Guest guest Posted December 16, 2005 Report Share Posted December 16, 2005 Yes, colon cancer and metastatic disease can be extremely painful, but burning pain. I don't think I've ever heard of that. Is that a 22 1/2 cm tumor OUCH!!!!! Yes, that would cause lots of pain and blockage. Now with that big a tumor he could have some serious hemorrhoid problems That would of course be a burning kind of pain and cause unbearable pressure in the rectum. And by the way tumors press on nerves so for them to say no way it is that is kind of crazy. But it is hard to say whether or not it was the colonoscopy or the cancer that has damaged the nerve. In the meantime whatever the cause he needs pain relief. If he is on Oxicodene and that doesn't work ask your doctor about a Fentanyl patch. Ativan is another drug that can help with both pain and anxiety. Just be aware that Ativan will make him very tired as it is the active ingredient from most sleeping pills. But if he needs that much relief it is worth it. For the record he can't become addicted if he is in pain. Only if you use a drug when you no longer need it. I think I'm rambling a little but hopefully this helps. Take Care Narice In a message dated 12/16/2005 1:03:24 PM Eastern Standard Time, kidsncritters123@... writes: I have a question regarding colon cancer & pain. My father-in-law is stage 4 & was diagnosed approx. four months ago. My sister-in-law said his doctor told her that colon cancer is very painful. I would like to know is it the colon tumor itself that causes the pain or is it from met's to the bone that is so painful? He also has involvement in the abdomen, lungs & liver. The only pain he has is a severe burning coming from the rectum. It started on the day he had his colonoscopy & has not gone away since. It has not gotten any better or worse since the day it started four months ago. The week following the test he was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. His colon tumor at that time was approx. 2-21/2 cm. His colon was not blocked as he could still pass stool, but doctor recommended a colostomy be put in as a preventive. Do you think a tumor of this size could be the cause of the severe burning? He no longer passes stool past the tumor yet the burning remains even after the colostomy surgery. I explained in an earlier post that my father-in-law believes that a nerve was damaged during the colonoscopy test as he felt pain during the test & tried to pull away. He has not been the same since that day & has become depressed because the doctors keep telling him the pain is from the tumor not nerve damage. I have since found a support group on line of other people with the same burning pain & all the same triggers for the pain that my FIL has & they do not have cancer. They have a condition called PNE pundendal nerve entrapement. If anyone knows if this type of pain is to be expected from colon cancer or not I would appreciate hearing from you. It would help FIL accept that his doctor is right & he needs to find a way to cope. On the other hand if this is not common for colon cancer, it would be valuable information for FIL to be able to demand they search further for the cause of this unbearable burning. Thanks to all for any info you can provide us. Strongs, Trase __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2005 Report Share Posted December 16, 2005 I have a question regarding colon cancer & pain. My father-in-law is stage 4 & was diagnosed approx. four months ago. My sister-in-law said his doctor told her that colon cancer is very painful. I would like to know is it the colon tumor itself that causes the pain or is it from met's to the bone that is so painful? He also has involvement in the abdomen, lungs & liver. The only pain he has is a severe burning coming from the rectum. It started on the day he had his colonoscopy & has not gone away since. It has not gotten any better or worse since the day it started four months ago. The week following the test he was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. His colon tumor at that time was approx. 2-21/2 cm. His colon was not blocked as he could still pass stool, but doctor recommended a colostomy be put in as a preventive. Do you think a tumor of this size could be the cause of the severe burning? He no longer passes stool past the tumor yet the burning remains even after the colostomy surgery. I explained in an earlier post that my father-in-law believes that a nerve was damaged during the colonoscopy test as he felt pain during the test & tried to pull away. He has not been the same since that day & has become depressed because the doctors keep telling him the pain is from the tumor not nerve damage. I have since found a support group on line of other people with the same burning pain & all the same triggers for the pain that my FIL has & they do not have cancer. They have a condition called PNE pundendal nerve entrapement. If anyone knows if this type of pain is to be expected from colon cancer or not I would appreciate hearing from you. It would help FIL accept that his doctor is right & he needs to find a way to cope. On the other