Guest guest Posted July 23, 2004 Report Share Posted July 23, 2004 Hi everyone... Just wanted to let you know that I just got back from seeing my doctor. It seems as though I'm having a miscarriage. This is one of the most painful things (emotionally) that I've ever gone through. I was only 5 weeks pregnant, but man I was looking forward to having that baby in my arms. My doctor said that I didn't need to wait to try again, but I'm not so sure I'm willing to go through this again. Maybe this is God's way of telling me I'd be a horrible mother. Thanks for listening, everyone. Have a great weekend:) Love and peace... Melody Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2004 Report Share Posted July 23, 2004 I am sorry that this happened to you. it does not mean you would be a horrible mother. Most women experience miscarraige sometime in life. I had 2 before this pregnancy and they are all heartbreaking. I hope you feel better soon and I hope you get a baby soon. ((((BIG HUGS)))))) Hugs, Robin Due date July 27, 04 It's a boy- Emerson Roger Proud Mom to- Twin boys- and age 8 and their sister Madison- age 5 Wife to Pup for 15 years Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2004 Report Share Posted July 23, 2004 Melody, I also had a miscarriage a few months ago. I felt just like you do right now. I waited for months to get pregnant and when I lost the baby, I felt like a failure. That was three months ago and I feel much better about things now. I just kept telling myself that there had to a valid reason why it happened, even if I didn't understand what it was. My husband and I are trying again now and I can honestly say that even though I am scared it may happen again, I am willing to take the chance so that we can have another child. Keep your chin up and remember that it will be ok. in Nevada Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2004 Report Share Posted July 23, 2004 What kind of God would do that? No, honey, miscarriages are NOT God's way of telling you that you'd be a horrible mother. At least, not the God I know. No, here's the deal: We live in a world that is imperfect. It wasn't what God originally wanted, but it's the way it is. Things that are supposed to work, don't. Sperm & egg come together imperfectly. That doesn't diminish your grief one whit, I know. But I've been where you are, and I want to assure you that you are *completely* loved by God and that this is not a punishment. It's just a result of living in this old, fallen world. We are not *owed* children, health, wealth... but He gives them to us anyway. Sometimes we don't get them. Or at least, sometimes we don't get them when we think we're supposed to. You ARE loved, dear one. It doesn't feel like it right now, I know, but it's true nonetheless. Sometimes we can't see the sunshine because of the clouds, but we still *know* that the sun is there whether we can see it at the moment or not. -- Kris ListMom, OSSG-pregnant on 7/23/04 10:49 AM, mnmkids4@... at mnmkids4@... wrote: Maybe this is God's way of telling me I'd be a horrible mother. Thanks for listening, everyone. Have a great weekend:) Love and peace... Melody Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2004 Report Share Posted July 23, 2004 OH Melody... I am just so sorry for your heartbreak , emotional and physical pain. I know there is nothing anyone can say to " fix it " or make you feel better. Please just know you are not alone. So many of us have been there and eventually came to some sort of peace with it in our own minds and hearts. It is NOT God's way of telling you that you will not be a good mommy!! The truth is 1 out of 5 pg's end in m/c. Many women who have m/c would have never known.. as a good percentage happen so early. With today's technology.. we know so Early. You Melody will make a wonderful mother someday... and it is my belief that you now have a little angel in heaven watching over you. (( hugs )) K in Ft Lauderdale Not good Maybe this is God's way of telling me I'd be a horrible mother. Thanks for listening, everyone. Have a great weekend:) Love and peace... Melody Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2004 Report Share Posted July 23, 2004 oh melody, it certianly is not because you won't make a good mother. God sees what's in our future and apparently there was something wrong with the baby's development. i've had 3 misscarraiges and i know it's hard to take in and understand and deal with, but there was a reason for it,a nd it wasn't your fault. hugs, jenn aka mom2ben99 (jennilee75@...) Kay Independent Beauty Consultant http://www.marykay.com/koopmans I have all your summer care needs...tanning lotion, sunblock, even sunblock for your lips, get yours today! Not good Hi everyone... Just wanted to let you know that I just got back from seeing my doctor. It seems as though I'm having a miscarriage. This is one of the most painful things (emotionally) that I've ever gone through. I was only 5 weeks pregnant, but man I was looking forward to having that baby in my arms. My doctor said that I didn't need to wait to try again, but I'm not so sure I'm willing to go through this again. Maybe this is God's way of telling me I'd be a horrible mother. Thanks for listening, everyone. Have a great weekend:) Love and peace... Melody Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 23, 2004 Report Share Posted July 23, 2004 Melody wrote: " Maybe this is God's way of telling me I'd be a horrible mother " =========>>> nope, it's Gods way of telling you that it wasn't the right time this time. If He wants you to get pregnant again because He knows you will be a fantastic mother, He will bless you once again. There is no reasoning of why things happen, just that they WILL happen. I always think when a person miscarries, something wasn't just right with this baby and God knows what he's doing. Hugs! Sheila Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted July 24, 2004 Report Share Posted July 24, 2004 Melody, I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I know the pain you are feeling right now as I went through it last September but good news was right around the corner as I delivered a healthy baby girl 11 days ago. We are all here for you. Take care. DE RNY 10/16/02 Katelyn 6/94 7/04 ----------------- Have a great day!! __________________________________________________________________ Switch to Netscape Internet Service. As low as $9.95 a month -- Sign up today at http://isp.netscape.com/register Netscape. Just the Net You Need. New! Netscape Toolbar for Internet Explorer Search from anywhere on the Web and block those annoying pop-ups. Download now at http://channels.netscape.com/ns/search/install.jsp Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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