Guest guest Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 Hi buddies, I am having a (repeat) C-Section scheduled on Thursday, August 26th. My whole issue is during my last office visit he tells me that I am measuring smaller than I should. He decided to do another u/s (my 5th one) to check the Amitotic fluid. He started asking questions like how much did my daughter weighted (9lbs3oz) and was she early or late (3weeks early) and then he went through my file with the nurse but said nothing to me or my husband to what was going on. My daughter was big and she was 3 weeks early from the EDD b/c of Toxemia. Not too much of a difference from this baby – This baby is scheduled 3 weeks early on Aug 26th from the (REAL from my period) EDD of Sept 13th. This Dr visit (he's almost ready to retire) he did measurements of the baby and told us that she was under weight and small for her age at only 6 pounds. It made me cry b/c I have gained just as much with this pregnancy as I did with my daughter (pre-WLS). I feel like I failed…that this baby is so small compared to my daughter. My Dr changed our due date to Sept 6th b/c she measured bigger than normal. He said she may even be older but the average size comes to a week older in size. Last month during an u/s my daughter had a roll under her chin and Dr laughed and said she's " big and healthy " . That's when he scheduled the C-Section b/c she was (still) big for her size. Or was it b/c of the WLS surgery…don't understand that b/c I gained just as much. I have been going to my Dr's twice a week all this month b/c of me being high risk for Toxemia so the due date stays the same I can't push it back. I am so confused -- how can a Dr say she's measures bigger than normal -- big and healthy…Until the week before my surgery and say she's smaller and weights only 6 pounds? I only have 4 more days to find out if he is right or wrong but I can't stop thinking about why there would be such a big difference. Any one with ideas? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 Ultrasounds are notoriously inaccurate. Here are the statistics from one large study (1717 women between 24 and 43 weeks gestational age) done in 1998. The percentage is the number of babies within 10% of the weight measurement assigned to them by the practitioner after ultrasound and a clinical hands-on exam were performed by separate clinicians (so they couldn't influence each other), according to weight estimate method. babies weighing less than 2500 grams (5.5 pounds): ultrasounds 63%, clinical exam 49% babies weighing 2500 to 4000 grams (5.5 pounds to 8.8 pounds): ultrasounds 70.6%, clinical exam 75.1% babies weighing over 4000 grams (8.8 pounds): ultrasounds 58.8%, clinical exam 61.3% The key take-away for me is that NO method of guessing a baby's weight to within 10% of actual is more than 75% accurate... that means that 25-51% of the time, they are off by more than 10%!! And if the baby was not tiny, experienced clinicians are more accurate than ultrasound. It's a crapshoot. If the baby otherwise seems healthy, I would try not to worry about it too much. There's nothing you can do anyway, other than asking them to delay the c-section so that if she really IS small, that she has a chance to develop further, reducing her time in the NICU. Have you considered discussing IV magnesium supplementation with your OB? http://www.lewrockwell.com/sardi/sardi13.html It is widely used to reduce toxemia (pre-eclampsia) but some doctors are apparently still unaware of it, or unwilling to try it, because it's not an expensive patented drug. " Finally, a just-released study of 10,141 women in 33 countries has shown beyond a " reasonable doubt " that intravenous magnesium reduces the risks of eclampsia among women with pre-eclampsia. The relative risk of eclampsia was reduced by 58 percent and the mortality rate nearly cut in half among women receiving magnesium compared to those who receive a saline drip. The authors of the study concluded that " magnesium sulfate is remarkably effective at reducing the risk of eclampsia. " [The Lancet 359: 1877-90, June 1, 2002] " Good luck. Ziobro C-Section on Thursday & measuring too small To: ossg-pregnant Hi buddies, I am having a (repeat) C-Section scheduled on Thursday, August 26th. My whole issue is during my last office visit he tells me that I am measuring smaller than I should. He decided to do another u/s (my 5th one) to check the Amitotic fluid. He started asking questions like how much did my daughter weighted (9lbs3oz) and was she early or late (3weeks early) and then he went through my file with the nurse