Re: Your Doc's a Butt Head !!

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I'm still looking for someone. Pray for me that if this is God's will for

my life that someone will agree to follow me.

Robin

Re: Digest Number 2463

> >

> >

> > >In a message dated 11/12/00 8:29:04 PM Eastern Standard Time,

> > >MiniGastricBypass (AT) egroups (DOT) com writes:

> > >

> > >

> > >> She said she will not support me and that I should use willpower. I

> tried

> > to

> > >> explain myself and she said I was taking the " EASY way out. " Of

course

> I

> > >> told

> > >> her this is definitely NOT the easy way out. She is sooooooo stubborn

> and

> > >> opinionated. I finally said " let's not discuss it then. We can agree

> to

> > >> disagree and remain friends. " She said " I guess so. bye " and hug up.

> > >> Both my hubby and daughter are excited about it and very supportive.

> > Should

> > >> I

> > >>

> > >

> > >Hi Joni,

> > >

> > >For the most part I had a lot of support. But, there were a couple of

> > people

> > >who were not supportive. I did not speak to them about this anymore

than

> I

> > >had to. I am very STUBBORN and will not tolerate anyone who tries to

> change

> > >my opinion about something I feel will better my life. It took a little

> > >persuading to get my parents to understand, but they eventually came

> around

> > >and when they did ... they supported me 100%. My Mom even wrote my

> support

> > >letter. There are many different reasons why someone wouldn't support

you

> > ...

> > >maybe they don't understand obesity, or maybe they are jealous...etc.I

> had

> > my

> > >best friend's brother tell me that my decision to have surgery was an

> > >irresponsible one and that I was taking the easy way out. I just looked

> at

> > >him and said -- " Easy for you to say-you have kids- I can't because of

> > >obesity. You have never had a weight problem- I have had one my whole

> life.

> > >You lead a normal life- I get sneered at daily because of my weight

> > problem.

> > >I have an expected short life span because of morbid obesity. What else

> is

> > >there to do? I have tried it all. " Dr. Rutledge spends his life saving

> many

> > >other's lives. He can cure so many diseases and prevent so many

> diseases...

> > >Diabetes, sleep apnea, incontinence, arthritis, and many more. You know

> > them-

> > >I assume you have read the manual. In my opinion, you should sit and

> > explain

> > >everything to her, bring the manual and show it to her. If she is so

> > stubborn

> > >that she won't take the time to listen, then you need to find other

> > friends.

> > >I am sorry this is so long, but it " pisses " me off when " skinny " people

> > don't

> > >want MO people to do what they need to do to save their own lives.

> Surgery

> > is

> > >not the easy way out- it is a tool. God gave Dr. R the knowledge and

> > ability

> > >to save our lives. We are not fools for using this tool- we are fools

if

> we

> > >don't. I am glad that you can find support from your family... please

> know

> > >you have support here. We all go through the same issues... everyday of

> our

> > >lives. If you can't talk amongst your peers here... who else knows what

> you

> > >have to deal with better?

> > >

> > >I can't wait to hear about you being on " the other side " !

> > >Good luck,

> > >

> > >Terri K :^)

> > >MGB 10-12-00

> > >340/306/1??

> > >

> > >

> > >

[Guest guest]

I'm still looking for someone. Pray for me that if this is God's will for

my life that someone will agree to follow me.

Robin

Re: Digest Number 2463

> >

> >

> > >In a message dated 11/12/00 8:29:04 PM Eastern Standard Time,

> > >MiniGastricBypass (AT) egroups (DOT) com writes:

> > >

> > >

> > >> She said she will not support me and that I should use willpower. I

> tried

> > to

> > >> explain myself and she said I was taking the " EASY way out. " Of

course

> I

> > >> told

> > >> her this is definitely NOT the easy way out. She is sooooooo stubborn

> and

> > >> opinionated. I finally said " let's not discuss it then. We can agree

> to

> > >> disagree and remain friends. " She said " I guess so. bye " and hug up.

> > >> Both my hubby and daughter are excited about it and very supportive.

> > Should

> > >> I

> > >>

> > >

> > >Hi Joni,

> > >

> > >For the most part I had a lot of support. But, there were a couple of

> > people

> > >who were not supportive. I did not speak to them about this anymore

than

> I

> > >had to. I am very STUBBORN and will not tolerate anyone who tries to

> change

> > >my opinion about something I feel will better my life. It took a little

> > >persuading to get my parents to understand, but they eventually came

> around

> > >and when they did ... they supported me 100%. My Mom even wrote my

> support

> > >letter. There are many different reasons why someone wouldn't support

you

> > ...

> > >maybe they don't understand obesity, or maybe they are jealous...etc.I

> had

> > my

> > >best friend's brother tell me that my decision to have surgery was an

> > >irresponsible one and that I was taking the easy way out. I just looked

> at

> > >him and said -- " Easy for you to say-you have kids- I can't because of

> > >obesity. You have never had a weight problem- I have had one my whole

> life.

> > >You lead a normal life- I get sneered at daily because of my weight

> > problem.

> > >I have an expected short life span because of morbid obesity. What else

> is

> > >there to do? I have tried it all. " Dr. Rutledge spends his life saving

> many

> > >other's lives. He can cure so many diseases and prevent so many

> diseases...

> > >Diabetes, sleep apnea, incontinence, arthritis, and many more. You know

> > them-

> > >I assume you have read the manual. In my opinion, you should sit and

> > explain

> > >everything to her, bring the manual and show it to her. If she is so

> > stubborn

> > >that she won't take the time to listen, then you need to find other

> > friends.

> > >I am sorry this is so long, but it " pisses " me off when " skinny " people

> > don't

> > >want MO people to do what they need to do to save their own lives.

> Surgery

> > is

> > >not the easy way out- it is a tool. God gave Dr. R the knowledge and

> > ability

> > >to save our lives. We are not fools for using this tool- we are fools

if

> we

> > >don't. I am glad that you can find support from your family... please

> know

> > >you have support here. We all go through the same issues... everyday of

> our

> > >lives. If you can't talk amongst your peers here... who else knows what

> you

> > >have to deal with better?

> > >

> > >I can't wait to hear about you being on " the other side " !

> > >Good luck,

> > >

> > >Terri K :^)

> > >MGB 10-12-00

> > >340/306/1??

> > >

> > >

> > >