Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 I dont think 's feelings should be hurt. It was only pointed out that others should not expect the same results. She had more weight to lose, a different surgery and complications after the surgery. All that was said is that others should not look for 70 lb losses in 30+ days. I see no reason for her to leave or have her feelings hurt by anything that was said. Michele Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 I dont think 's feelings should be hurt. It was only pointed out that others should not expect the same results. She had more weight to lose, a different surgery and complications after the surgery. All that was said is that others should not look for 70 lb losses in 30+ days. I see no reason for her to leave or have her feelings hurt by anything that was said. Michele Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 , I am sincerely sorry that you feel that way and I know that many people care about you on this list. Take care and know that I wish you only the best. I am glad you are doing better. Larice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 , I am sincerely sorry that you feel that way and I know that many people care about you on this list. Take care and know that I wish you only the best. I am glad you are doing better. Larice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 Lynda, best wishes! You are on your way. Larice 01/04/01 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 Lynda, best wishes! You are on your way. Larice 01/04/01 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 ...don't go. You add diversity to the list. I am not jealous of your loss. You deserve it. We all had the surgery because we need to lose weight. I don't begrudge your big loss. This is a journey... We all have the same struggle... Flo...get to stay...and spank the one who hurt 's feelings... le\ le, I think these are important comments and we want all kinds of people here, not just MGB people from Dr. R? I think we can all learn from each other and I hate to see someone's feelings get hurt. Larice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 ...don't go. You add diversity to the list. I am not jealous of your loss. You deserve it. We all had the surgery because we need to lose weight. I don't begrudge your big loss. This is a journey... We all have the same struggle... Flo...get to stay...and spank the one who hurt 's feelings... le\ le, I think these are important comments and we want all kinds of people here, not just MGB people from Dr. R? I think we can all learn from each other and I hate to see someone's feelings get hurt. Larice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 Yeahhhhhhhhhh Joni! So happy to get your post and the note about your daughter and hubby! Best wishes! Larice 01/04/01 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 Yeahhhhhhhhhh Joni! So happy to get your post and the note about your daughter and hubby! Best wishes! Larice 01/04/01 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 , Please don't leave the list. Your information is very important to all of us pre-ops. We hope that everyone is honest with us, good and bad. We rely on all the post-ops for their experiences so that we can make an educated decision on what is right for each of us. Weight loss is your goal, you just happen to be acheiving your goal quicker than most. Fantastic for you!! It will probably slow down a bit now that you've had your problem corrected. This could happen to any one of us having gastric bypass surgery of any type. As with you, this is totally new to each of us as we cross over to post-op. It takes us time to learn if things are " normal " or not. Roux n Y, or MGB, it is a complete change of lifestyle. A whole new world of learning. But, you certainly know this better than I do. I am hoping to have the MGB soon!!! I wish the very best to you. Please stay with us and continue to share your valuable experiences. Take care and God bless. Bay City, MI Re: Digest Number 2695 > , I am sincerely sorry that you feel that way and I know that many > people care about you on this list. Take care and know that I wish you > only the best. I am glad you are doing better. Larice > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 , Please don't leave the list. Your information is very important to all of us pre-ops. We hope that everyone is honest with us, good and bad. We rely on all the post-ops for their experiences so that we can make an educated decision on what is right for each of us. Weight loss is your goal, you just happen to be acheiving your goal quicker than most. Fantastic for you!! It will probably slow down a bit now that you've had your problem corrected. This could happen to any one of us having gastric bypass surgery of any type. As with you, this is totally new to each of us as we cross over to post-op. It takes us time to learn if things are " normal " or not. Roux n Y, or MGB, it is a complete change of lifestyle. A whole new world of learning. But, you certainly know this better than I do. I am hoping to have the MGB soon!!! I wish the very best to you. Please stay with us and continue to share your valuable experiences. Take care and God bless. Bay City, MI Re: Digest Number 2695 > , I am sincerely sorry that you feel that way and I know that many > people care about you on this list. Take care and know that I wish you > only the best. I am glad you are doing better. Larice > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 I agree with . No one meant anything derogatory towards - the point that was trying to be made (at least as far as I understood it) was that someone brand new might read a post from her and think " Whoa! Some people are losing 70 pounds a months! Is this typical? " Like many of the post-oppers sign off with their date of surgery, pre and current weight, perhaps should sign her name, type of surgery, and even that she had a complication that was corrected. That's alot to write, but people just won't know what to think if all that is posted is : 70 pounds lost in 4 weeksfeeling much better love Anyway, I hate to have misunderstandings and such, so stay on - we were all rooting for you, and worried about you, and are glad that things are better. No hard feelings huh? Re: Digest Number 2695 > I dont think 's feelings should be hurt. It was only pointed out that > others should not expect the same results. She had more weight to lose, a > different surgery and complications after the surgery. All that was said is > that others should not look for 70 lb losses in 30+ days. I