but said nothing to me or my husband to what was going on. My daughter was big and she was 3 weeks early from the EDD b/c of Toxemia. Not too much of a difference from this baby – This baby is scheduled 3 weeks early on Aug 26th from the (REAL from my period) EDD of Sept 13th. This Dr visit (he's almost ready to retire) he did measurements of the baby and told us that she was under weight and small for her age at only 6 pounds. It made me cry b/c I have gained just as much with this pregnancy as I did with my daughter (pre-WLS). I feel like I failed…that this baby is so small compared to my daughter. My Dr changed our due date to Sept 6th b/c she measured bigger than normal. He said she may even be older but the average size comes to a week older in size. Last month during an u/s my daughter had a roll under her chin and Dr laughed and said she's " big and healthy " . That's when he scheduled the C-Section b/c she was (still) big for her size. Or was it b/c of the WLS surgery…don't understand that b/c I gained just as much. I have been going to my Dr's twice a week all this month b/c of me being high risk for Toxemia so the due date stays the same I can't push it back. I am so confused -- how can a Dr say she's measures bigger than normal -- big and healthy…Until the week before my surgery and say she's smaller and weights only 6 pounds? I only have 4 more days to find out if he is right or wrong but I can't stop thinking about why there would be such a big difference. Any one with ideas? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 The ultrasounds said our son Jonas born 3 weeks ago was 6.5 pounds a few weeks before he was born....He was born weighing 8 pounds and 8 ounces. The doctors because I was not gaining weight and was still losing weight while pregnant assumed he was still about that size because of my body. Chrystal Wife to Jace - together 6 Years! Happy Mommy to - 4 Years Old! Baby Jonas Born August 2, 2004 8 Pounds & 8 Ounces! Zookeeper for 2 big dogs and 6 cats who let me feed them! http://chrystallife.50megs.com/ http://members.ebay.com/aboutme/seeswensonauctions/ > Ultrasounds are notoriously inaccurate. Here are the statistics from > one large study (1717 women between 24 and 43 weeks gestational age) > done in 1998. The percentage is the number of babies within 10% of the > weight measurement assigned to them by the practitioner after > ultrasound and a clinical hands-on exam were performed by separate > clinicians (so they couldn't influence each other), according to > weight estimate method. > > babies weighing less than 2500 grams (5.5 pounds): ultrasounds 63%, > clinical exam 49% > babies weighing 2500 to 4000 grams (5.5 pounds to 8.8 pounds): > ultrasounds 70.6%, clinical exam 75.1% > babies weighing over 4000 grams (8.8 pounds): ultrasounds 58.8%, > clinical exam 61.3% > > The key take-away for me is that NO method of guessing a baby's weight > to within 10% of actual is more than 75% accurate... that means that > 25-51% of the time, they are off by more than 10%!! And if the baby > was not tiny, experienced clinicians are more accurate than > ultrasound. > > It's a crapshoot. If the baby otherwise seems healthy, I would try not > to worry about it too much. There's nothing you can do anyway, other > than asking them to delay the c-section so that if she really IS > small, that she has a chance to develop further, reducing her time in > the NICU. > > Have you considered discussing IV magnesium supplementation with your > OB? http://www.lewrockwell.com/sardi/sardi13.html It is widely used to > reduce toxemia (pre-eclampsia) but some doctors are apparently still > unaware of it, or unwilling to try it, because it's not an expensive > patented drug. > > " Finally, a just-released study of 10,141 women in 33 countries has > shown beyond a " reasonable doubt " that intravenous magnesium reduces > the risks of eclampsia among women with pre-eclampsia. The relative > risk of eclampsia was reduced by 58 percent and the mortality rate > nearly cut in half among women receiving magnesium compared to those > who receive a saline drip. The authors of the study concluded that > " magnesium sulfate is remarkably effective at reducing the risk of > eclampsia. " [The Lancet 359: 1877-90, June 1, 2002] " > > Good luck. > > Ziobro > > C-Section on Thursday & measuring too small > To: ossg-pregnant > > Hi buddies, > I am having a (repeat) C-Section scheduled on Thursday, August 26th. > My whole issue is during my last office visit he tells me that I am > measuring smaller than I should. > He decided to do another u/s (my 5th one) to check the