Guest guest Posted August 30, 2004 Report Share Posted August 30, 2004 I would not want a doc that was a newbie either. stick to your guns. Glad baby is doing well too, that heartbeat sound is the best. God Bless, Robin Wife to Pup for 15 years Mommy to- and (twin boys, 8 years) and Daughter Madison- age 5 1/2 and new Mommy to- Emerson Roger born July 28, 2004 at 4:11 am 8lbs 7 oz, 20 1/2 inches long. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 30, 2004 Report Share Posted August 30, 2004 It started off pretty interesting:the assistant ignored my request NOT to know what my weight is. Thanks, 'mam. Turns out I've gained about 12 lbs total, not too shabby, esp with all the grazing. Got to meet the brand new doc, who looked about 23 years old. I was gentle like a dove & informed her about my unconventiohnal birth plan, she wasn't entirely thrilled & attempted to dissuade me...mighty futile. She said that she's only done " minor episiotomies " during the 600 deliveries she's done. Mmmm, I see. She also ---tried--- to rush me, sorry, I asked each & every one of my ?s. Bottom line, after having a chat with the very nice scheduling lady, we agreed that since I have rapport with one wonderful doc in particular, (that has 22 years of experience), I will ONLY see him for the entirety of my pg, rather than being shuffled around. OB #1 was too clinically dispasssionate, & #3 & I are not on the same page, plus she made me anxious. This 1st timer isn't in the market for more stress. Bb is great, he's 4 cm above the navel, right on track, & of course I was a weepy mess when I tape recorded his heartbeat. WlsMomma 24 weeks today Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 30, 2004 Report Share Posted August 30, 2004 Good for you for standing up for what you need! Glad to hear that bb is doing well. Axelrod 24 week appt, got to meet doc # 3 It started off pretty interesting:the assistant ignored my request NOT to know what my weight is. Thanks, 'mam. Turns out I've gained about 12 lbs total, not too shabby, esp with all the grazing. Got to meet the brand new doc, who looked about 23 years old. I was gentle like a dove & informed her about my unconventiohnal birth plan, she wasn't entirely thrilled & attempted to dissuade me...mighty futile. She said that she's only done " minor episiotomies " during the 600 deliveries she's done. Mmmm, I see. She also ---tried--- to rush me, sorry, I asked each & every one of my ?s. Bottom line, after having a chat with the very nice scheduling lady, we agreed that since I have rapport with one wonderful doc in particular, (that has 22 years of experience), I will ONLY see him for the entirety of my pg, rather than being shuffled around. OB #1 was too clinically dispasssionate, & #3 & I are not on the same page, plus she made me anxious. This 1st timer isn't in the market for more stress. Bb is great, he's 4 cm above the navel, right on track, & of course I was a weepy mess when I tape recorded his heartbeat. WlsMomma 24 weeks today Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 30, 2004 Report Share Posted August 30, 2004 Thanks, . I felt VERY compelled to advocate for myself. Didn't want to feel like another number, another piece in their assembly line. WlsMomma > Good for you for standing up for what you need! Glad to hear that bb is doing well. > Axelrod Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 30, 2004 Report Share Posted August 30, 2004 Thanks Robin. Sometimes I feel I shouldn't be so assertive, but on the other hand, I'm scared that if I'm meek, I'll get steamrolled. WlsMomma > I would not want a doc that was a newbie either. stick to your guns. Glad > baby is doing well too, that heartbeat sound is the best. > > > God Bless, Robin > Wife to Pup for 15 years > Mommy to- > and > (twin boys, 8 years) and > Daughter Madison- age 5 1/2 > and new Mommy to- > Emerson Roger born > July 28, 2004 at 4:11 am > 8lbs 7 oz, 20 1/2 inches long. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2004 Report Share Posted August 31, 2004 In a message dated 8/31/2004 11:20:49 AM Eastern Daylight Time, brideandgroom2001@... writes: ?s on everything from arranging for blood transfusions from family members, to the time frame for the iron & GD tests, whether we're allowed Bean-o (lol),what to do when my saddlebags fall asleep while I'm lying on my sides, etc. ------------------------- Oh man girl.. you put me to shame!!! I am impressed at your organization. For me.. I just wanna know 1) my weight 2) my bp 3) Jonah's heartbeat 4) amniotic fluid level 5) am I dialated? You are just a few weeks behind me.... how excited are you getting??? I personally am finally getting excited about the baby.... since I am almost 29 weeks... I love watching my stomach jump... LOL *************************************************** K in Ft Lauderdale Noah - 10/14/02 (31 weeker - DX of SID ) Jonah - edd 11/18/04 ( currently High Risk Pg.. not WLS related) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2004 Report Share Posted August 31, 2004 congrats WLSmomma...good for you sticking up for yourself and taking your time, you go girl. congrats on the BB being great...hugs, jenn aka mom2ben99 (jennilee75@...) Kay Independent Beauty Consultant http://www.marykay.com/koopmans I have all your summer care needs...tanning lotion, sunblock, even sunblock for your lips, get yours today! 24 week appt, got to meet doc # 3 It started off pretty interesting:the assistant ignored my request NOT to know what my weight is. Thanks, 'mam. Turns out I've gained about 12 lbs total, not too shabby, esp with all the grazing. Got to meet the brand new doc, who looked about 23 years old. I was gentle like a dove & informed her about my unconventiohnal birth plan, she wasn't entirely thrilled & attempted to dissuade me...mighty futile. She said that she's only done " minor episiotomies " during the 600 deliveries she's done. Mmmm, I see. She also ---tried--- to rush me, sorry, I asked each & every one of my ?s. Bottom line, after having a chat with the very nice scheduling lady, we agreed that since I have rapport with one wonderful doc in particular, (that has 22 years of experience), I will ONLY see him for the entirety of my pg, rather than being shuffled around. OB #1 was too clinically dispasssionate, & #3 & I are not on the same page, plus she made me anxious. This 1st timer isn't in the market for more stress. Bb is great, he's 4 cm above the navel, right on track, & of course I was a weepy mess when I tape recorded his heartbeat. WlsMomma 24 weeks today Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 31, 2004 Report Share Posted August 31, 2004 Thanks, . I compile my list my ?s, keep them in my purse & then transfer them to my little pg notebook. ?s on everything from arranging for blood transfusions from family members, to the time frame for the iron & GD tests, whether we're allowed Bean-o (lol),what to do when my saddlebags fall asleep while I'm lying on my sides, etc. Plus, my " real " doc had asked me to report who my bb's pediatrician is gonna be. So all this stuff takes time, so I made sure it was all taken care of. Maybe this new doc has pressure to move the patients along, but nothing's more important than the little patient in my belly;-) WlsMomma > congrats WLSmomma...good for you sticking up for yourself and taking your time, you go girl. congrats on the BB being great...hugs, jenn > > aka mom2ben99 (jennilee75@c...) > Kay Independent Beauty Consultant > http://www.marykay.com/koopmans > > I have all your summer care needs...tanning lotion, sunblock, even sunblock for your lips, get yours today! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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