Re: He wants to wait a year to ttc -- I want to NOW!

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In a message dated 11/13/2004 8:36:32 AM Eastern Standard Time,

istevens394@... writes:

Any advice on how to convince him that now is better than later? I

fear that if we wait a year, then if it takes a long time to

conceive, I'll be 38 or 39 when i have the kid.

Thanks!

Inga

rny 4/22/03

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Lily Grace age 4

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If he is a Dr.. have him talk to YOUR Dr... collegue to collegue.

It might help hearing it from another " professional " .

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K in Ft Lauderdale

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Noah - officially 2!

Jonah - b. 11/1/04 - 6lbs 7 oz - 19.5 inches long

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In a message dated 11/13/2004 8:36:34 AM Eastern Standard Time,

istevens394@... writes:

> Any advice on how to convince him that now is better than later? I

> fear that if we wait a year, then if it takes a long time to

> conceive, I'll be 38 or 39 when i have the kid.

>

Hi,

I am not a Dr but... I think the risk under 40 is the same. Your husband

might be right and forcing him into fatherhgood might not be a great idea