Bully Boss

[Guest guest]

I am on a graduated return to work, due a work accident head injury

My boss a south african is a bullly.

I have just recieved an email from him after he left a message. I am

not working today and he was very nasty. He is trying to get me to

do 40 hours work in 15 hours.

He also has set all my taregts the same even though I missed the

first motnh of the year.

I have now recieved a nasty email at home, with a read reciept which

I have said no dont acknowledge.

Due to his last minute meetign hwen he hauled me into the office ot

mark me as average after I won 6 sales awards last financial he

marked me as average on all categories.

He also sent me a quarterly target settings where he falsified what

was in the meeting and I recived this on th eday of my accident. I

have been off since then eg the quarter finished on 30 June. He has

marke dme on this without asking me what I did, and sent it off for

salary review. No allowance was made for me being away.

I had no notice nor was I shown a copy of his review comments

He bullies me and has again reduced me to tears. I wasnt answering

his call so he sent an email to my home and I got stresses seeign it.

I have left a message for the occupational therapist to call me and

to say I was deeply upset.

This upsets Colin as well.

Any ideas with how to deal with this bully

thanks

Debs

[Guest guest]

Deb,

Why not speak with his boss, or the bigger boss if there is one. A

friend of mine did that and heads rolled after a similar type of

deception was uncovered...

When I worked for the NAB in Sydney, we were always told if we

didn't feel comfortable in taking complaints to our immediate

supervisor or manager, or had complaints about them, to feel free to

speak with the Department Head. I never had to fortunately, but

there is no reason why someone shouldn't feel that they can't go

higher up.

Sometimes it is intimidation by the immediate supervisor, or the big

bosses don't make it known that they are willing to listen.

Sometimes they need to find out about these problems, because when

they don't hear of them, they think everything is hunky dory in

little people's departments and everyone is happy and okay with

everything, when the real truth is that Deb is crying because of

nasty emails, and unfair wages due to biased or unfair reports about

her that she isn't even made aware of.

Go for it....it might be daunting, but the big boss is a human too

and likely wasn't always at the top of the ladder..

Regards,

[Guest guest]

Debs, Dear Debs,

I thought 's advice was so on target, and it looks like

you did, too.

Let's get some heads rolling and let it be the bully's.

You GO, Girl!

Take a spot off your feet and get that iron deficiency taken care

of, too. Did they give you supplements for that or can you get some

injections to bring it up. Here they give people monthly injections

when a person gets that low.

Are you still on Antox?

Take care of yourself and remember to hug your mum today...:-)

With love, hope and prayers,

Heidi

Heidi H. Griffeth

SC Rep

SE Regional Rep

PAI

Note: All comments or advice are based on personal experience or

opinion only, and should not be substituted for consultation with

your medical professional.