RE: >Debs

[Guest guest]

I have thought of everything that you have said. And I do agree she

needs medical and mental help. The problem for me is getting it for

her. I tried to tell her husband last nite that he was going to

have to step in and take some things under his own control. But he

just says every time he mentions anything to her, she gets mad and

they fight and he done trying that.

I have done something today, that if finds out, she will be

extremely mad at me. Since I know I cannot call and talk to the Dr

and have him tell me anything, I sat down and wrote him a long

letter explaining how she is behaving and telling what I think needs

to be done with her. I am sure he is not aware of the way she leads

her life.

At the moment that is about all I can think of to do and I only hope

he takes it to heart and tells her that she has to go elsewhere and

seek help. If he tells her I have written, will quit talking

to me and possibly keep the kids away from me.

I am in a no win situation. Legally I have no power, it is in her

husbands hands and he has his own health problems and think he is at

the end of his rope too.

If only I knew of a way to get that money for her, maybe she would

be able to have the surgery.

Who knows? I know that I dont anymore. This is becoming

overpowering to me. Jean