Guest guest Posted November 26, 2005 Report Share Posted November 26, 2005 Narice, glad to hear that Phil was feeling better for Thanksgiving. All of this is so hard for you, especially a future without him. Be strong and take care of yourself. I really admire you for wanting to do your future plans; it's not morbid at all, but caring. Even if the boys are not involved in it with you, go ahead and do it. They may decide to join you later. God bless all four of you and your family members as well. Take care. Prayers for everyone on here, ~Deb from KS flipper759@... wrote: I talked to Phil and once the dust settles with our current situation I would like to start a local chapter of CCNetwork here in Erie. I'll need lots of suggestions and HELP but I would really like to do this. Phil would also like me to March in Project March. I want to if I am physically and emotionally ready to do so. I did send 2 sheets of signatures to Priscilla let me know if you got them. Hope no one thinks this morbid but I know CCNetwork and Colon Cancer Support have been my Godsends and when the time comes I want to give back what I have received and work my way out of a job Narice --------------------------------- Yahoo! Personals Single? There's someone we'd like you to meet. Lot's of someone's, actually. Yahoo! Personals Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted November 27, 2005 Report Share Posted November 27, 2005 Hello Narice: I have been meaning to message you for quite some time - I think of you and Phil - and the hardest battle of your life, on a daily basis and have been keeping up with your posts while I don't often post, so you do not know me that well. I pray and think of you both - I hope you find some comfort with your friends here and I know your boys will be strong with you and you will all take comfort in each other. Only time heals, but indeed your broken heart will mend over time. I just had to write right now and encourage you with your ideas to get involved in colon cancer awareness and prevention. I am for the time being a survivor (does that sound negative - it's the fear creeping in) I too feel that I have been called to get involved in some way and to " give back " by taking part in the campaign for awareness and prevention. In March, I " walked " in the Big Blue Quest only 3 weeks after my surgery - and was able to raise more than $5000 simply by telling people my story in a letter I sent to friends and family. BBQ is an event sponsored by Allegheny General Hospital and coordinated by my doctors there - it's founder is also a colon cancer survivor - Kathyrn Knight. I can put you in touch with her for ideas. Since we are not far away from each other - perhaps we can help each other with ideas or walk in each other's walks. I'd be happy to do that as I am involved again in the Walk/Run this year - we are developing and hosting a website for the organization. I will keep you up to date with this - and as always, keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers! God bless, Pat Good idea Narice.. One thing talk to folks at the hospital and see what support they can give you. That is why I could not get anything done at Fort Hood hospital cause they said was no money for it. In order to have the availability of people to come speak at meetings it needs to go through a hospital. I probably could have gone through one of civilian hospitals in the are but since there were so many for Fort Hood thought it better to stay on base -- for all the good it did. I wish you well in this admirable endeavor and is great that Phil encourages you to do it. I hope you make to Project March as well. I won't be able to make it - just too many bills and no more credit cards. All my accounts are closed. I sure will be there in spirit though. Hugs and Prayers Jolene Narice future plans I talked to Phil and once the dust settles with our current situation I would like to start a local chapter of CCNetwork here in Erie. I'll need lots of suggestions and HELP but I would really like to do this. Phil would also like me to March in Project March. I want to if I am physically and emotionally ready to do so. I did send 2 sheets of signatures to Priscilla let me know if you got them. Hope no one thinks this morbid but I know CCNetwork and Colon Cancer Support have been my Godsends and when the time comes I want to give back what I have received and work my way out of a job Narice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2005 Report Share Posted December 19, 2005 Hello Narice: I have been meaning to message you for quite some time - I think of you and Phil - and the hardest battle of your life, on a daily basis and have been keeping up with your posts while I don't often post, so you do not know me that well. I pray and think of you both - I hope you find some comfort with your friends here and I know your boys will be strong with you and you will all take comfort in each other. Only time heals, but indeed your broken heart will mend over time. I just had to write right now and encourage you with your ideas to get involved in colon cancer awareness and prevention. I am for the time being a survivor (does that sound negative - it's the fear creeping in) I too feel that I