Re: Re: Hello , I'm new to the group

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I couldn't help but see a little something in your remarks about your husband

that this saying might help with. It was a real eye-opener for me years ago

when I heard it.

" Just because someone doesn't love you the way you want him or her to, doesn't

mean they don't love you with all he or she have. "

Sometimes I think we struggle with recognizing the love and compassion from

others because we only have our OWN definitions and standards to compare it to.

In other words, I show you love this way and when I don't get it back this way I

don't recognize. Do some serious searching and look for your husband's

definition and expression. I bet you will find it if you can remove your

definitions and expressions long enough. I sincerely hope so any way.

You know, men especially are just not good at expressing emotions. The saying

could also be adapted to explain the way one copes with this kind of situation.

Prayers and hugs. You will find plenty of love here.

MA

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