hand if this is not common for colon cancer, it would be valuable information for FIL to be able to demand they search further for the cause of this unbearable burning. Thanks to all for any info you can provide us. Strongs, Trase __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2005 Report Share Posted December 16, 2005 Hi Narice, Thank you for your reply. The tumor in my father-in-laws colon was 2 or 2 1/2 cm when he was diagnosed (not 22 1/2cm ouch!) Do you think a tumor of this size would cause the burning pain I mentioned. The pain has not changed one bit in four months. It has been the same intensity since the day it started. I have no idea how large the tumor might be now as they have not done a follow up scan of the colon since the original scan was done. He also has a colostomy so dont know if the tumor is blocking anything at this point. Thanks again. Trase flipper759@... wrote: Yes, colon cancer and metastatic disease can be extremely painful, but burning pain. I don't think I've ever heard of that. Is that a 22 1/2 cm tumor OUCH!!!!! Yes, that would cause lots of pain and blockage. Now with that big a tumor he could have some serious hemorrhoid problems That would of course be a burning kind of pain and cause unbearable pressure in the rectum. And by the way tumors press on nerves so for them to say no way it is that is kind of crazy. But it is hard to say whether or not it was the colonoscopy or the cancer that has damaged the nerve. In the meantime whatever the cause he needs pain relief. If he is on Oxicodene and that doesn't work ask your doctor about a Fentanyl patch. Ativan is another drug that can help with both pain and anxiety. Just be aware that Ativan will make him very tired as it is the active ingredient from most sleeping pills. But if he needs that much relief it is worth it. For the record he can't become addicted if he is in pain. Only if you use a drug when you no longer need it. I think I'm rambling a little but hopefully this helps. Take Care Narice In a message dated 12/16/2005 1:03:24 PM Eastern Standard Time, kidsncritters123@... writes: I have a question regarding colon cancer & pain. My father-in-law is stage 4 & was diagnosed approx. four months ago. My sister-in-law said his doctor told her that colon cancer is very painful. I would like to know is it the colon tumor itself that causes the pain or is it from met's to the bone that is so painful? He also has involvement in the abdomen, lungs & liver. The only pain he has is a severe burning coming from the rectum. It started on the day he had his colonoscopy & has not gone away since. It has not gotten any better or worse since the day it started four months ago. The week following the test he was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. His colon tumor at that time was approx. 2-21/2 cm. His colon was not blocked as he could still pass stool, but doctor recommended a colostomy be put in as a preventive. Do you think a tumor of this size could be the cause of the severe burning? He no longer passes stool past the tumor yet the burning remains even after the colostomy surgery. I explained in an earlier post that my father-in-law believes that a nerve was damaged during the colonoscopy test as he felt pain during the test & tried to pull away. He has not been the same since that day & has become depressed because the doctors keep telling him the pain is from the tumor not nerve damage. I have since found a support group on line of other people with the same burning pain & all the same triggers for the pain that my FIL has & they do not have cancer. They have a condition called PNE pundendal nerve entrapement. If anyone knows if this type of pain is to be expected from colon cancer or not I would appreciate hearing from you. It would help FIL accept that his doctor is right & he needs to find a way to cope. On the other hand if this is not common for colon cancer, it would be valuable information for FIL to be able to demand they search further for the cause of this unbearable burning. Thanks to all for any info you can provide us. Strongs, Trase __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2005 Report Share Posted December 16, 2005 Trase, I am so sorry that your FIL is going through so much pain. And you are so wonderful to be so supportive to him and doing all this research. I cannot answer a lot of your questions. But I can tell you that as far as I know that this is not common to colon cncer. I hope that someone here has some answers for you. I will remember to Pray for your Father-In-Law and for you who seems to be so caring. Love, Ingrid > > I have a question regarding colon cancer & pain. My father-in-law is stage 4 & was diagnosed approx. four months ago. My sister-in-law said his doctor told her that colon cancer is very painful. I would like to know is it the colon tumor itself that causes the pain or is it from met's to the bone that is so painful? He also has involvement in the abdomen, lungs & liver. The only pain he has is a severe burning coming from the rectum. It started on the day he had his colonoscopy & has not gone away since. It has not gotten any better or worse since the day it started four months ago. The week following the test he was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. His colon tumor at that time was approx. 