Guest guest Posted September 23, 2005 Report Share Posted September 23, 2005 Hi all, I hope everyone is having a pain free day. I am finishing up all the paperwork for SSD for today. I would like to submit a letter from my husband and myself trying to explain his life changes. Have any of you done this, or had a parent or friend write a letter for you? What do you think are the important facts that I should include? Is there any area I should avoid?? How do you explain that one day last year my son left and this new sick son appeared. I don't want to detail every part of his life that has changed because it is everything, but I want them to feel the difference. The letters his doctors wrote seem so cold and technical and I want them to feel the pain the whole family goes through because of this disease. Any opinions are appreciated. Thanks for all your help as usual. from Michigan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 23, 2005 Report Share Posted September 23, 2005 Try to include everything I know it is alot to include but it will help. I am on personal long term disability and recently my insurance company wanted to know what has changed. I included simple things like when doing the laundry it take me walking part of the load the coming back for more. Whereas before I could take it all at once, and I am single. Things like that really help. My life has totally changed in the past two years since I started my disability. Hope this helps. Walt Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 24, 2005 Report Share Posted September 24, 2005 >>>>In pancreatitis , " " <lin5123@c...> wrote: paperwork for SSD for today. I would like to submit a letter from my husband and myself trying to explain his life changes. from Michigan<<<< Hi , Writing letters are great...make sure you have any letters to Social Security NOTARIZED. You should write a letter or " Declaration " , as should any close friends, or an employer, or anyone that has seen what his illness has done to him. Here is a great message board with many links on filing for SSDI: http://groups.msn.com/SocialSecurityDisabilityCoalition/general. In addition, there are very helpful articles written by a Disability Attorney at this site: http://www.scottdavispc.com/articles.html Hope this info helps!! Debbie/CA Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted September 26, 2005 Report Share Posted September 26, 2005 Hi . I would definitely add letters from your husband & yourself giving details of all the changes in Chris' daily life. Don't be too proud to complain; don't hold back. The people considering Chris' case may or may not read your letters, but what do you have to lose? I would explain how your healthy active son has disappeared & been replaced by a constantly ill stranger who is unable to participate in the activities that used to enjoy. You write, " I don't want to detail every part of his life that has changed because it is everything, but I want them to feel the difference. " I must argue with you about this. They need to know how much Chris' life has changed, in little ways as well as major ways. If you don't tell them, how will they know? Soc. security people focus on activities of daily life. Document a typical day for now & in the past when he was healthy. Be detailed & specific. Discuss everything from how he feels when he wakes in the morning, to what he can/cannot do during the day, how often he needs pain meds & can't drive or do other things because of taking the pain meds, how much of the day is spent in bed. Discuss changes in work, social activities, family life. When I applied for disability, I did all this, as well as providing a deluge of medical records & letters from doctors. I buried them under a mountain of papers! I'm not sure what did the trick, but I was accepted on the first try, 2-3 weeks after applying & also received back pay. Hope this is helpful. Good luck. Jan g Date: Fri, 23 Sep 2005 17:19:23 -0000 From: " " Subject: Letter for disability Hi all, I hope everyone is having a pain free day. I am finishing up all the paperwork for SSD for today. I would like to submit a letter from my husband and myself trying to explain his life changes. Have any of you done this, or had a parent or friend write a letter for you? What do you think are the important facts that I should include? Is there any area I should avoid?? How do you explain that one day last year my son left and this new sick son appeared. I don't want to detail every part of his life that has changed because it is everything, but I want them to feel the difference. The letters his doctors wrote seem so cold and technical and I want them to feel the pain the whole family goes through because of this disease. Any opinions are appreciated. Thanks for all your help as usual. from Michigan The person who says it cannot be done should not interrupt the person who is doing it May you always have in your arms the one who is in your heart You can complain because roses have thorns, or you can rejoice because thorns have roses. --------------------------------- Yahoo! for Good Click here to donate to the Hurricane Katrina relief effort. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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