Re: Phil's update Tuesday November 22

[Guest guest]

Narice:

This is heartbreaking and I cannot even begin to imagine how horrible you

feel inside. It makes me sick in the pit of my stomach. How can you and Phil

be so strong through this? I hope that I could do as well.

How are your boys? I am so sorry for them as well.

We are all thinking of you and Phil.

[Guest guest]

Narice,

I can only imagine how difficult this is for you. Losing a parent or

grandparent is nothing like the love of your life so I can't even begin to

relate to what you must be feeling. Just know that if there was anything I

could do to take this pain away from you, I'd do it in a minute. I'm here for

you and praying every day that God will give you all peace and comfort. That's

the best any of us can do from a distance.

flipper759@... wrote:

Hello

Please forgive my lack of more frequent updates as we have had lots of

visitors and have not had the time between that and caring for Phil I am just

frankly exhausted and have not had much time or energy to write.

Phil is jaundiced especially his eyes His skin tone resembles that of the

Asian culture, or baby jaundiced than straight out yellow. His appetite is good

and he drinks about 2 quarts of Gatorade and lots of water every day.

Monday was very crowded. His Dad, brother, Aunt, Uncle, two cousins, and my

mother were all here at once. And there are more visitors today. It is great

but tiring.

Our family fluctuates between joyful laughter and memories to deep aching

sorrow and everything in between. Dan is at Thiel today meeting with the

Registrar to work out his classes. Tim is very watchful and protective of me

and

our dog Ebony stands guard over Phil making sure no one hurts her " Daddy "

Me?

Oh my God how do you deal with losing someone this wonderful? I thank God

for every minute of our 20 years together but yes I want 20 or 30 more

nevermind that 25th anniversary we won't get. I can't imagine my life without

him

don't want to and seldom go there it hurts too much.

But to look at me you would probably not see all that I hear I'm strong and

similar phrases and if I am well it is God not me.

We are uplifted by the prayers the cards, the calls, and the visits from all

of you.

May God continue to bless each and every one.

Narice

[Guest guest]

Denis said this very well. Jolene also from a distance.

Re: Phil's update Tuesday November 22

Narice,

I can only imagine how difficult this is for you. Losing a parent or

grandparent is nothing like the love of your life so I can't even begin to

relate to what you must be feeling. Just know that if there was anything I

could do to take this pain away from you, I'd do it in a minute. I'm here

for you and praying every day that God will give you all peace and comfort.

That's the best any of us can do from a distance.

_____

[Guest guest]

Oh Narice, you are in my prayers and thoughts every waking minute. Stay in

today...Phil is still here.

love, karima

Phil's update Tuesday November 22

Hello

Please forgive my lack of more frequent updates as we have had lots of

visitors and have not had the time between that and caring for Phil I am just

frankly exhausted and have not had much time or energy to write.

Phil is jaundiced especially his eyes His skin tone resembles that of the

Asian culture, or baby jaundiced than straight out yellow. His appetite is

good

and he drinks about 2 quarts of Gatorade and lots of water every day.

Monday was very crowded. His Dad, brother, Aunt, Uncle, two cousins, and my

mother were all here at once. And there are more visitors today. It is great

but tiring.

Our family fluctuates between joyful laughter and memories to deep aching

sorrow and everything in between. Dan is at Thiel today meeting with the

Registrar to work out his classes. Tim is very watchful and protective of me

and

our dog Ebony stands guard over Phil making sure no one hurts her " Daddy "

Me?

Oh my God how do you deal with losing someone this wonderful? I thank God

for every minute of our 20 years together but yes I want 20 or 30 more

nevermind that 25th anniversary we won't get. I can't imagine my life without

him

don't want to and seldom go there it hurts too much.

But to look at me you would probably not see all that I hear I'm strong and

similar phrases and if I am well it is God not me.

We are uplifted by the prayers the cards, the calls, and the visits from all

of you.

May God continue to bless each and every one.

Narice

[Guest guest]

Narice, It is good that you have lots of visitors to help keep

everyone busy and not dwell to much.

I am Praying for all to find lots of strength in this ordel.

God Bless All Of YOU!!! Love,Ingrid

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> Hello

> Please forgive my lack of more frequent updates as we have had

lots of

> visitors and have not had the time between that and caring for Phil

I am just

> frankly exhausted and have not had much time or energy to write.

>

> Phil is jaundiced especially his eyes His skin tone resembles that

of the

> Asian culture, or baby jaundiced than straight out yellow. His

appetite is good

> and he drinks about 2 quarts of Gatorade and lots of water every

day.

>

> Monday was very crowded. His Dad, brother, Aunt, Uncle, two

cousins, and my

> mother were all here at once. And there are more visitors today.

It is great

> but tiring.

>

> Our family fluctuates between joyful laughter and memories to deep

aching

> sorrow and everything in between. Dan is at Thiel today meeting

with the

> Registrar to work out his classes. Tim is very watchful and

protective of me and

> our dog Ebony stands guard over Phil making sure no one hurts

her " Daddy "

>

> Me?

> Oh my God how do you deal with losing someone this wonderful? I

thank God

> for every minute of our 20 years together but yes I want 20 or 30

more

> nevermind that 25th anniversary we won't get. I can't imagine my

life without him

> don't want to and seldom go there it hurts too much.

>

> But to look at me you would probably not see all that I hear I'm

strong and

> similar phrases and if I am well it is God not me.

>

> We are uplifted by the prayers the cards, the calls, and the

visits from all

> of you.

> May God continue to bless each and every one.

>

> Narice

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