Re: Very, very embarassing question

[Guest guest]

-

Hi there......

Well...I can understand what you mean........when I see my

tummy......during intimate moments........it does distract me and

makes me think of the baby and being a " mommy " and I immediately

get " out of the moment and mood " ........hubby knows this. I have told

him this......so......just talk to your hubby about your

feelings......tell him that it makes you think of being a " mommy " at

that moment and not a " sexy lover " .....or whatever term you

prefer......but that is exactly how I feel....so I can empathize with

you! Good luck!

Terri in Texas

EDD: 3-1-05

14 wks 5 days pregnant

-- In OSSG-pregnant , " brideandgroom2001 "

<brideandgroom2001@y...> wrote:

> ...Speaking of telling our husbands, how do I (or should I) tell dh

> that touching my preggo belly during, um, eh, intimacy, is

distracting

> to me? Don't want to make him uncomfortable. He never touched my

> obese belly, from 2+ years ago...

> It's my hang-ups I suppose, but I don't equate my basketball belly

> with sensuality.

> Thoughts?

> Oh, & no complaints otherwise.

> WlsMomma

> 25 weeks, 1 day

[Guest guest]

Thanks, Terri. Heehee, kinda reminds me of my FIL, who kept asking

if I was showing. (He lives in Europe). I gave him a private

nickname: 'kinky weirdo'. What's with the obsession with the preggo

belly?

WlsMomma

> -

> Hi there......

> Well...I can understand what you mean........when I see my

> tummy......during intimate moments........it does distract me and

> makes me think of the baby and being a " mommy " and I immediately

> get " out of the moment and mood " ........hubby knows this. I have

told

> him this......so......just talk to your hubby about your

> feelings......tell him that it makes you think of being a " mommy "

at

> that moment and not a " sexy lover " .....or whatever term you

> prefer......but that is exactly how I feel....so I can empathize

with

> you! Good luck!

>

> Terri in Texas

> EDD: 3-1-05

> 14 wks 5 days pregnant

[Guest guest]

Hi Sharyn. Yeah, there's definitely a level of mystery & intrigue &

awe....pg & preggo bellies;-)

You're 35 weeks, omgoodness, can't imagine that, yet. I keep

thinking I'll have swollen feet & refrigerator toes. How are you?

WlsMomma

25 weeks, 2 days

>

> My dh does the samething. Sometimes it doesnt bother me and

sometimes it makes me really uncomfortable. So sometimes I say

something to him and sometimes I dont. How's that for pregnancy

hormones. lol

>

> I've asked if it reminds him of when I was obese. He said no. I

think he is intrigued because this time he can see my pregnant belly

and last time I just looked bigger.

>

> Sharyn 35 weeks and counting....

>