Age Gap and adopted children

[Guest guest]

Hello again,

Can you you help me with this one. I need your advice. I have a

lady in the branch who is married to a man and they have a child aged

about 1 now. This is his second marriage as his first wife died.

However he has teeage twins of 13 to his first wife.

My friend in the branch is pretty low right now. Not only does she

have ME but a litle depressed I'd say. She struggles with trying to

balance the love she has for her own child and that of her husbands

as well as the apparenet age gap. She finds it really difficuilt and

so is guilty most of the time.

Have any of you been in or are you in a similar situation? What

advsie would you give? What should she do?

Thanks for your help

x Caroline