Amitotic fluid. > He started asking questions like how much did my daughter weighted > (9lbs3oz) and was she early or late (3weeks early) and then he went > through my file with the nurse but said nothing to me or my husband > to what was going on. > My daughter was big and she was 3 weeks early from the EDD b/c of > Toxemia. > Not too much of a difference from this baby – This baby is scheduled > 3 weeks early on Aug 26th from the (REAL from my period) EDD of Sept > 13th. > This Dr visit (he's almost ready to retire) he did measurements of > the baby and told us that she was under weight and small for her age > at only 6 pounds. > It made me cry b/c I have gained just as much with this pregnancy as > I did with my daughter (pre-WLS). > I feel like I failed…that this baby is so small compared to my > daughter. > My Dr changed our due date to Sept 6th b/c she measured bigger than > normal. > He said she may even be older but the average size comes to a week > older in size. > Last month during an u/s my daughter had a roll under her chin and Dr > laughed and said she's " big and healthy " . > That's when he scheduled the C-Section b/c she was (still) big for > her size. > Or was it b/c of the WLS surgery…don't understand that b/c I gained > just as much. > I have been going to my Dr's twice a week all this month b/c of me > being high risk for Toxemia so the due date stays the same I can't > push it back. > I am so confused -- how can a Dr say she's measures bigger than > normal -- big and healthy…Until the week before my surgery and say > she's smaller and weights only 6 pounds? > I only have 4 more days to find out if he is right or wrong but I > can't stop thinking about why there would be such a big difference. > Any one with ideas? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 The ultrasounds said our son Jonas born 3 weeks ago was 6.5 pounds a few weeks before he was born....He was born weighing 8 pounds and 8 ounces. The doctors because I was not gaining weight and was still losing weight while pregnant assumed he was still about that size because of my body. Chrystal Wife to Jace - together 6 Years! Happy Mommy to - 4 Years Old! Baby Jonas Born August 2, 2004 8 Pounds & 8 Ounces! Zookeeper for 2 big dogs and 6 cats who let me feed them! http://chrystallife.50megs.com/ http://members.ebay.com/aboutme/seeswensonauctions/ > Ultrasounds are notoriously inaccurate. Here are the statistics from > one large study (1717 women between 24 and 43 weeks gestational age) > done in 1998. The percentage is the number of babies within 10% of the > weight measurement assigned to them by the practitioner after > ultrasound and a clinical hands-on exam were performed by separate > clinicians (so they couldn't influence each other), according to > weight estimate method. > > babies weighing less than 2500 grams (5.5 pounds): ultrasounds 63%, > clinical exam 49% > babies weighing 2500 to 4000 grams (5.5 pounds to 8.8 pounds): > ultrasounds 70.6%, clinical exam 75.1% > babies weighing over 4000 grams (8.8 pounds): ultrasounds 58.8%, > clinical exam 61.3% > > The key take-away for me is that NO method of guessing a baby's weight > to within 10% of actual is more than 75% accurate... that means that > 25-51% of the time, they are off by more than 10%!! And if the baby > was not tiny, experienced clinicians are more accurate than > ultrasound. > > It's a crapshoot. If the baby otherwise seems healthy, I would try not > to worry about it too much. There's nothing you can do anyway, other > than asking them to delay the c-section so that if she really IS > small, that she has a chance to develop further, reducing her time in > the NICU. > > Have you considered discussing IV magnesium supplementation with your > OB? http://www.lewrockwell.com/sardi/sardi13.html It is widely used to > reduce toxemia (pre-eclampsia) but some doctors are apparently still > unaware of it, or unwilling to try it, because it's not an expensive > patented drug. > > " Finally, a just-released study of 10,141 women in 33 countries has > shown beyond a " reasonable doubt " that intravenous magnesium reduces > the risks of eclampsia among women with pre-eclampsia. The relative > risk of eclampsia was reduced by 58 percent and the mortality rate > nearly cut in half among women receiving magnesium compared to those > who receive a saline drip. The authors of the study concluded that > " magnesium sulfate is remarkably effective at reducing the risk of > eclampsia. " [The Lancet 359: 1877-90, June 1, 2002] " > > Good luck. > > Ziobro > > C-Section on Thursday & measuring too small > To: ossg-pregnant > > Hi buddies, > I am having a (repeat) C-Section scheduled on Thursday, August 26th. > My whole issue is during my last office visit he tells me that I am > measuring smaller than I should. > He decided to do another u/s (my 5th one) to check the Amitotic fluid. > He started asking questions like how much did my daughter weighted > (9lbs3oz) and was she early or late (3weeks early) and then he went > through my file with the nurse but said nothing to me or my husband > to what was going on. > My daughter was big and she was 3 weeks early from the EDD b/c of > Toxemia. > Not too much of a difference from this baby – This baby is scheduled > 3 weeks early on Aug 26th from the (REAL from my period) EDD of Sept > 13th. > This Dr visit (he's almost ready to retire) he did measurements of > the baby and told us that she was under weight and small for her age > at only 6 pounds. > It made me cry b/c I have gained just as much with this pregnancy as > I did with my daughter (pre-WLS). > I feel like I failed…that this baby is so small compared to my > daughter. > My Dr changed our due date to Sept 6th b/c she measured bigger than > normal. > He said she may even be older but the average size comes to a week > older in size. > Last month during an u/s my daughter had a roll under her chin and Dr > laughed and said she's " big and healthy " . > That's when he scheduled the C-Section b/c she was (still) big for > her size. > Or was it b/c of the WLS surgery…don't understand that b/c I gained > just as much. > I have been going to my Dr's twice a week all this month b/c of me > being high risk for Toxemia so the due date stays the same I can't > push it back. > I am so confused -- how can a Dr say she's measures bigger than > normal -- big and healthy…Until the week before my surgery and say > she's smaller and weights only 6 pounds? > I only have 4 more days to find out if he is right or wrong but I > can't stop thinking about why there would be such a big difference. > Any one with ideas? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 ita, Every baby is so very different. If you had said that baby was 4 lb, I would be more concerned, but 6 lb is a good size, sweetie...And, it is just an estimate...Was everything okay with your fluid levels? Was the baby active and moving in the u/s? Think about those things and take things one step at a time, k? I know you are nervous and worried but YOU HAVE NOT FAILED AT ANYTHING...okay? Wishing you the very best on Thursday and hope you will keep us posted! Hugs, Z EDC Nov 10 > Hi buddies, > I am having a (repeat) C-Section scheduled on Thursday, August 26th. > My whole issue is during my last office visit he tells me that I am > measuring smaller than I should. > He decided to do another u/s (my 5th one) to check the Amitotic fluid. > He started asking questions like how much did my daughter weighted > (9lbs3oz) and was she early or late (3weeks early) and then he went > through my file with the nurse but said nothing to me or my husband > to what was going on. > My daughter was big and she was 3 weeks early from the EDD b/c of > Toxemia. > Not too much of a difference from this baby – This baby is scheduled > 3 weeks early on Aug 26th from the (REAL from my period) EDD of Sept > 13th. > This Dr visit (he's almost ready to retire) he did measurements of > the baby and told us that she was under weight and small for her age > at only 6 pounds. > It made me cry b/c I have gained just as much with this pregnancy as > I did with my daughter (pre-WLS). > I feel like I failed…that this baby is so small compared to my > daughter. > My Dr changed our due date to Sept 6th b/c she measured bigger than > normal. > He said she may even be older but the average size comes to a week > older in size. > Last month during an u/s my daughter had a roll under her chin and Dr > laughed and said she's " big and healthy " . > That's when he scheduled the C-Section b/c she was (still) big for > her size. > Or was it b/c of the WLS surgery…don't understand that b/c I gained > just as much. > I have been going to my Dr's twice a week all this month b/c of me > being high risk for Toxemia so the due date stays the same I can't > push it back. > I am so confused -- how can a Dr say she's measures bigger than > normal -- big and healthy…Until the week before my surgery and say > she's smaller and weights only 6 pounds? > I only have 4 more days to find out if he is right or wrong but I > can't stop thinking about why there would be such a big difference. > Any one with ideas? