Re: Update on EmmaRESPONSE

[Guest guest]

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Is your husband OK w/ being stay at home dad? That sucks about his job.

Things are the same if not worse (as though they could get worse) with my

husband. His new friend is V Odka... I feel like we are Russia in the COLD

WAR.. We don't speak - only about the kids. He has been a quiet one lately,

except last night he started turning mean and yelling.

I am meeting a lawyer on Monday. I am scared but I will manage. I keep

telling myself that I have handled everything thrown at me thus far and I will

handle this but I am still a wreck over it.

Thanks for caring enough to ask.

Rosemary in NY with 3 children (12, 10 and 6)

with CF. I have a dog named TOBI and

coined the phrase " BREATHE DAMMIT "

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 6/4/2003 6:40:39 AM Central Daylight Time,

ROSEMARY3FOR3wCF@... writes:

>

> -

>

> Is your husband OK w/ being stay at home dad? That sucks about his job.

>

> Things are the same if not worse (as though they could get worse) with my

> husband. His new friend is V Odka... I feel like we are Russia in the COLD

>

> WAR.. We don't speak - only about the kids. He has been a quiet one lately,

>

> except last night he started turning mean and yelling.

>

> I am meeting a lawyer on Monday. I am scared but I will manage. I keep

> telling myself that I have handled everything thrown at me thus far and I

> will

> handle this but I am still a wreck over it.

>

> Thanks for caring enough to ask.

>

> Rosemary in NY with 3 children (12, 10 and 6)

> with CF. I have a dog named TOBI and

> coined the phrase " BREATHE DAMMIT "

Good Luck Rosemary!!! you can do it!! You deserve better!!! Deb A

[Guest guest]

Good Luck Rosemary. My thoughts will be with you.

love,

M

[Guest guest]

Rosemary and ,

good luck for the both of you with your upcoming new life. You'll be able to

handle it.

Sebastian is hungry all the time and despite Silke's fears that she might

not have enough milk he has gained more than two pounds in less than two

weeks at home. Fiona drove us crazy because she had no appettite, Sebastian

drives us crazy with his appettite, it's hard for mother nature to do it

right for us.

Peace

Torsten, dad of Fiona 6wcf and Sebastian newborn wocf

e-mail: torstenkrafft@...

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 6/5/2003 9:05:18 PM Central Daylight Time,

maria_law@... writes:

> . Basically, he can only focus on one

> thing at a time.

And what man doesn't LOL!!! they all come from the same mold!!! Sorry

couldn't let that one go!! Men can only handle one thing at a time they have

know

idea what it is like to do laundry, make supper, pick up the house, help you

children with homework, and do treatments all at the same time!! Let's face it

they wouldn't know what do without women in there life's. Deb A

[Guest guest]

Rosemary,

I am sorry to hear that it's back to where it was again with your

husband. I am sure that is disappointing. The drinking issue is a real

hard one. I was certainly hoping that things would improve. Good luck

with the meeting with your lawyer. You definately seem like a survivor

to me. I am sure you will get through this. We can't be there to help

you get through this but don't forget we are here if you need to

talk/write and our thoughts are defianately with you, pulling for you.

My husband seems to be okay with being a stay at home dad. He certainly

understands how trying Emma can be and how difficult dealing with her

feeding issues will be but I think he is actually looking forward to

spending more time with the girls. He is fried out at the moment and

needs a break from what he was doing. He loves kids, is very creative

and likes to get down to their level. He isn't always patient with them

but we all have our moments of frustration with our kids, I don't think

he is overly nasty with them or anything. His big issue is being

organized. He is not. He never notices what time it is or things that

need to be done around the house. Basically, he can only focus on one

thing at a time. This will definately be an issue but hopefully he will

adjust some or I'm going to be a pretty busy person at night.

Talk to you later,

- mom to Emma almost 3 years old w/cf and acid reflux and Isabelle

4 1/2 years old wo/cf

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[Guest guest]

Big smile Torsten! It's great to hear the little guy's doing so well!

love to all,

M

Re: Update on EmmaRESPONSE

> Rosemary and ,

>

> good luck for the both of you with your upcoming new life. You'll be able

to

> handle it.

>

> Sebastian is hungry all the time and despite Silke's fears that she might

> not have enough milk he has gained more than two pounds in less than two

> weeks at home. Fiona drove us crazy because she had no appettite,

Sebastian

> drives us crazy with his appettite, it's hard for mother nature to do it

> right for us.

>

> Peace

> Torsten, dad of Fiona 6wcf and Sebastian newborn wocf

> e-mail: torstenkrafft@...