have been called to get involved in some way and to " give back " by taking part in the campaign for awarness and prevention. In March, I " walked " in the Big Blue Quest only 3 weeks after my surgery - and was able to raise more than $5000 simply by telling people my story in a letter I sent to friends and family. BBG is an event sponsored by Allegheny General Hospital and coordinated by my doctors there - it's founder is also a colon cancer survivor - Kathyrn Knight. I can put you in touch with her for ideas. Since we are not far away from each other - perhaps we can help each other with ideas. I am involved again in the Walk/Run this year - we are developing and hosting a website for the organization. I will keep you up to date with this - and as always, keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers! MP Good idea Narice.. One thing talk to folks at the hospital and see what support they can give you. That is why I could not get anything done at Fort Hood hospital cause they said was no money for it. In order to have the availability of people to come speak at meetings it needs to go through a hospital. I probably could have gone through one of civilian hospitals in the are but since there were so many for Fort Hood thought it better to stay on base -- for all the good it did. I wish you well in this admirable endeavor and is great that Phil encourages you to do it. I hope you make to Project March as well. I won't be able to make it - just too many bills and no more credit cards. All my accounts are closed. I sure will be there in spirit though. Hugs and Prayers Jolene Narice future plans I talked to Phil and once the dust settles with our current situation I would like to start a local chapter of CCNetwork here in Erie. I'll need lots of suggestions and HELP but I would really like to do this. Phil would also like me to March in Project March. I want to if I am physically and emotionally ready to do so. I did send 2 sheets of signatures to Priscilla let me know if you got them. Hope no one thinks this morbid but I know CCNetwork and Colon Cancer Support have been my Godsends and when the time comes I want to give back what I have received and work my way out of a job Narice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2005 Report Share Posted December 19, 2005 Narice, I received the signatures. Thank you. It really helps. I know what you mean about working your way out of a job. That has been my goal from the beginning. Colon cancer is so different from other cancers. We alreay know how to end it completely - screen all adults not just those over 50, and remove all polyps. We already have the technology needed - colonoscopies. Where as other cancers are desperate for research money - we are desperate for a mandate that all health insurance must cover all adults and that a fund be set up for screening all those adults without insurance. Those two things alone would eliminate any more people like Phil dying from this cancer. It is unbelievable that when nearly 20 years ago it was discovered that colon cancer begins as a polyp our medical community and insurance community just sat on this information. It is horrifying that since colon cancer has been known to be one of the top cause of cancer deaths for more than 100 years that it was only 5 years ago that the American Cancer Society even put it on its agenda. I am sitting here tonight with some memorial gifts in the name of a woman who 6 months ago called and ordered awareness bracelets. To the other side of my desk is a picture you sent of Phil and the obituary of Joe Savage sent to me by his daughter. How can a country that talks about " war on cancer " , " kinder gentler nation " , " taking care of our own " sit by and allow 58,000 people to die this year and every year from a preventable cancer. How can we go to war over the death of 3,000 on Sept 11 and do nothing as more than 15 times that die every year from this cancer. These people aren't statistics. They are fathers and mothers, sisters and brothers, friends and children. They are loved and have lives and are contributing to this world and are robbed of their very life when three or four extra screenings would have prevented it. Justice does not exist except where we demand that it does. Democracy doesn't happen except when we make it happen. I look forward to the day when there is an action team in your area and one in every state and every county within every state. But we don't even need that many to stand up to end this cancer. If we are vocal, insistant, and consistent it will happen. We have changed our chapter program. There are no chapters now only action teams. Chapters are a legal term. And with that comes a lot of headache, tracking, paperwork, etc. We aren't in business to grow a monster organization. We are just people who are coming together for one common goal. Make the 'system' use the technology and knowledge that already exists to stop this cancer. How do you become an action team? Say you are and you are. Give us a contact name, number and email so that others may join you in your action team. And you are then an active one. Do something. One small thing once. One small thing regularly. Large things. Just do it. And your