I know people mean well but......Vent

April 23, 2003

Good Morning everyone,

I spent way too much time over the Easter weekend at my family's house hearing

my sister and one of my friend's saying " there is nothing wrong with that boy "

" He imitates just fine " " look at how good he entertains himself " and when I

would start to explain to them...I could hear myself in my head thinking it

sounds like I am wanting him to be, that I am looking for issues. I know this is

not true but...... has changed alot in the last 2 months but still I live

with him and things are not " right " ...Believe me when I say, I would love for

him to be " fine " . I would love to go back 6 months when ABA, DT,OT, tactile

issues, Hypo sensitive and stims were all " Greek " to me....LOL

Am I being too sensitive? I think they are trying to make me feel good but it

gets old. I finally just say " you are right, he will be fine "

Example I told my sister " was stimming on his crackers at lunch at school

(lining them up then stack then line) so the teacher broke them in half " Sis

" all kids line things up " Me " but not to the point where nothing else is going

on " sis " my son used to do it all the time " (Another story for a another vent

LOL) Me " well but then does nothing else and wont eat " sis " alot of

little kids play with their food " Me " Ok you are right, he is fine, I don't know

why the teacher thought that was a problem " grrrrr Why did I do that???

Sorry this is a long rambling bitch.....I could go on with 10 other

conversations that were the same idea

Warm Regards

& ASD 11/25/00 in Maine

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