>

>

>

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> be construed as medical advice.

>

> PLEASE CONSULT YOUR PHYSICIAN BEFORE CHANGING ANY MEDICATIONS OR

TREATMENTS.

>

> ------------------------------------

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

Deb - I noticed the same exact thing!! Men cannot multi-task. I only know

one guy who can !

Rosemary in NY with 3 children (12, 10 and 6)

with CF. I have a dog named TOBI and

coined the phrase " BREATHE DAMMIT "

[Guest guest]

Amen to that, Deb.

Maybe Torsten is the exception to this rule!

> In a message dated 6/5/2003 9:05:18 PM Central Daylight Time,

> maria_law@... writes:

>

>

> > .  Basically, he can only focus on one

> > thing at a time.

>

> And what man doesn't LOL!!! they all come from the same mold!!! Sorry

> couldn't let that one go!!  Men can only handle one thing at a time

> they have know

> idea what it is like to do laundry, make supper, pick up the house,

> help you

> children with homework, and do treatments all at the same time!! Let's

> face it

> they wouldn't know what do without women in there life's. Deb A

>

>

>

[Guest guest]

In a message dated 6/6/2003 5:28:42 AM Central Daylight Time,

ROSEMARY3FOR3wCF@... writes:

> Deb - I noticed the same exact thing!! Men cannot multi-task. I only know

> one guy who can !

Well, is that one guy married? Sounds like a good caught to me or is he gay?

LOL! Deb A

[Guest guest]

My guess would be neither, maybe someone of a higher spirit......... : )

I am with you, I really don't know of many men that can multi task, at least

when YOU need them to. My husband can't seem to do any multi tasking at home,

but at work, he seems to be all about multi tasking (he's an ER nurse).

Katy

Mom to Austin almost 4 w/o CF & Piper 11 months w/CF

gdattig5@... wrote:

In a message dated 6/6/2003 5:28:42 AM Central Daylight Time,

ROSEMARY3FOR3wCF@... writes:

> Deb - I noticed the same exact thing!! Men cannot multi-task. I only know

> one guy who can !

Well, is that one guy married? Sounds like a good caught to me or is he gay?

LOL! Deb A

[Guest guest]

Dear Rosemary,

I am so sorry things haven't changed for the better. I will hold you in my

special thoughts .especially on Monday. You are such a good mom & I am sure

from all your writings a great person.......so kind & thoughtful . You will

have added help on your shoulders as you venture into this tough decision..

Please know we are all here ..............

Also, as I have say before. if away time is needed --I keep the light on

.........

it isn't too, bad a drive either :)

LOVE & HUGS,

GrandmomBEV

Re: Update on EmmaRESPONSE

-

Is your husband OK w/ being stay at home dad? That sucks about his job.

Things are the same if not worse (as though they could get worse) with my

husband. His new friend is V Odka... I feel like we are Russia in the COLD

WAR.. We don't speak - only about the kids. He has been a quiet one lately,

except last night he started turning mean and yelling.

I am meeting a lawyer on Monday. I am scared but I will manage. I keep

telling myself that I have handled everything thrown at me thus far and I

will

handle this but I am still a wreck over it.

Thanks for caring enough to ask.

Rosemary in NY with 3 children (12, 10 and 6)

with CF. I have a dog named TOBI and

coined the phrase " BREATHE DAMMIT "

[Guest guest]

Dear Rosemary,

I am so sorry things haven't changed for the better. I will hold you in my

special thoughts .especially on Monday. You are such a good mom & I am sure

from all your writings a great person.......so kind & thoughtful . You will

have added help on your shoulders as you venture into this tough decision..

Please know we are all here ..............

Also, as I have say before. if away time is needed --I keep the light on

.........

it isn't too, bad a drive either :)

LOVE & HUGS,

GrandmomBEV

Re: Update on EmmaRESPONSE

-

Is your husband OK w/ being stay at home dad? That sucks about his job.

Things are the same if not worse (as though they could get worse) with my

husband. His new friend is V Odka... I feel like we are Russia in the COLD

WAR.. We don't speak - only about the kids. He has been a quiet one lately,

except last night he started turning mean and yelling.

I am meeting a lawyer on Monday. I am scared but I will manage. I keep

telling myself that I have handled everything thrown at me thus far and I

will

handle this but I am still a wreck over it.

Thanks for caring enough to ask.

Rosemary in NY with 3 children (12, 10 and 6)

with CF. I have a dog named TOBI and

coined the phrase " BREATHE DAMMIT "