Narice and Donelle/ Phil's update Tuesday November 22

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>>>Me?

Oh my God how do you deal with losing someone this wonderful? I thank God

for every minute of our 20 years together but yes I want 20 or 30 more

nevermind that 25th anniversary we won't get. I can't imagine my life without

him

don't want to and seldom go there it hurts too much.

>>>>

Dear Narice,

My heart goes out to you, and to Donelle. Although the marriage vows say, " until

death do us part " .... " in sickness and in health " .....oh, how unprepared we are

for the possibility that one of the most important things we may have to do in

our life is to help the one we love to leave us.

The cruelty of it all. After all, you are joined together as one. This man is

the other part of you, and you of he.

I was just thinking about how the disciples must have felt when Jesus went

through the pain of the cross. How they must have felt so helpless, so sick

inside, and yes, so abandoned! Nothing to do to stop it. This Man whom they had

wrapped their whole life around.

But you know, He promised " I go to prepare a place for you. " Well, I believe

that with all of my heart. I believe He has a place , a beautiful place beyond

our imaginations even, that our loved one will go to. And our loved one is going

to prepare it for their mate. And some day, it will be enjoyed together, the two

partners, with Him.

I think it had to be done that we have no memory of that place when we come to

this earth. He has to erase it from our minds. If He didn't, we would be

yearning for it all the time and would never get His work done here on earth. I

don't believe He did it just to deprive us of knowing how wonderful it is, He

had to. He made us so He knew we wouldn't be able to function here if we knew

the glory ahead.

Just wanted to share those few thoughts with you two, and anyone else it might

help, I hope it does....help, I mean and not hurt to think of these things.

Love to you,

J

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, Your words are so beautiful!!!!! Love, Ingrid

>

> >>>Me?

> Oh my God how do you deal with losing someone this wonderful? I

thank God

> for every minute of our 20 years together but yes I want 20 or 30

more

> nevermind that 25th anniversary we won't get. I can't imagine my

life without him

> don't want to and seldom go there it hurts too much.

> >>>>

>

> Dear Narice,

>

> My heart goes out to you, and to Donelle. Although the marriage

vows say, " until death do us part " .... " in sickness and in

health " .....oh, how unprepared we are for the possibility that one of

the most important things we may have to do in our life is to help

the one we love to leave us.

>

> The cruelty of it all. After all, you are joined together as one.

This man is the other part of you, and you of he.

>

> I was just thinking about how the disciples must have felt when

Jesus went through the pain of the cross. How they must have felt so

helpless, so sick inside, and yes, so abandoned! Nothing to do to

stop it. This Man whom they had wrapped their whole life around.

> But you know, He promised " I go to prepare a place for you. " Well,

I believe that with all of my heart. I believe He has a place , a

beautiful place beyond our imaginations even, that our loved one will

go to. And our loved one is going to prepare it for their mate. And

some day, it will be enjoyed together, the two partners, with Him.

>

> I think it had to be done that we have no memory of that place when

we come to this earth. He has to erase it from our minds. If He

didn't, we would be yearning for it all the time and would never get

His work done here on earth. I don't believe He did it just to

deprive us of knowing how wonderful it is, He had to. He made us so

He knew we wouldn't be able to function here if we knew the glory

ahead.

>

> Just wanted to share those few thoughts with you two, and anyone

else it might help, I hope it does....help, I mean and not hurt to

think of these things.

>

> Love to you,

> J

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>>>, Your words are so beautiful!!!!! Love, Ingrid

>>>

Well, I don't know about that, but they are heartfelt:)

You all just mean so much to me.

And a reminder....each and every one of you are remembered in Cherokee prayer

ceremonies EVERY Friday night.

I try to keep our adawehi updated on everyone, using first names only for your

privacy. You all hold a special place in many peoples hearts.

Please don't ever feel alone, or that no one is praying for you.....someone is.

nancy

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Thank YOU so much . Love, Ingrid

>

> >>>, Your words are so beautiful!!!!! Love, Ingrid

> >>>

>

> Well, I don't know about that, but they are heartfelt:)

> You all just mean so much to me.

>

> And a reminder....each and every one of you are remembered in

Cherokee prayer ceremonies EVERY Friday night.

> I try to keep our adawehi updated on everyone, using first names

only for your privacy. You all hold a special place in many peoples

hearts.

> Please don't ever feel alone, or that no one is praying for

you.....someone is.

>

> nancy

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