RE: >>Debz

[Guest guest]

Thanks for responding. refuses to got to the hospital, there

have been many times where that is where she should be. I know that

she needs antidepressants badly and her husband and I discussed that

last evening. He says there are some there but she wont take them.

She has developed so many other things along with the pancreatitis.

She has thyroid problems, arthritis, has gained so much weight, and

other things that I can understand why she is depressed, but it has

to end. She has got to think of those kids. I imagine that her

daughter will be here as soon as school is out. She says she cant

stand it over there. has a lot of hurting in her knees and

that is one reason she uses for not standing, but she also sits too

much in that chair and she needs to move around.

will not leave the house to go for a walk, sit out in ths sun,

she wont go to grocery, to any other store, doenst wnat anyone to

see her or she doenst want to see anyone. She hardly ever bathes or

washes her hair. And she was a person who kept so clean it is

impossible to even tell. Every hair had to be in place, bathed 2 or

more times a day. This thing has just taken over her life and is

ruining the whole family.

I wish I could talk to the present Dr she is going to and explain

all this to him and let him know how bad it really is. But you know

how it is now with that privacy act. I have tried before.

I know she is hurting and dont dispute her on that but she has to

help herself before anyone else can, and I dont know what to do

anymore.

Jean