Re: Marital Difficulties

[Guest guest]

It's hard to determine what exactly the marital issues are, you were

pretty vague. I agree with everyone who said MAKE the time for

counseling. You two really need to sort out the underlying issues

and commit to work on them. Maybe you both are just really

struggling with the children's issues right now in different ways.

I heard someone post that children must always come first, but most

experts will say you must make time to keep your foundation healthy.

The foundation is you and your spouse's relationship. As long as

they are not being neglected or abused (the children), then by all

means, don't put off your marriage.

IF after you exhausted your struggles and still don't see eye to eye,

then maybe start thinking about divorce. Being alone is always

better than staying trapped in a bad marriage.

Check with the hospital, health department, social services...any

place you can think of that might know where to find some services

for some time out. See if there is an autism group for your area,

they are full of people who know the connections.

Best of Luck to you, and so sorry for your pain.

[Guest guest]

Help! I don't think I got the original to this or 's reply.

Can anyone steer me to it? Just the subject would be fine. I am

reading on site and can't find it anywhere. Leggs

[Guest guest]

> Help! I don't think I got the original to this or 's reply.

> Can anyone steer me to it? Just the subject would be fine. I am

> reading on site and can't find it anywhere. Leggs

I don't see this original either...

i was wondering who she was talking about...

nancy :/