2-21/2 cm. His colon was not blocked as he could still pass stool, but doctor recommended a colostomy be put in as a preventive. Do you think a tumor of this size could be the cause of the severe burning? He no longer passes stool past the tumor yet the burning remains even after > the colostomy surgery. I explained in an earlier post that my father-in-law believes that a nerve was damaged during the colonoscopy test as he felt pain during the test & tried to pull away. He has not been the same since that day & has become depressed because the doctors keep telling him the pain is from the tumor not nerve damage. I have since found a support group on line of other people with the same burning pain & all the same triggers for the pain that my FIL has & they do not have cancer. They have a condition called PNE pundendal nerve entrapement. If anyone knows if this type of pain is to be expected from colon cancer or not I would appreciate hearing from you. It would help FIL accept that his doctor is right & he needs to find a way to cope. On the other hand if this is not common for colon cancer, it would be valuable information for FIL to be able to demand they search further for the cause of this unbearable burning. Thanks to all for any info you can > provide us. > Strongs, > Trase > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 16, 2005 Report Share Posted December 16, 2005 Narice, thank you for explaining the Oxycodone and the Fentanyl patch not being addictive if it is used for pain. My DH is worried about that. He was getting too drowsy and so he went from the 50 size patch to the 25 and hopes to stop taking it in a couple of weeks. I hope Sam doesn't have nerve damage. Praying for everyone. Thanks for sticking around Narice. We love you. ~Deb from KS flipper759@... wrote: Yes, colon cancer and metastatic disease can be extremely painful, but burning pain. I don't think I've ever heard of that. Is that a 22 1/2 cm tumor OUCH!!!!! Yes, that would cause lots of pain and blockage. Now with that big a tumor he could have some serious hemorrhoid problems That would of course be a burning kind of pain and cause unbearable pressure in the rectum. And by the way tumors press on nerves so for them to say no way it is that is kind of crazy. But it is hard to say whether or not it was the colonoscopy or the cancer that has damaged the nerve. In the meantime whatever the cause he needs pain relief. If he is on Oxicodene and that doesn't work ask your doctor about a Fentanyl patch. Ativan is another drug that can help with both pain and anxiety. Just be aware that Ativan will make him very tired as it is the active ingredient from most sleeping pills. But if he needs that much relief it is worth it. For the record he can't become addicted if he is in pain. Only if you use a drug when you no longer need it. I think I'm rambling a little but hopefully this helps. Take Care Narice In a message dated 12/16/2005 1:03:24 PM Eastern Standard Time, kidsncritters123@... writes: I have a question regarding colon cancer & pain. My father-in-law is stage 4 & was diagnosed approx. four months ago. My sister-in-law said his doctor told her that colon cancer is very painful. I would like to know is it the colon tumor itself that causes the pain or is it from met's to the bone that is so painful? He also has involvement in the abdomen, lungs & liver. The only pain he has is a severe burning coming from the rectum. It started on the day he had his colonoscopy & has not gone away since. It has not gotten any better or worse since the day it started four months ago. The week following the test he was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. His colon tumor at that time was approx. 2-21/2 cm. His colon was not blocked as he could still pass stool, but doctor recommended a colostomy be put in as a preventive. Do you think a tumor of this size could be the cause of the severe burning? He no longer passes stool past the tumor yet the burning remains even after the colostomy surgery. I explained in an earlier post that my father-in-law believes that a nerve was damaged during the colonoscopy test as he felt pain during the test & tried to pull away. He has not been the same since that day & has become depressed because the doctors keep telling him the pain is from the tumor not nerve damage. I have since found a support group on line of other people with the same burning pain & all the same triggers for the pain that my FIL has & they do not have cancer. They have a condition called PNE pundendal nerve entrapement. If anyone knows if this type of pain is to be expected from colon cancer or not I would appreciate hearing from you. It would help FIL accept that his doctor is right & he needs to find a way to cope. On the other hand if this is not common for colon cancer, it would be valuable information for FIL to be able to demand they search further for the cause of this unbearable burning. Thanks to all