Re: A little overwhelmed ..../Deb from KS

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Dear Donelle, I wish there was something that I could do or say to

make you feel better. I am not good with words really, just feel

this ache in my heart for you. My prayers are going out to you and

Glenn. May God comfort him and you, and give patience to you and

your family. God bless.

~Deb from KS

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>

> In a message dated 11/4/2005 5:51:04 PM Eastern Standard Time,

> flytodeb@y... writes:

>

> OMG Donelle, this is devastating news. I was going to ask you if

> Glenn could have a liver transplant, hoping that there was a way,

> that he was going to make it. We all have to go sometime, but

we're

> not ready for this. This is so upsetting. No wonder we haven't

heard

> very much from you lately. You have been with the doctors and

> wanting to be a little by yourself. Donelle, you must be a saint.

> You say you are overwhelmed but I sense a calmness in your

message.

> My heart goes out to you at this time. I'm so sorry. So very

sorry.

> I pray that during these last weeks in hospice that you have some

> good times talking together and just being with each other.

Please

> remember the good times you had together before he had this

damned

> disease. God bless you both and all your family. You are always in

> my prayers.

> ~Deb from KS

>

>

>

> Hi Deb...

>

> From what I understand Cancer patients do not qualify for a liver

> transplant, b/c there's always a chance the Cancer is lurking

somewhere else in the

> body .... thus a liver would be " wasted " ...

>

> " a calmness in my message " ....hmmm interesting. Many years

of " stuffing "

> feelings!!!

>

> Yes, I've already suggested we look through some of our photos of

our trips,

> etc. We had a lot of good times in the last 6 yrs.

>

> Lots of hugs and prayers, Donelle

> Caregiver to Glenn