I guess you have to be a regular for a response

[Guest guest]

I only respond to posts where I have some been there and done that.

I have never tried to TTC... however... I have a hard time keeping them

inside long enough.

Realistically... you were asking questions that even a medical professional

can't guestimate over an email.

I would really consult your RE or OB.. whoever is helping you with your

fertility efforts.

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K in Ft Lauderdale

Noah - 10/14/02 - 31 weeker

Jonah - edd 11/18/04 ( currently High Risk Pg.. not WLS related)

Open RNY - 12/02/03

262/200/someday maybe in the 120's??

[Guest guest]

The only thing I know for sure is a missed period and then take a home

pregnancy test or have your PCP give you a blood test. I know how hard it is TTC

and

my heart goes out to you, it is very hard and painful and I know I shed many,

many tears myself withe ach period every month. Hang in there are try to put

it in God's hands if you believe in him, That is what finbally worked for me.

Good LUck and God Bless.

God Bless, Robin

Wife to Pup for 15 years

Mommy to-

and

(twin boys, 8 years) and

Daughter Madison- age 5 1/2

and new Mommy to-

Emerson Roger born

July 28, 2004 at 4:11 am

8lbs 7 oz, 20 1/2 inches long.

[Guest guest]

All~

I have posted three times this week reaching out, I know none of you

can give medical advice. However I lurk alot but I see the bond with

the group. So thought that I would reach out to see if anyone has

experience what I am going through. I did hear from two ladies thank

yu very much, I guess I am going on and on becuae I so confused and

hurting right now ( tears falling as I type).

I am ttc of course with no success since wls 3 years ago. My cycles

became normal regual after wls, I 28 days, my last cyle was 7/23/04

which 28 days would be 8/19 I should start my next one, however I

started light spottiong on 8/9 and I am still bleeding it was light

up until today, its still is not as heavy as my normal periods, also

i have very slight cramping in the bottome of my stomach and cramping

in the upper part of my thigh. My breast are not soar at all and they

are every month that I have my cycle, and not to be to gross when i

use the bathroom normally when I am on my period it flows out with

the blood this time its doesnt i just consume it on the sanitary

napkin!!!!!!...at first I was thrilled to think that it may be

implataion, now I just dont know, when I contacted dr. I was told

that if my cycle was changing it shouldnt happen this early I dont

know has anybody experience anything like this or similar.. Please

help

desperalty ttc

GINA

[Guest guest]

Sorry you're feeling forsaken. I couldn't add anything previously,

the only symptom I had was a missed period. It was a regular ole

month, till I noticed I was a week late, then waited another 3 days &

took a HPT @ 2 in the morning, but that's another story. Preggo

symptoms started a couple of weeks later.

Wish I could help more:-(

Hope it works out for you!

WlsMomma

> All~

>

> I have posted three times this week reaching out, I know none of you

> can give medical advice. However I lurk alot but I see the bond with

> the group. So thought that I would reach out to see if anyone has

> experience what I am going through. I did hear from two ladies thank

> yu very much, I guess I am going on and on becuae I so confused and

> hurting right now ( tears falling as I type).

>

> I am ttc of course with no success since wls 3 years ago. My cycles

> became normal regual after wls, I 28 days, my last cyle was 7/23/04

> which 28 days would be 8/19 I should start my next one, however I

> started light spottiong on 8/9 and I am still bleeding it was light

> up until today, its still is not as heavy as my normal periods, also

> i have very slight cramping in the bottome of my stomach and cramping

> in the upper part of my thigh. My breast are not soar at all and they

> are every month that I have my cycle, and not to be to gross when i

> use the bathroom normally when I am on my period it flows out with

> the blood this time its doesnt i just consume it on the sanitary

> napkin!!!!!!...at first I was thrilled to think that it may be

> implataion, now I just dont know, when I contacted dr. I was told

> that if my cycle was changing it shouldnt happen this early I dont

> know has anybody experience anything like this or similar.. Please

> help

>

> desperalty ttc

> GINA

[Guest guest]

I would love to have responded to your post, but I know nothing of

this. I wasnt trying to conceive when I did. So far I have had a

typical pregnancy. But I did read your post as I do all of them and I

greatly enjoy all the information and support given by this wonderful

group.

~HUGS~ Shalonda

> All~

>

> I have posted three times this week reaching out, I know none of

you

> can give medical advice. However I lurk alot but I see the bond

with

> the group. So thought that I would reach out to see if anyone has

> experience what I am going through. I did hear from two ladies

thank

> yu very much, I guess I am going on and on becuae I so confused

and

> hurting right now ( tears falling as I type).

