Re: I need some support and help.

[Guest guest]

Oh Shalonda.. Men DONT change!! If this is something you can not deal with-

GET OUT NOW! The longer you stay, the more attached you become, the harder

it is to leave. SO this is something only you can decide.. but know, that he

will NOT change.. I love my hubby to death but he has some bad habits that if

I knew about before, I wouldnt be with him now.. Now the fact is that I love

him too much to leave him... You need to do whats best for you and your

little guy!

~Ginny, Proud Mommy of Wally and y

Born 10-19-03

[Guest guest]

Oh Shalonda.. Men DONT change!! If this is something you can not deal with-

GET OUT NOW! The longer you stay, the more attached you become, the harder

it is to leave. SO this is something only you can decide.. but know, that he

will NOT change.. I love my hubby to death but he has some bad habits that if

I knew about before, I wouldnt be with him now.. Now the fact is that I love

him too much to leave him... You need to do whats best for you and your

little guy!

~Ginny, Proud Mommy of Wally and y

Born 10-19-03

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 9/15/2004 9:15:36 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

luckigins@... writes:

Oh Shalonda.. Men DONT change!! If this is something you can not deal with-

GET OUT NOW! The longer you stay, the more attached you become, the harder

it is to leave.

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AMEN Sister!!!

Ain't that the truth!

I have been waiting 2 years for my dh to change... ain't happening.. and now

I am stuck

at 31 weeks preggers.( Valentines Day )... and not financially independent

because I have a 2 year old.

I never finished college ( my bad) so by the time I get a job and daycare for

just 1 child.. I still can't pay rent.

My mistake was getting married when I got pregnant with Noah. I should have

just stayed single instead of doing what I thought would be the " right " thing.

Dump him .. Dump him.. Dump him!

Believe me.. I would rather be single and alone with BOB ( Battery operated

boyfriend) then married or partnered with someone who is always disappointing

me.

***************************************************

K in Ft Lauderdale

Noah - 10/14/02 (31 weeker - DX of SID )

Jonah - edd 11/18/04 ( currently High Risk Pg.. not WLS related)

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 9/15/2004 9:15:36 PM Eastern Daylight Time,

luckigins@... writes:

Oh Shalonda.. Men DONT change!! If this is something you can not deal with-

GET OUT NOW! The longer you stay, the more attached you become, the harder

it is to leave.

--------------------------------

AMEN Sister!!!

Ain't that the truth!

I have been waiting 2 years for my dh to change... ain't happening.. and now

I am stuck

at 31 weeks preggers.( Valentines Day )... and not financially independent

because I have a 2 year old.

I never finished college ( my bad) so by the time I get a job and daycare for

just 1 child.. I still can't pay rent.

My mistake was getting married when I got pregnant with Noah. I should have

just stayed single instead of doing what I thought would be the " right " thing.

Dump him .. Dump him.. Dump him!

Believe me.. I would rather be single and alone with BOB ( Battery operated

boyfriend) then married or partnered with someone who is always disappointing

me.

***************************************************

K in Ft Lauderdale

Noah - 10/14/02 (31 weeker - DX of SID )

Jonah - edd 11/18/04 ( currently High Risk Pg.. not WLS related)

[Guest guest]

SHALONDA,

I THINK THAT IF YOU READ THE TWO STATEMENTS YOU JUST MADE THAT YOU

MIGHT BE ABLE TO ANSWER YOUR OWN QUESTIONS.

ALSO IF HE IS NOT PAYING THE BILLS, WHERE IS HIS MONEY GOING?

JUST A THOUGHT, AND KEEP YOUR CHIN UP. IT WILL ALL WORK OUT ONE WAY

OR ANOTHER AND REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE WORTHY AND DESERVE THE BEST....

" But I just emptied my bank account to keep us in our current

apartment and I have furniture left to pay "

" I wanted so much more from a partner or

spouse. More than I think he would ever be able to give me. "

Thanks, Shalonda

> RNY 9/11/03

> 300+/17?/??? dont want to know what the scale says now!!!

> EDD 1/8-9/05 with baby boy Malachi.

[Guest guest]

SHALONDA,

I THINK THAT IF YOU READ THE TWO STATEMENTS YOU JUST MADE THAT YOU

MIGHT BE ABLE TO ANSWER YOUR OWN QUESTIONS.

ALSO IF HE IS NOT PAYING THE BILLS, WHERE IS HIS MONEY GOING?

JUST A THOUGHT, AND KEEP YOUR CHIN UP. IT WILL ALL WORK OUT ONE WAY

OR ANOTHER AND REMEMBER THAT YOU ARE WORTHY AND DESERVE THE BEST....

" But I just emptied my bank account to keep us in our current

apartment and I have furniture left to pay "

" I wanted so much more from a partner or

spouse. More than I think he would ever be able to give me. "

Thanks, Shalonda

> RNY 9/11/03

> 300+/17?/??? dont want to know what the scale says now!!!

> EDD 1/8-9/05 with baby boy Malachi.