Guest guest Posted September 20, 2004 Report Share Posted September 20, 2004 New here. My husband and I have decided to start officially trying to have a baby in December. I stopped taking my birth control pills as of yesterday (when I would have normally started a new pack). I tried to get pregnant with my first husband for about 7 months and no success. That was before weight loss surgery. I have gone from 260lbs to about 150lbs now and am in a much better, happier relationship with my second husband now. I am scared that I won't be able to get pregnant. And I am one of those worry wart people. We actually bought some baby stuff really dirt cheap this weekend from someone who was just desparate to get rid of it...so I already have a newborn tub, a bouncy seat, a swing and a baby carrier. I hope I'm not jinxing anything, but we can't afford to buy it all new and to wait until last minute to get things. I am just so worried that we are going to try and try and I won't be able to conceive. Even my doctor said that since losing the weight and the bad stress from the first marriage that I " shouldn't " have problems with fertility, I am still petrified. I would be some crushingly disappointed if I can't get pregnant. Any ideas how to ease the worries? Thanks! (sorry so long) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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