for any info you can provide us. Strongs, Trase __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 17, 2005 Report Share Posted December 17, 2005 I love you all too and that's why I stay. It is painful sometimes but Phil and I so wanted to see this damned cancer end for him for you and for those in the future. Merry Christmas & Happy Hanukah to all of you Narice In a message dated 12/16/2005 11:05:57 PM Eastern Standard Time, flytodeb@... writes: Narice, thank you for explaining the Oxicodene and the Fentanyl patch not being addictive if it is used for pain. My DH is worried about that. He was getting too drowsy and so he went from the 50 size patch to the 25 and hopes to stop taking it in a couple of weeks. I hope Sam doesn't have nerve damage. Praying for everyone. Thanks for sticking around Narice. We love you. ~Deb from KS flipper759@... wrote: Yes, colon cancer and metastatic disease can be extremely painful, but burning pain. I don't think I've ever heard of that. Is that a 22 1/2 cm tumor OUCH!!!!! Yes, that would cause lots of pain and blockage. Now with that big a tumor he could have some serious hemorrhoid problems That would of course be a burning kind of pain and cause unbearable pressure in the rectum. And by the way tumors press on nerves so for them to say no way it is that is kind of crazy. But it is hard to say whether or not it was the colonoscopy or the cancer that has damaged the nerve. In the meantime whatever the cause he needs pain relief. If he is on Oxicodene and that doesn't work ask your doctor about a Fentanyl patch. Ativan is another drug that can help with both pain and anxiety. Just be aware that Ativan will make him very tired as it is the active ingredient from most sleeping pills. But if he needs that much relief it is worth it. For the record he can't become addicted if he is in pain. Only if you use a drug when you no longer need it. I think I'm rambling a little but hopefully this helps. Take Care Narice In a message dated 12/16/2005 1:03:24 PM Eastern Standard Time, kidsncritters123@... writes: I have a question regarding colon cancer & pain. My father-in-law is stage 4 & was diagnosed approx. four months ago. My sister-in-law said his doctor told her that colon cancer is very painful. I would like to know is it the colon tumor itself that causes the pain or is it from met's to the bone that is so painful? He also has involvement in the abdomen, lungs & liver. The only pain he has is a severe burning coming from the rectum. It started on the day he had his colonoscopy & has not gone away since. It has not gotten any better or worse since the day it started four months ago. The week following the test he was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. His colon tumor at that time was approx. 2-21/2 cm. His colon was not blocked as he could still pass stool, but doctor recommended a colostomy be put in as a preventive. Do you think a tumor of this size could be the cause of the severe burning? He no longer passes stool past the tumor yet the burning remains even after the colostomy surgery. I explained in an earlier post that my father-in-law believes that a nerve was damaged during the colonoscopy test as he felt pain during the test & tried to pull away. He has not been the same since that day & has become depressed because the doctors keep telling him the pain is from the tumor not nerve damage. I have since found a support group on line of other people with the same burning pain & all the same triggers for the pain that my FIL has & they do not have cancer. They have a condition called PNE pundendal nerve entrapement. If anyone knows if this type of pain is to be expected from colon cancer or not I would appreciate hearing from you. It would help FIL accept that his doctor is right & he needs to find a way to cope. On the other hand if this is not common for colon cancer, it would be valuable information for FIL to be able to demand they search further for the cause of this unbearable burning. Thanks to all for any info you can provide us. Strongs, Trase __________________________________________________ Do You Yahoo!? Tired of spam? Yahoo! Mail has the best spam protection around http://mail.yahoo.com [Non-text portions of this message have been removed] Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 21, 2005 Report Share Posted December 21, 2005 Dear Joyce, Thank you for responding to my post & sharing your moving & personal account of what you & your husband went through searching for answers to his unbearable pain. I am so sorry for the loss of your husband. I can not imagine the pain of loosing ones partner & best friend. You must look at life in a completely different way now. Your life will never be the same & you may always long for what you lost. As time passes you will not forget or get over the loss, but you will be able to look back & smile remembering that you were very blessed to have shared your lives together for whatever length of time it was. The love you shared lives on & you must honor it by living your life to the fullest. It is because of that love that you have become who you are today. I know