Ohhhhh ((((Melody)))))

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Ohhhhh Melody,

It's going to be OK sweetie. My heart hurts with you.....I have been

through 6 losses myself.....I have had 5 miscarriages and lost one

daughter in my 6th month.......it's so very painful to lose a

child....let me tell you what has helped me though...maybe this will

help you too.......I always try to think that God knows better than

we do.....maybe the baby was not developing properly....you never

know...usually when a baby is lost in miscarriage, it's something

genetic that has gone wrong in the development of the baby.....so

maybe it was God's way of taking care of the situation without

causing you even more pain down the road,......hopefully there will

be other babies for you........don't be hard on yourself ....I am

sure you would NOT be a horrible mother......please don't be so

harsh.....you will be wonderful! Keep your spirits up and you will

remain in my prayers....

Hug hugs to you Melody

Terri from Texas

RNY was: 2-16-01

Tummy tuck was: 8-30-02

Mom to DS, Garrett born 12-20-91

Mom to angel, DD, Maci born and died 12-31-01

EDD with this baby, 3-1-05

- In OSSG-pregnant , mnmkids4@a... wrote:

> Hi everyone...

> Just wanted to let you know that I just got back from seeing my

doctor. It

> seems as though I'm having a miscarriage. This is one of the most

painful

> things (emotionally) that I've ever gone through. I was only 5

weeks pregnant,

> but man I was looking forward to having that baby in my arms. My

doctor

> said that I didn't need to wait to try again, but I'm not so sure

I'm willing to

> go through this again. Maybe this is God's way of telling me I'd

be a

> horrible mother.

>

> Thanks for listening, everyone. Have a great weekend:)

>

> Love and peace...

> Melody

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