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2004 Report Share Posted August 23, 2004 ita, Every baby is so very different. If you had said that baby was 4 lb, I would be more concerned, but 6 lb is a good size, sweetie...And, it is just an estimate...Was everything okay with your fluid levels? Was the baby active and moving in the u/s? Think about those things and take things one step at a time, k? I know you are nervous and worried but YOU HAVE NOT FAILED AT ANYTHING...okay? Wishing you the very best on Thursday and hope you will keep us posted! Hugs, Z EDC Nov 10 > Hi buddies, > I am having a (repeat) C-Section scheduled on Thursday, August 26th. > My whole issue is during my last office visit he tells me that I am > measuring smaller than I should. > He decided to do another u/s (my 5th one) to check the Amitotic fluid. > He started asking questions like how much did my daughter weighted > (9lbs3oz) and was she early or late (3weeks early) and then he went > through my file with the nurse but said nothing to me or my husband > to what was going on. > My daughter was big and she was 3 weeks early from the EDD b/c of > Toxemia. > Not too much of a difference from this baby – This baby is scheduled > 3 weeks early on Aug 26th from the (REAL from my period) EDD of Sept > 13th. > This Dr visit (he's almost ready to retire) he did measurements of > the baby and told us that she was under weight and small for her age > at only 6 pounds. > It made me cry b/c I have gained just as much with this pregnancy as > I did with my daughter (pre-WLS). > I feel like I failed…that this baby is so small compared to my > daughter. > My Dr changed our due date to Sept 6th b/c she measured bigger than > normal. > He said she may even be older but the average size comes to a week > older in size. > Last month during an u/s my daughter had a roll under her chin and Dr > laughed and said she's " big and healthy " . > That's when he scheduled the C-Section b/c she was (still) big for > her size. > Or was it b/c of the WLS surgery…don't understand that b/c I gained > just as much. > I have been going to my Dr's twice a week all this month b/c of me > being high risk for Toxemia so the due date stays the same I can't > push it back. > I am so confused -- how can a Dr say she's measures bigger than > normal -- big and healthy…Until the week before my surgery and say > she's smaller and weights only 6 pounds? > I only have 4 more days to find out if he is right or wrong but I > can't stop thinking about why there would be such a big difference. > Any one with ideas? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 Like another poster said, a six pound baby is not all that small... my babies before RNY all weighed in at 5 1/2- 6 lbs and they were all very healthy and had no problems whatsoever and are three of the healthiest girls I have ever seen to this day. Just think of it this way.. your baby will stay a baby for just a little longer than those mommies that have 9 pounders! I am sure that there is nothing you did wrong.....Just relax and enjoy your new tiny bundle because they sure dont stay small long! Open RNY 11-15-2002 #4 Due 2-8-2005 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 Like another poster said, a six pound baby is not all that small... my babies before RNY all weighed in at 5 1/2- 6 lbs and they were all very healthy and had no problems whatsoever and are three of the healthiest girls I have ever seen to this day. Just think of it this way.. your baby will stay a baby for just a little longer than those mommies that have 9 pounders! I am sure that there is nothing you did wrong.....Just relax and enjoy your new tiny bundle because they sure dont stay small long! Open RNY 11-15-2002 #4 Due 2-8-2005 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 ita, If you really press these docs they will all admit that none of their measurements and tests will be 100% accurate. I have heard from several women who were told they were going to have huge babies and then end up popping out 6 pounders and vice versa. Also, keep in mind that if your baby girl is small, maybe thats just the way she is supposed to be. My Hannah is small but she is perfect and healthy in every way, alert and doing everything like she should. What does your gut tell you? If I were you I would go with your instinct, Mom's know their babies better than the docs, even when they are still in their tummies. Axelrod C-Section on Thursday & measuring too small Hi buddies, I am having a (repeat) C-Section scheduled on Thursday, August 26th. My whole issue is during my last office visit he tells me that I am measuring smaller than I should. He decided to do another u/s (my 5th one) to check the Amitotic fluid. He started asking questions like how much did my daughter weighted (9lbs3oz) and was she early or late (3weeks early) and then he went through my file with the nurse but said nothing to me or my husband to what was going on. My daughter was big and she was 3 weeks early from the EDD b/c of Toxemia. Not too much of a difference from this baby - This baby is scheduled 3 weeks early on Aug 26th from the (REAL from my period) EDD of Sept 13th. This Dr visit (he's almost ready to retire) he did measurements of the baby and told us that she was under weight and small for her age at only 6 pounds. It made me cry b/c I have gained just as much with this pregnancy as I did with my daughter (pre-WLS). I feel like I failed.that this baby is so small compared to my daughter. My Dr changed our due date to Sept 6th b/c she measured bigger than normal. He said she may even be older but the average size comes to a week older in size. Last month during an u/s my daughter had a roll under her chin and Dr laughed and said she's " big and healthy " . That's when he scheduled the C-Section b/c she was (still) big for her size. Or was it b/c of the WLS surgery.don't understand that b/c I gained just as much. I have been going to my Dr's twice a week all this month b/c of me being high risk for Toxemia so the due date stays the same I can't push it back. I am so confused -- how can a Dr say she's measures bigger than normal -- big and healthy.Until the week before my surgery and say she's smaller and weights only 6 pounds? I only have 4 more days to find out if he is right or wrong but I can't stop thinking about why there would be such a big difference. Any one with ideas? Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 24, 2004 Report Share Posted August 24, 2004 ita, If you really press these docs they will all admit that none of their measurements and tests will be 100% accurate. I have heard from several women who were told they were going to have huge babies and then end up popping out 6 pounders and vice versa. Also, keep in mind that if your baby girl is small, maybe thats just the way she is supposed to be. My Hannah is small but she is perfect and healthy in every way, alert and doing everything like she should. What does your gut tell you? If I were you I would go with your instinct, Mom's know their babies better than the docs, even when they are still in their tummies. Axelrod C-Section on Thursday & measuring too small Hi buddies, I am having a (repeat) C-Section scheduled on Thursday, August 26th. My whole issue is during my last office visit he tells me that I am measuring smaller than I should. He decided to do another u/s (my 5th one) to check the Amitotic fluid. He started asking questions like how much did my daughter weighted (9lbs3oz) and was she early or late (3weeks early) and then he went through my file with the nurse but said nothing to me or my husband to what was going on. My daughter was big and she was 3 weeks early from the EDD b/c of Toxemia. Not too much of a difference from this baby - This baby is scheduled 3 weeks early on Aug 26th from the (REAL from my period) EDD of Sept 13th. This Dr visit (he's almost ready to retire) he did measurements of the baby and told us that she was under weight and small for her age at only 6 pounds. It made me cry b/c I have gained just as much with this pregnancy as I did with my daughter (pre-WLS). I feel like I failed.that this baby is so small compared to my daughter. My Dr changed our due date to Sept 6th b/c she measured bigger than normal. He said she may even be older but the average size comes to a week older in size. Last month during an u/s my daughter had a roll under her chin and Dr laughed and said she's " big and healthy " . That's when he scheduled the C-Section b/c she was (still) big for her size. Or was it b/c of the WLS surgery.don't understand that b/c I gained just as much. I have been going to my Dr's twice a week all this month b/c of me being high risk for Toxemia so the due date stays the same I can't push it back. I am so confused -- how can a Dr say she's measures bigger than normal -- big and healthy.Until the week before my surgery and say she's smaller and weights only 6 pounds? I only have 4 more days to find out if he is right or wrong but I can't stop thinking about why there would be such a big difference. Any one with ideas? Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You are posting as a guest. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.
Note: Your post will require moderator approval before it will be visible.