action team is then part of the solution. We can sit and hurt for the losses around us. Or, when we can breathe again, we can get up and do something. The carnage is growing higher even now. Tonight there are 168 families newly joining us in the grief caused by the loss of someone to colon cancer. And tomorrow another 168 will join in the grieving. This world can truly hold up under unbelievable amounts of grief because it continues to just sit by as the number who are grieving grows. We can't sit by. I wish I could have been with you at Phil's funeral. You are 5 hours away but I was trying to arrange my schedule so that I could be there - and then we got 7 inches of snow and a few inches of ice. But I wish I could have been there for you for whatever little support I might have been able to add for you. God was surely not ready to have Phil come home yet. But colon cancer had other plans. We needed him here. There are two many hurting people in this world - they need men and women like Phil to heal them and lead them home. And I hate passionately that another person so much needed in this world is gone home to God. The price of great love is great loss. But I hate deeply that you had to pay the price so early. It is an honor to fight this with you. Priscilla A. Savary Executive Director Colorectal Cancer Network PO Box 182, Kensington MD 20895 psavary@... www.colorectal-cancer.net _________ Screening for All. Colon Cancer for None. ProjectMARCH -- rarely in life do you get a chance to make major change or save thousands of lives. March 6, 2006 you can. http://www.colorectal-cancer.net/projectmarch.htm Narice future plans I talked to Phil and once the dust settles with our current situation I would like to start a local chapter of CCNetwork here in Erie. I'll need lots of suggestions and HELP but I would really like to do this. Phil would also like me to March in Project March. I want to if I am physically and emotionally ready to do so. I did send 2 sheets of signatures to Priscilla let me know if you got them. Hope no one thinks this morbid but I know CCNetwork and Colon Cancer Support have been my Godsends and when the time comes I want to give back what I have received and work my way out of a job Narice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 19, 2005 Report Share Posted December 19, 2005 we can't take care of our own people... our beloved legislators are too busy sending every country in the whole world more money and then more money which if we used it at home would totally solve our budget problems, our health care issues, our senior drug problems. Everyone would have medical care. Gee, why are we the world's keepers. If they can't afford their populaces... its THEIR problem not ours. I am stepping up to the plate saying I'm sick of America helping everyone but the people who need it FIRST and MOST ... our taxpayers! Nonnie Who would say this on the news if they got a chance and NO I don't want to be an elected official cause then I woud have to be corrupt. Re: Narice future plans Narice, I received the signatures. Thank you. It really helps. I know what you mean about working your way out of a job. That has been my goal from the beginning. Colon cancer is so different from other cancers. We alreay know how to end it completely - screen all adults not just those over 50, and remove all polyps. We already have the technology needed - colonoscopies. Where as other cancers are desperate for research money - we are desperate for a mandate that all health insurance must cover all adults and that a fund be set up for screening all those adults without insurance. Those two things alone would eliminate any more people like Phil dying from this cancer. It is unbelievable that when nearly 20 years ago it was discovered that colon cancer begins as a polyp our medical community and insurance community just sat on this information. It is horrifying that since colon cancer has been known to be one of the top cause of cancer deaths for more than 100 years that it was only 5 years ago that the American Cancer Society even put it on its agenda. I am sitting here tonight with some memorial gifts in the name of a woman who 6 months ago called and ordered awareness bracelets. To the other side of my desk is a picture you sent of Phil and the obituary of Joe Savage sent to me by his daughter. How can a country that talks about " war on cancer " , " kinder gentler nation " , " taking care of our own " sit by and allow 58,000 people to die this year and every year from a preventable cancer. How can we go to war over the death of 3,000 on Sept 11 and do nothing as more than 15 times that die every year from this cancer. These people aren't statistics. They are fathers and mothers, sisters and brothers, friends and children. They are loved and have lives and are contributing to this world and are robbed of their very life when three or four extra screenings would have prevented it. Justice does not exist except where we demand that it does. Democracy doesn't happen except when we make it happen. I look forward to the day when there is an action team in your area and one in every state and every county within every state. But we don't even need that many to stand up to end this