Hi

[Guest guest]

Hello to you all, I have been offline for over 3 weeks now. My

husband first had a stroke, then blood pressure plummeted and had to

transfer him to a hosptital away from here and then he had to have a

stent put in his heart. He is still in the hospital, very weak and

in a confused state of mind.

The Dr is now wanting him to go to a nursing home for rehabilitation

and he is refusing. Every avenue leads to a dead end where he is

concerned. It is either bring him home or a nursing home. I dont

think I can manage him here at home alone and he is adamant about

the nursing home. So as of this moment, I am not sure what will

happen. Last night he threw verbally threw both the Dr and myself

out of the room. He is blaming the nursing home all on me and

saying I am only trying to get rid of him.

I have been with him day and a lots of nights since this all

happened and to have him talk to me the way he did really hurts. I

have stayed away from hospital today and him, thinking it might be

for the best to give him time to think.

I am worn out and about to crack under all the strain myself.

has been going thru another pancreas attack and been quite

ill. She wont give into going to Dr or hospital and right now there

is nothing I can do for her.

She has managed to get to hospital 2 times since this happened.

I have lost out on who has had their surgeries and if anything new

has developed in regard to the pancreas. My husbands state of

affairs and s both seem to be ruled by insurance and money.

This is one horrible thing that the USA needs to look into and do

something about.

would have the TP/ICT if we only had the 16,000.00 they want

upfront.

Some days life really doesnt seem worth the effort one must put into

it to keep going.

Wishing you all well,

Jean

[Guest guest]

Jean,

My house is always open to you if you ever feel you just need to get

away from everyone and everything for a few days...with all the

pressure you have on your shoulders, I can imagine how it would be

heaven not to have to do or think about anyone except yourself for a

little while

So for starters, you should take the phone off the hook, fill up the

bathtub with some bubblebath and/or salts, put on a face mask, and a

nice cold drink, and just relax with some music playing. It might not

be going anywhere, but hopefully your mind can travel away from your

husband and daughter for a little while..

Regards,