Re: pregnancy vs periods - forgot to say

[Guest guest]

Forgot to say - I understand what you said about continued

disappointment too. DH asked me if I wanted to carry on actively

trying. My immediate answer was no because I didn't want to keep

getting disappointed. But then we both realised that for as long as

we are having unprotected sex (and therefore could possibly get

pregnant) I will be disappointed everytime I get my period.

I admit, this is new territory for me - DD was an unplanned surprise.

I haven't faced the agony of trying (and failing) to conceive before.

I was always aware that 'trying for a baby' is an emotional

rollercoaster but only now can I really apreciate this!

The way I have to 'deal' with this, is to focus on other things and

keep my mind busy (and let my body do all the work.) Sorry for

rambling and sorry if I have offended anyone who has had problems TTC

when I haven't even been there yet.

Liz x

[Guest guest]

Same again, DS was a total surprise, and as I have just been told I

have polycyctic ovaries this time was as much a surprise (even though

we were hoping)

Funny how things work when you don't want them to but don't when you

do!

Kirsten

Re: pregnancy vs periods - forgot to say

> Forgot to say - I understand what you said about continued

> disappointment too. DH asked me if I wanted to carry on actively

> trying. My immediate answer was no because I didn't want to keep

> getting disappointed. But then we both realised that for as long as

> we are having unprotected sex (and therefore could possibly get

> pregnant) I will be disappointed everytime I get my period.

>

> I admit, this is new territory for me - DD was an unplanned

surprise.

> I haven't faced the agony of trying (and failing) to conceive

before.

> I was always aware that 'trying for a baby' is an emotional

> rollercoaster but only now can I really apreciate this!

>

> The way I have to 'deal' with this, is to focus on other things and

> keep my mind busy (and let my body do all the work.) Sorry for

> rambling and sorry if I have offended anyone who has had problems

TTC

> when I haven't even been there yet.

>

> Liz x

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