Guest guest Posted October 3, 2004 Report Share Posted October 3, 2004 Hi Angel, I remember you well, sweetie...You have gone through alot this spring and now, look! 4.5 months along!! That is soooooooo awesome! Try not to worry about not showing yet...Your body is so totally different than it was preop with your other pregnancies, its got to be almost like you are pregnant for the first time... I had lost 105 lb and was about 10-15 lb from goal when I got pregnant in February. I am now 34.5 weeks pregnant and its only been the last few weeks that people are actually saying I look pregnant. Even then, I get " but you don't look 7 mos preg! " ... In fact, just YESTERDAY, I was getting a haircut. I was wearing leggings and a very baggy tshirt...and the hairstylist told me she couldn't tell I was pregnant AT ALL..Must have just looked hefty...Frustrating, but I can sure see it when I look in the mirror...I haven't started waddling yet, but its coming, lol. You probably are feeling very vulnerable because of the two back to back miscarriages. Hang in there, and be well... All the best, EDC Nov 10th, but probably needing to be induced in next week or so! Baby girl on the way! > oh angel, i'm sorry you are having such a hard time and so scared, but especially after 2 miscarriages, it's very normal. i had a hard time with benjamin's pregnancy, i had 3 miscarriages before him, and it was torcher. i am 20 weeks along and not really showing, only to me and hubby, tummy is starting to get a little firmer. i was hoping to have a cute belly by now, having lost 130 lbs in the last 6 months, but nope...as for movement, this early, it's so sporadic, they are so little that it's normal to not feel them often. when in doubt call your dr, but i'm sure everything you are feeling or arent' is normal. hugs... > aka mom2ben99 (jennilee75@c...) > Kay Independent Beauty Consultant > http://www.marykay.com/koopmans > > My Kay Special: 40% off anything I currently have in stock (which is a lot), 20% off anything ordered (putting in an order October 2nd-offer good til then)! Take advantage, great for gift giving! > scared to death with a question!!!!!!! long > > > > > Hello all, i have been a member of this group for a long while, many > of you may know me,but for those of you who dont here is a recap.I > had lap rny on july 21,03 and have lost 115 pounds..at goal.I have 3 > boys ages 4,3,2..I had a miscarriage at 5 weeks on may 1 and a > miscarriage at a little over 4 weeks in june.I am currently 4 and > 1/2 months pregnant at this time,i am so scared to death, i dont > know if its because of my previous miscarriages or what...My > question for you girls is.When did you start showing?Should i > already be showing?I have not gained any weight I actually lost like > 4 pounds.With my other pregnancies preop i was already like a > balloon.I dont know if thats because i was already overweight.I am > going crazy.This friend i have is due 2 days before me and she is > slender but she is already showing people say to me all the time you > sure you are pregnant.I seen my baby on a ultra sound internally 3 > weeks ago and have felt it move but here lately i havent..I am so > scared any response would be appreciated..lost and alone in > texas...angel > > > > > > > > > Children are a blessing, and a gift from the Lord. -Psalm 127:3 > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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