see no reason > for her to leave or have her feelings hurt by anything that was said. > Michele > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 28, 2000 Report Share Posted December 28, 2000 I agree with . No one meant anything derogatory towards - the point that was trying to be made (at least as far as I understood it) was that someone brand new might read a post from her and think " Whoa! Some people are losing 70 pounds a months! Is this typical? " Like many of the post-oppers sign off with their date of surgery, pre and current weight, perhaps should sign her name, type of surgery, and even that she had a complication that was corrected. That's alot to write, but people just won't know what to think if all that is posted is : 70 pounds lost in 4 weeksfeeling much better love Anyway, I hate to have misunderstandings and such, so stay on - we were all rooting for you, and worried about you, and are glad that things are better. No hard feelings huh? Re: Digest Number 2695 > I dont think 's feelings should be hurt. It was only pointed out that > others should not expect the same results. She had more weight to lose, a > different surgery and complications after the surgery. All that was said is > that others should not look for 70 lb losses in 30+ days. I see no reason > for her to leave or have her feelings hurt by anything that was said. > Michele > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2000 Report Share Posted December 29, 2000 thanks michelle but i have learn not to say how iam doing but i feel great now so thanks again vanessa from ohio. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2000 Report Share Posted December 29, 2000 thanks michelle but i have learn not to say how iam doing but i feel great now so thanks again vanessa from ohio. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2000 Report Share Posted December 29, 2000 thanks again for your support but i have learn what to not to say and what to say on here i see this is a group that is suppose to be out for each other experiences but i see some dont look at it that way so thanks again vanessa. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2000 Report Share Posted December 29, 2000 thanks again for your support but i have learn what to not to say and what to say on here i see this is a group that is suppose to be out for each other experiences but i see some dont look at it that way so thanks again vanessa. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2000 Report Share Posted December 29, 2000 Dear , Sorry to say this but I think you are making a mountain out of a moe hill and it really isnt necessary. We all care what happens to you and how you are doing and have expressed it numerous times. Things are said to you out of concern not to criticize you for having a different proceedure. I have never seen anyone on this site chastize you for not having the MGB, in fact it was quite the contrary. We all care about you and what you have to say no matter what it is. No offense but get over it please. Pat Nevada pre op Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2000 Report Share Posted December 29, 2000 Dear , Sorry to say this but I think you are making a mountain out of a moe hill and it really isnt necessary. We all care what happens to you and how you are doing and have expressed it numerous times. Things are said to you out of concern not to criticize you for having a different proceedure. I have never seen anyone on this site chastize you for not having the MGB, in fact it was quite the contrary. We all care about you and what you have to say no matter what it is. No offense but get over it please. Pat Nevada pre op Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2000 Report Share Posted December 29, 2000 Hi , my name is and I'm considering having WLS. I see you had a different operation than everybody else. What kind of operation did you have? How do you think you're results compare to the others who had the MGB. I'd appreciate hearing from you, . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 29, 2000 Report Share Posted December 29, 2000 Hi , my name is and I'm considering having WLS. I see you had a different operation than everybody else. What kind of operation did you have? How do you think you're results compare to the others who had the MGB. I'd appreciate hearing from you, . Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2000 Report Share Posted December 30, 2000 hi joel i had a rny done on the 11th of nov had one complisation they had to go back in and reopen the opening of the stomach doing fine now have lossed about 90 lbs since nov 11th good luck vanessa from ohio, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2000 Report Share Posted December 30, 2000 hi joel i had a rny done on the 11th of nov had one complisation they had to go back in and reopen the opening of the stomach doing fine now have lossed about 90 lbs since nov 11th good luck vanessa from ohio, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 30, 2000 Report Share Posted December 30, 2000 Both very well put. Thanks for saying it. Cathy > >Reply-To: MiniGastricBypass (AT) egroups (DOT) com >To: <MiniGastricBypass (AT) egroups (DOT) com> >Subject: Re: Digest Number 2695 >Date: Thu, 28 Dec 2000 16:51:45 -0700 > >I agree with . No one meant anything derogatory towards - >the point that was trying to be made (at least as far as I understood it) >was that someone brand new might read a post from her and think " Whoa! >Some >people are losing 70 pounds a months! Is this typical? " Like many of the >post-oppers sign off with their date of surgery, pre and current weight, >perhaps should sign her name, type of surgery, and even that she >had >a complication that was corrected. That's alot to write, but people just >won't know what to think if all that is posted is : 70 pounds lost in 4 >weeksfeeling much better love > Anyway, I hate to have misunderstandings and such, so stay on >- >we were all rooting for you, and worried about you, and are glad that >things >are better. No hard feelings huh? > Re: Digest Number 2695 > > > > I dont think 's feelings should be hurt. It was only pointed out >that > > others should not expect the same results. She had more weight to lose, >a > > different surgery and complications after the surgery. All that was >said >is > > that others should not look for 70 lb losses in 30+ days. I see no >reason > > for her to leave or have her feelings hurt by anything that was said. > > Michele > > > > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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