Re: Re: Having a Bad Time/Sue

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In a message dated 11/28/2005 9:26:10 PM Eastern Standard Time,

luvmydane3@... writes:

Hi All,

Thanks for the replies and suggestions on dealing with cancer. I

really have days few and far between that I feel positive but I keep

telling myself that the liver resection had clear margins so that is

a good sign, right?

I guess I'm a little scared after having the first colon surgery in

2004 and 6 months of adjuvant chemo and was just certain that all was

well and that was the end of my bout with cancer. What a shock when

I went for my first three month check up and found out that it had

already spread even though I did the surgery and chemo. I guess I'm

just preparing myself for the worse case scenario which I didn't do

the first time.

I also think that recovering from the accident and dealing with the

cancer at the same time has really been hard to overcome. I will just

try to take each day as it comes and I know that God is in charge so

at least I am in safe hands.

Thanks for allowing me to ramble

Sue

Hi Sue... I believe there is a fine line between thinking positive and

facing reality... just try not to dwell on the " what ifs " ... get on with living

life each day, turn it over to your Higher Power... until you are faced with a

reality that then needs to be addressed. (Easy for me to say, huh??)

Ramble on any time you want, Sue... Whose got the tape??? Just kidding...

Lots of hugs and prayers, Donelle

Caregiver to Glenn