that it would be so easy to just give in to despair & withdraw from the world, but you have not chosen to do that. You have turned that pain around and are using it to help others on this journey. God bless you. Sincerely, Trase Joyce wrote: Trace, My husband had a similar pain as your father in law. He complained constantly and we could not get anyone to pay a lot of attention to him. The surgeon had advised a colostomy at the time of the original surgery to remove the tumor. , refused and paid the price for 3 years. He finally got so sick and the pain was uncontrollable even with morphine and the pain patch. It finally got so bad that on Thanksgiving Day we had to help him to my car and lay him down to get him to the hospital. He almost died and had to have transfusions and finally the dreaded colostomy. He sailed along for a few months and we thought we had the pain licked. We were wrong, it was back with a vengance. He had to be admitted again and this time they found what was causing the pain. He had developed a fistula and a abscess. He battled the fistula for two more years until his death. The only real relief he got was to use a sitz bath and he would do that day and night. The problem was that once he got off the sitz the paid was immedately back. I am going to make a long story short, after several admissions, the radiologist went in and guided a tube into the badly abscessed part and put a tube in so that it could drain it and relieve the pressure. He had a tube about 12 " long and a bulb hanging off of that. They taught me how to empty the bulb and inject saline water up into the fistula to clean it out. We did this four times a day. We had to go to the hospital every 2 weeks and they would put him out for about five minutes and replace the tube. We did this for about 9 months. We were there so much they called us frequent fliers. They finally got it to a point where it quit draining and he got it removed. I felt so sorry for him because he could not get comfortable. His colostomy was on the left side and the drain and bulb on the right side. There was just not a good way for him to lay down and get a good nights sleep. Unfortunately we lost him two months after the drain was removed. This may not be your FIL's problem but I would insist that his doctor talk to the Radiologist and run some test's to see if this is what he may have going on. I don't know if you have ever had a boil, but they fill up and hurt until you get them lanced. The fistula is very similar, except that they can form many tunnels off of each other. Long story short, the drain was a pain in the neck, but at least it relieved the pressure. I don't know if I am making any sense right now because this is my first Christmas without my Best Friend and Husband and I am not dealing with it as well as I thought I would. I would be happy to answer any question you might have. It may not even be a abscess of fistula but it is worth asking his doctors about. Best Wishes, Joyce > > I have a question regarding colon cancer & pain. My father-in-law is stage 4 & was diagnosed approx. four months ago. My sister-in- law said his doctor told her that colon cancer is very painful. I would like to know is it the colon tumor itself that causes the pain or is it from met's to the bone that is so painful? He also has involvement in the abdomen, lungs & liver. The only pain he has is a severe burning coming from the rectum. It started on the day he had his colonoscopy & has not gone away since. It has not gotten any better or worse since the day it started four months ago. The week following the test he was diagnosed with stage 4 colon cancer. His colon tumor at that time was approx. 2-21/2 cm. His colon was not blocked as he could still pass stool, but doctor recommended a colostomy be put in as a preventive. Do you think a tumor of this size could be the cause of the severe burning? He no longer passes stool past the tumor yet the burning remains even after > the colostomy surgery. I explained in an earlier post that my father-in-law believes that a nerve was damaged during the colonoscopy test as he felt pain during the test & tried to pull away. He has not been the same since that day & has become depressed because the doctors keep telling him the pain is from the tumor not nerve damage. I have since found a support group on line of other people with the same burning pain & all the same triggers for the pain that my FIL has & they do not have cancer. They have a condition called PNE pundendal nerve entrapement. If anyone knows if this type of pain is to be expected from colon cancer or not I would appreciate hearing from you. It would help FIL accept that his doctor is right & he needs to find a way to cope. On the other hand if this is not common for colon cancer, it would be valuable information for FIL to be able to demand they search further for the cause of this unbearable burning. Thanks to all for any info you can > provide us. > Strongs, > Trase > > __________________________________________________ > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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