RE: Re: Hello , I'm new to the group

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I agree . My hubby was an excellent example. He was not an easy person

to live with, but I loved him and know in his own way he loved me.

Jolene

Re: Hello , I'm new to the group

* So very well said!!!!!!!

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> I couldn't help but see a little something in your remarks about

your husband that this saying might help with. It was a real eye-

opener for me years ago when I heard it.

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> " Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want him or her

to, doesn't mean they don't love you with all he or she have. "

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> Sometimes I think we struggle with recognizing the love and

compassion from others because we only have our OWN definitions and

standards to compare it to. In other words, I show you love this way

and when I don't get it back this way I don't recognize. Do some

serious searching and look for your husband's definition and

expression. I bet you will find it if you can remove your

definitions and expressions long enough. I sincerely hope so any way.

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> You know, men especially are just not good at expressing emotions.

The saying could also be adapted to explain the way one copes with

this kind of situation.

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> Prayers and hugs. You will find plenty of love here.

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> MA

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