Re: Cheer up - (long sorry)

[Guest guest]

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Hang on! Your time will come. I believe that God has a plan for us and he

knows when that little child will be the perfect time for you.

We tried for over 3 years, with a year break in the middle so it's been 4

years I've had having a baby on my mind. The first 2.5, I was very obese,

didn't ovulate right, and had a hard time planning conception. I then

decided I was not going to lose my weight on my own so I had Gastric Bypass

and with that surgery, you need to wait a year to try conceiving again. But

I knew it would happen when I leveled out from my loss. Since January of

this year, I began taking temps, Dr. gave me clomid and I was using my clear

plan fertility monitor. It worked. But then I miscarried. So...after I

got back on track with my cycle, I began the process again, only this time,

Dr. put me on med's to plump up my ovaries. It was a very stressful 4

months. DH did not like the " okay honey, today's the day, lets do it " plan.

It very much stressed him out, then stressed me out, then I cried every

ovulation time to figure out how to get him to BD without causing a

discontent moment. It was difficult!

So, June of this year, I said. I'm going to let it go. Not say a word.

Not even take temps in front of him, or leave my fertility monitor out. I

just did everything as though it was not a big deal. Then when ovulation

time came around, everything just fell into place. I never said " it was

time " or anything, just made my moves! *wink*

It worked! I was pregnant. The first words out of his mouth were.... " See,

I told you when you didn't do all that other stuff and make it hard on

yourself you'd get pregnant. " LOL I told him, well, I just knew when the

time was right. *wink wink*

He is so excited about this baby. We are having a great time going through

this process. Unless you count planning the nursery that will take over his

computer room. That's a sore subject yet. LOL

That's my little story! Hope it makes you smile. I wouldn't be honest if I

didn't say day after day, when is it going to be my time????? I should

also tell you, that for the last 8 years, I had been inactive in our church.

I missed it terribly, but because my DH and I lived together before we were

married, I felt I would be excommunicated. We belong to very very different

religions. After my miscarriage, I decided to go back and face my

transgressions. It was the best decision I ever made. Bringing that

spirituality back into my life brought more than just the pregnancy miracle

to me. I have been happier, more successful and stronger for it. I'm so

happy I have my Heavenly Father to go too in time of need and thank him

everyday for the blessings he has given me. There is a hymn, " Because I

have been given much, I too must give. " I have become a better person and

will bring my child into a home that He would now want a child to come into.

Things happen for a reason!

I'll keep you in my prayers ! Keep us posted for next month!

~Sandy (Buffalo, NY)

RNY Dr.Caruana - 5/21/03

330/198

Expecting #1 - 3/17/05

14 Weeks

[Guest guest]

Smiles & Hugs . You'll be in my prayers everyday!

Sandy

-- Re: Cheer up - (long sorry)

Oh Sandy your words touch me so much I read thsi post over and over with flowing

tears. I am so blessed truly blessed, its amazing how paths of people you may

never cross can touch your heart so much. Your testimony was truly a blessing a

blessing!!!!!!!!!! I will contiue to keep the faith, and one day soon I will

have be able to share my joy of being pregnant. Keep me in prayer.

[Guest guest]

Smiles & Hugs . You'll be in my prayers everyday!

Sandy

-- Re: Cheer up - (long sorry)

Oh Sandy your words touch me so much I read thsi post over and over with flowing

tears. I am so blessed truly blessed, its amazing how paths of people you may

never cross can touch your heart so much. Your testimony was truly a blessing a

blessing!!!!!!!!!! I will contiue to keep the faith, and one day soon I will

have be able to share my joy of being pregnant. Keep me in prayer.