>

> I am ttc of course with no success since wls 3 years ago. My cycles

> became normal regual after wls, I 28 days, my last cyle was 7/23/04

> which 28 days would be 8/19 I should start my next one, however I

> started light spottiong on 8/9 and I am still bleeding it was light

> up until today, its still is not as heavy as my normal periods,

also

> i have very slight cramping in the bottome of my stomach and

cramping

> in the upper part of my thigh. My breast are not soar at all and

they

> are every month that I have my cycle, and not to be to gross when i

> use the bathroom normally when I am on my period it flows out with

> the blood this time its doesnt i just consume it on the sanitary

> napkin!!!!!!...at first I was thrilled to think that it may be

> implataion, now I just dont know, when I contacted dr. I was told

> that if my cycle was changing it shouldnt happen this early I dont

> know has anybody experience anything like this or similar.. Please

> help

>

> desperalty ttc

> GINA

[Guest guest]

,

I am sorry no one has posted a reply to you, but I have worked

about 7 12 hour shifts in the last 12 days, I am BEHIND!

Let me see what I can answer (if anything) about your questions.

Honestly, I cant quite understand your question is.

>>>>TTC for 3 yrs, but regular cycles every 28 days.

Spotting is considered a period so this may just be a mixed up cycle

for you. Implantation bleeding should happen around day 10-12-14-16

in your cycle so the first day of spotting would be considered day 1.

I TOTALLY understand your feelings of hoplesslessness and feeling

desperate. Seeing as you have been TTC for 3 years, I am certain you

have probably already seen a fertility specialist, right? It seems

that should be your next step. Probably your very next step. Have you

been taking your temps daily? charting your cervical mucous days? Has

your hubbby has a semen analysis? have you had blood work to

determine just what may be the ca

se.I bought several books on TTC (Toni Weschler-Taking Charge of Your

Fertility) then I saw a fertility specialist. We had several tests

done, he thought with my age being as old as it was (36-37) that we

should just go right for artifical insemination, so that was the

route we took. (look at my profile pic@ I'm a proud Momma).

I can't tell you whats going on. Implantation spotting would fall

into the time frame that you are describing, but I dont want to get

your hopes up. The only thing you can do is WAIT. I know that is the

last thing on this earth that you want to do, but you either wait to

take a preg test or wait for your period to start.

I know its not much help, but just start having sex on cycle days

8,10, 12, 14,16, and 18. You may want to throw in day 20 for good

measure in case you are a late ovulator.

In my case, I NEEDLESSLY took clomid for nearly 7 months because my

lazy ass OB wouldn't do other testing (ie: lab work, HSG,

hyseteroscopym laparascopy etc) so I changed OB's and went to a

fertility specialist.

Have you seen one yet? That would be my suggestion to you if you

havent seen one yet. Sorry for the late reply, but I'm been a

bizzzzzy women!!! lol

Sheila

[Guest guest]

" Sheila Renae " wrote: " I'm been a bizzzzzy women!!! lol " ....>>> please

believe me when I tell you that I am an educated person, just very

very tired right now. lol

I've been a BUSY woman!! lol

how's that?? lol

Sheila

[Guest guest]

,

Hi....with all my pregnancies I experienced cramping and light

bleeding the first month. I dont know if that helps but, dr said

sometimes it happens from the egg planting itself in the uterus?

Robin

" at first I was thrilled to think that it may be implataion, now I just dont

know, when I contacted dr. I was told that if my cycle was changing it shouldnt

happen this early I dont know has anybody experience anything like this or

similar.. Please help "

desperalty ttc

GINA

[Guest guest]

Hi

I responded to your last post but dont know if u saw it or not, since

bleeding can mean a number of things its hard to really say whats

wrong since we are not professionals and can only go by

experience...as i said in my other post it can be implantion

bleeding, break through bleeding, some women have even bleed during

ovulation of course these are spotting episodes not bleeding like a

period...if your pregnant and bleeding or spotting you have to call

your dr because that can mean a number of things also its just so

hard to say in this delicate stage our hormones being wacked can

cause abnormal bleeding again a dr would have to test u and examine u

or what have to determine what is causeing the bleeding i sure hope

all works out for you i know its fusterating but im not on here alot

and when i am i try to answer posts that i can and or have experience

with...Deanna

> All~

>

> I have posted three times this week reaching out, I know none of

you

> can give medical advice. However I lurk alot but I see the bond

with

> the group. So thought that I would reach out to see if anyone has

> experience what I am going through. I did hear from two ladies

thank

> yu very much, I guess I am going on and on becuae I so confused

and

> hurting right now ( tears falling as I type).

>

> I am ttc of course with no success since wls 3 years ago. My cycles

> became normal regual after wls, I 28 days, my last cyle was 7/23/04

> which 28 days would be 8/19 I should start my next one, however I

> started light spottiong on 8/9 and I am still bleeding it was light

> up until today, its still is not as heavy as my normal periods,

also

> i have very slight cramping in the bottome of my stomach and

cramping

> in the upper part of my thigh. My breast are not soar at all and

they

> are every month that I have my cycle, and not to be to gross when i

> use the bathroom normally when I am on my period it flows out with

> the blood this time its doesnt i just consume it on the sanitary

> napkin!!!!!!...at first I was thrilled to think that it may be

> implataion, now I just dont know, when I contacted dr. I was told

> that if my cycle was changing it shouldnt happen this early I dont

> know has anybody experience anything like this or similar.. Please

> help

>

> desperalty ttc

> GINA