I finally purchased a big carseat (her legs are finally starting to hang over in her infant seat). I still have it facing backwards. I am anxious to turn her around when she makes it to 20 pounds. I don't know how long that will be. I feel like she will be 3 and still facing backwards! I don't want to turn it around when it is unsafe. Does anyone else have this problem? Thanks for the referrals to MAGIC too! nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2004 Report Share Posted August 10, 2004 Hi nne: First welcome to the group. I was away for a few days and I am still catching up. As far that car seat goes the rule obviously is they must be both at least 1 year of age and 20 pounds. The reason for that is due to their neck and head control/strength. You should be fine due to Mia's age and only 2lbs away but again check with your pediatrician on their opinion. I know here in New Jersey if you call your local fire department or police department they will install your car set for you and check it and make sure it is in properly. When I first changed around she was a year and a half and not quite 20 pounds but at that age where she could hold something herself to eat I felt it was more important that she faced forward so that I could see her better with any food that she had. I also took the car seat to the local fire department and they check the carseat over and installed it so it was nice and tight and they actually put in the car seat to measure her up to it. Good luck and again call if you feel more comfortable call your ped. B. 4 1/2 RSS 29lbs and just about 37 inches and Kelli 2 nonrss > First of all I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to the > group! I feel blessed that I came across this group. It is so nice > to read about people with the same issues that I am dealing with. My > daughter is Mia and we live in Tampa, Florida. > > I posted 2 photos of her on the photo page. Mia hasn't been > diagnosed yet but as I said in an earlier email, she has many > characteristics. > > Mia was almost 18 pounds at her last check up. I finally purchased a > big carseat (her legs are finally starting to hang over in her infant > seat). I still have it facing backwards. I am anxious to turn her > around when she makes it to 20 pounds. I don't know how long that > will be. I feel like she will be 3 and still facing backwards! I > don't want to turn it around when it is unsafe. Does anyone else > have this problem? > > Thanks for the referrals to MAGIC too! nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2004 Report Share Posted August 10, 2004 We bought one of the infant/toddler seats that can be used forward and rear facing and left it rear facing until we reached 20 lbs at almost 2. We felt that was the safest route after she outgrew her infant carrier. Dayna, Mom to Alyssa, 33months, 25lbs, 36in. Re: question about turning my daughter around in big carseat > Hi nne: > > First welcome to the group. I was away for a few days and I am still > catching up. > > As far that car seat goes the rule obviously is they must be both at > least 1 year of age and 20 pounds. The reason for that is due to > their neck and head control/strength. You should be fine due to Mia's > age and only 2lbs away but again check with your pediatrician on their > opinion. I know here in New Jersey if you call your local fire > department or police department they will install your car set for you > and check it and make sure it is in properly. When I first changed > around she was a year and a half and not quite 20 pounds but at > that age where she could hold something herself to eat I felt it was > more important that she faced forward so that I could see her better > with any food that she had. I also took the car seat to the local > fire department and they check the carseat over and installed it so it > was nice and tight and they actually put in the car seat to > measure her up to it. > > Good luck and again call if you feel more comfortable call your ped. > > B. > 4 1/2 RSS 29lbs and just about 37 inches and Kelli 2 nonrss > > > > First of all I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to the > > group! I feel blessed that I came across this group. It is so nice > > to read about people with the same issues that I am dealing with. My > > daughter is Mia and we live in Tampa, Florida. > > > > I posted 2 photos of her on the photo page. Mia hasn't been > > diagnosed yet but as I said in an earlier email, she has many > > characteristics. > > > > Mia was almost 18 pounds at her last check up. I finally purchased a > > big carseat (her legs are finally starting to hang over in her infant > > seat). I still have it facing backwards. I am anxious to turn her > > around when she makes it to 20 pounds. I don't know how long that > > will be. I feel like she will be 3 and still facing backwards! I > > don't want to turn it around when it is unsafe. Does anyone else > > have this problem? > > > > Thanks for the referrals to MAGIC too! nne > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2004 Report Share Posted August 10, 2004 We bought one of the infant/toddler seats that can be used forward and rear facing and left it rear facing until we reached 20 lbs at almost 2. We felt that was the safest route after she outgrew her infant carrier. Dayna, Mom to Alyssa, 33months, 25lbs, 36in. Re: question about turning my daughter around in big carseat > Hi nne: > > First welcome to the group. I was away for a few days and I am still > catching up. > > As far that car seat goes the rule obviously is they must be both at > least 1 year of age and 20 pounds. The reason for that is due to > their neck and head control/strength. You should be fine due to Mia's > age and only 2lbs away but again check with your pediatrician on their > opinion. I know here in New Jersey if you call your local fire > department or police department they will install your car set for you > and check it and make sure it is in properly. When I first changed > around she was a year and a half and not quite 20 pounds but at > that age where she could hold something herself to eat I felt it was > more important that she faced forward so that I could see her better > with any food that she had. I also took the car seat to the local > fire department and they check the carseat over and installed it so it > was nice and tight and they actually put in the car seat to > measure her up to it. > > Good luck and again call if you feel more comfortable call your ped. > > B. > 4 1/2 RSS 29lbs and just about 37 inches and Kelli 2 nonrss > > > > First of all I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to the > > group! I feel blessed that I came across this group. It is so nice > > to read about people with the same issues that I am dealing with. My > > daughter is Mia and we live in Tampa, Florida. > > > > I posted 2 photos of her on the photo page. Mia hasn't been > > diagnosed yet but as I said in an earlier email, she has many > > characteristics. > > > > Mia was almost 18 pounds at her last check up. I finally purchased a > > big carseat (her legs are finally starting to hang over in her infant > > seat). I still have it facing backwards. I am anxious to turn her > > around when she makes it to 20 pounds. I don't know how long that > > will be. I feel like she will be 3 and still facing backwards! I > > don't want to turn it around when it is unsafe. Does anyone else > > have this problem? > > > > Thanks for the referrals to MAGIC too! nne > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 10, 2004 Report Share Posted August 10, 2004 nne, Mia is so adorable. How precious! ) We turned around pretty early. I had to get him a new carseat that would be forward facing because he layed in a carbed for the longest time. He was way too small for a carseat. When his legs began hanging over the sides, I got him a forward facing seat. has such severe reflux, we just got documented, that he spit up so much. And, in the car, I wanted to be able to see when he was getting ready to do this. It was for his safety and for my piece of mind. But, he was strong enough at this point that he had good head control. In the end, it will be wahtever you feel the most comfortable doing. I don't think two pounds is going to make a huge difference in her head control or whatever, but it is where your comfort lies. ) Take care, Jodi R. 's mommy > First of all I would like to thank you all for welcoming me to the > group! I feel blessed that I came across this group. It is so nice > to read about people with the same issues that I am dealing with. My > daughter is Mia and we live in Tampa, Florida. > > I posted 2 photos of her on the photo page. Mia hasn't been > diagnosed yet but as I said in an earlier email, she has many > characteristics. > > Mia was almost 18 pounds at her last check up. I finally purchased a > big carseat (her legs are finally starting to hang over in her infant > seat). I still have it facing backwards. I am anxious to turn her > around when she makes it to 20 pounds. I don't know how long that > will be. I feel like she will be 3 and still facing backwards! I > don't want to turn it around when it is unsafe. Does anyone else > have this problem? > > Thanks for the referrals to MAGIC too! nne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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