cancer. If we are vocal, insistant, and consistent it will happen. We have changed our chapter program. There are no chapters now only action teams. Chapters are a legal term. And with that comes a lot of headache, tracking, paperwork, etc. We aren't in business to grow a monster organization. We are just people who are coming together for one common goal. Make the 'system' use the technology and knowledge that already exists to stop this cancer. How do you become an action team? Say you are and you are. Give us a contact name, number and email so that others may join you in your action team. And you are then an active one. Do something. One small thing once. One small thing regularly. Large things. Just do it. And your action team is then part of the solution. We can sit and hurt for the losses around us. Or, when we can breathe again, we can get up and do something. The carnage is growing higher even now. Tonight there are 168 families newly joining us in the grief caused by the loss of someone to colon cancer. And tomorrow another 168 will join in the grieving. This world can truly hold up under unbelievable amounts of grief because it continues to just sit by as the number who are grieving grows. We can't sit by. I wish I could have been with you at Phil's funeral. You are 5 hours away but I was trying to arrange my schedule so that I could be there - and then we got 7 inches of snow and a few inches of ice. But I wish I could have been there for you for whatever little support I might have been able to add for you. God was surely not ready to have Phil come home yet. But colon cancer had other plans. We needed him here. There are two many hurting people in this world - they need men and women like Phil to heal them and lead them home. And I hate passionately that another person so much needed in this world is gone home to God. The price of great love is great loss. But I hate deeply that you had to pay the price so early. It is an honor to fight this with you. Priscilla A. Savary Executive Director Colorectal Cancer Network PO Box 182, Kensington MD 20895 psavary@... www.colorectal-cancer.net _________ Screening for All. Colon Cancer for None. ProjectMARCH -- rarely in life do you get a chance to make major change or save thousands of lives. March 6, 2006 you can. http://www.colorectal-cancer.net/projectmarch.htm Narice future plans I talked to Phil and once the dust settles with our current situation I would like to start a local chapter of CCNetwork here in Erie. I'll need lots of suggestions and HELP but I would really like to do this. Phil would also like me to March in Project March. I want to if I am physically and emotionally ready to do so. I did send 2 sheets of signatures to Priscilla let me know if you got them. Hope no one thinks this morbid but I know CCNetwork and Colon Cancer Support have been my Godsends and when the time comes I want to give back what I have received and work my way out of a job Narice Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted December 20, 2005 Report Share Posted December 20, 2005 Priscilla, thank you for explaining that. ~Deb from KS Priscilla Savary wrote: It isn't coming across negatively at all. Reviewing the research literature indicates that situations where colon cancer comes back in 5 or fewer years is believed to be most likely because it was not all gone and that micro mets still existed. Micros mets are those single cells or cellular groups too small to be detected. Six years is probably not all that far outside of that window statistically speaking. And that is why it is a good idea to always consider doing the GCC-B1 test right after you are declared cancer free and then every year or so after it for awhile. If it was clear right after it then you would have fairly solid evidence to indicate true cancer-free status. And if it later showed evidence of returning it would then be classified in most cases as not a recurrence but rather a second primary. Which is considered to be much much less common. And 6 " to either side is actually quite conservative. There are many who have much more removed. Priscilla A. Savary Executive Director Colorectal Cancer Network PO Box 182, Kensington MD 20895 psavary@... www.colorectal-cancer.net _________ Screening for All. Colon Cancer for None. ProjectMARCH -- rarely in life do you get a chance to make major change or save thousands of lives. March 6, 2006 you can. http://www.colorectal-cancer.net/projectmarch.htm Narice future plans I talked to Phil and once the dust settles with our current situation I would like to start a local chapter of CCNetwork here in Erie. I'll need lots of suggestions and HELP but I would really like to do this. Phil would also like me to March in Project March. I want to if I am physically and emotionally ready to do so. I did send 2 sheets of signatures to Priscilla let me know if you got them. Hope no one thinks this morbid but I know CCNetwork and Colon Cancer Support have been my Godsends and when the time comes I want to give back what I have received and work my way out of a job Narice __________________________________________________ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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