RE: About what daddy said...le

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Sheesh le, what's in that patch you started on? I want somma dat.

Melting in land

> ** Original Subject: RE: About what daddy said...

> **

> ** Original Date: Mon, 21 Aug 2000 13:20:17 -0400

> ** Original Message follows...

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> In a message dated 08/21/2000 11:05:23 AM Central Daylight Time,

> MiniGastricBypass (AT) egroups (DOT) com writes:

>

> << Now, I really really envy you ladies who have found the great guys, but

> they are not falling out of trees around here. How about some hints on

> where to find them??

> >>

>

> Hey everybody,

>

> I have not been morbidly obese very long (two years), so I may be speaking

> from a different vantage point. My self esteem has always been HELLA high. My

> daddy instilled it in me from the time I was a very small child. So, the

> young lady whose daddy said " no one will ever love you fat " , did her a major

> disservice. I have always loved me, so I projected that to others. No one

> ever treated me poorly even at my highest of 272 because I have a ZERO

> tolerance for BULLISHT. I know this will sound cliche'ish...but it's so true.

> We have to love ourselves before anyone one else will. Otherwise you will be

> preyed on by those who get power from exploiting the weaknesses of others.

> Once you decide that you are only worthy of the best, miraculously you will

> attract only those who are capable of loving you.

>

> I was the BOMB when I met my hubby. I gained over a hundred since we met.

> Now, I won't say he is particularly attracted to morbidly obese women. But,

> his love for me was always apparent. He is pleased with my current weight

> loss, but he never treated me any differently. He's just happy that I like

> doing things again. ( I had become self conscious and reclusive).

>

> So, YES someone can/will love a fat person, but only if you can truly love

> yourself. And, tell anyone (starting with your dad) who tells you that you

> are unlovable to KISS YOUR @$$(rhymes with class). And $#@%^ (rhymes with

> duck) any one who can't see your true inner beauty. So, do anything, go to

> counseling, do self help...to regain your self worth. The men are out

> there...all over. YOU ARE THE PRIZE...believe it. The men will start to fall

> from the sky and you can sing " It's raining men...hallelujah, it's raining

> men. "

>

> le

> twelve weeks post op

>

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