Guest guest Posted January 30, 2002 Report Share Posted January 30, 2002 In a message dated 1/30/02 11:09:17 AM Pacific Standard Time, magic.cottage@... writes: << Well my mantra for this year is " Take no crap!!!! " And I'm sticking to it! >> Elaine good for you!!!! I'm so proud of you. My daughter is going through almost the exact same thing with her ex and his parents. Her daughter is only 4. She has a half brother that is 8. When she picked her up at his parents (that is where he lives, no car,no license, no job) they were all eating Mcs except Makeila. My daughter called when she got home as to not make a scene in front of the kids. His parents just came out and said they like Nic better and they really don't care about Makeila. Talk about jerks.... I bet we both have a ton of stories to tell..and I bet they are the same. I'm really proud of you Elaine...you have done so well for yourself. My daughter is the same way. She will make it on her own and has finally learned not to take any crap and stick up for herself. She was so Emotionally abused that I never thought we would get her back. She is back and even BETTER!!! God does work in mysterious ways. You keep up the good work. and I'm keeping my fingers crossed for that new job. hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2002 Report Share Posted January 30, 2002 In a message dated 1/30/02 11:54:35 AM Pacific Standard Time, katdavis@... writes: << NO CRAP, NO MORE. Love ya, >> I like your attitude . I'm sure the stress of all of this didn't help our situation. In fact I came down with Rp a year after my grandaughter was born. My daughter was only married a short time and came to live here through most of her pregnancy. I had my mom living here too. So Yes, it was a stessful time. I'm going to use your motto from now on. LOL hugs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2002 Report Share Posted January 30, 2002 Great going Elaine! I'm proud you stood your ground. Yeah! keep it up! We are glad your back with us also. We missed you. Take care, Love Lu is "Take no crap!!!!" And I'm sticking to it! Boy it feels good to be back here and have all this support. You guys are all so great! I've really missed you all! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2002 Report Share Posted January 30, 2002 Thanks Lu, Can you keep your fingers crossed about the new job too!!!! Now I got the ex's mother and sister on my case. I wouldn't take a phone call from his sister so she sent me a nasty email. So I emailed her back and said that I was sorry she felt that way but I'm not going to just sit there like they do and let him treat his daughter like trash. They rarely call except on 's birthday or at Christmas and then ask to speak to her, so when they ask for me I know I'm going to get crap, so why should I answer. They always say that it's between me and him, but when the shoe is on the other foot they jump right in. Well my mantra for this year is "Take no crap!!!!" And I'm sticking to it! Boy it feels good to be back here and have all this support. You guys are all so great! I've really missed you all! Thanks again, Elaine Re: Elaine-New home Hi Elaine, well you got a laugh out of me this morning. lol You go girl! Its great to see post from you. I'll keep my fingers crossed about the house. Love ya Lu Oh and the ex called today. I'm so proud of myself, I didn't even listen to his message, just deleted him. It felt so good!!! DISCLAIMER!!WE ARE NOT MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS, THEREFORE ANY INFORMATION THAT IS RECEIVED HERE IS FROM EXPERIENCE ONLY. PLEASE CONSULT WITH YOUR DOCTOR BEFORE TRYING ANYTHING THAT IS SUGGESTED. WE ARE NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR YOUR PHYSICIAN AND ARE NOT TRYING TO BE. REMEMBER EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT AND TREATMENT MAYBE DIFFERENT FOR MANY OF US. THANK YOU Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2002 Report Share Posted January 30, 2002 Elaine/, Do you think this is the kinda stress that contributed to our RP? My daughter was involved with an emotionally/physically abusive guy for far too long and as a result we have a wonderful 5 yr old granddaughter. Luckily there was no marriage, but gee it's a lot of crap to put up with to protect that little girl. Elaine, you hang in there. I'm pulling for you big time. NO CRAP, NO MORE. Love ya, Re: Lu thanks. > In a message dated 1/30/02 11:09:17 AM Pacific Standard Time, > magic.cottage@... writes: > > << Well my mantra for this year is " Take no crap!!!! " And I'm sticking to it! > >> > > Elaine good for you!!!! I'm so proud of you. My daughter is going through > almost the exact same thing with her ex and his parents. Her daughter is > only 4. She has a half brother that is 8. When she picked her up at his > parents (that is where he lives, no car,no license, no job) they were all > eating Mcs except Makeila. My daughter called when she got home as to > not make a scene in front of the kids. His parents just came out and said > they like Nic better and they really don't care about Makeila. > Talk about jerks.... I bet we both have a ton of stories to tell..and I bet > they are the same. I'm really proud of you Elaine...you have done so well > for yourself. My daughter is the same way. She will make it on her own and > has finally learned not to take any crap and stick up for herself. She was > so Emotionally abused that I never thought we would get her back. She is > back and even BETTER!!! God does work in mysterious ways. > > You keep up the good work. and I'm keeping my fingers crossed for that new > job. > > hugs > > > > DISCLAIMER!! > WE ARE NOT MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS, THEREFORE ANY INFORMATION THAT IS RECEIVED HERE IS FROM EXPERIENCE ONLY. PLEASE CONSULT WITH YOUR DOCTOR BEFORE TRYING ANYTHING THAT IS SUGGESTED. WE ARE NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR YOUR PHYSICIAN AND ARE NOT TRYING TO BE. REMEMBER EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT AND TREATMENT MAYBE DIFFERENT FOR MANY OF US. THANK YOU > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted January 30, 2002 Report Share Posted January 30, 2002 Right on ! We are not toilets... therefore we don't accept crap!!!!! Elaine Re: Lu thanks.> >> << Well my mantra for this year is "Take no crap!!!!" And I'm sticking toit!> >>>> Elaine good for you!!!! I'm so proud of you. My daughter is goingthrough> almost the exact same thing with her ex and his parents. Her daughter is> only 4. She has a half brother that is 8. When she picked her up at his> parents (that is where he lives, no car,no license, no job) they were all> eating Mcs except Makeila. My daughter called when she got home asto> not make a scene in front of the kids. His parents just came out and said> they like Nic better and they really don't care about Makeila.> Talk about jerks.... I bet we both have a ton of stories to tell..and Ibet> they are the same. I'm really proud of you Elaine...you have done sowell> for yourself. My daughter is the same way. She will make it on her ownand> has finally learned not to take any crap and stick up for herself. Shewas> so Emotionally abused that I never thought we would get her back. She is> back and even BETTER!!! God does work in mysterious ways.>> You keep up the good work. and I'm keeping my fingers crossed for that new> job.>> hugs> >>> DISCLAIMER!!> WE ARE NOT MEDICAL PROFESSIONALS, THEREFORE ANY INFORMATION THAT ISRECEIVED HERE IS FROM EXPERIENCE ONLY. PLEASE CONSULT WITH YOUR DOCTORBEFORE TRYING ANYTHING THAT IS SUGGESTED. WE ARE NOT A SUBSTITUTE FOR YOURPHYSICIAN AND ARE NOT TRYING TO BE. REMEMBER EVERYONE IS DIFFERENT ANDTREATMENT MAYBE DIFFERENT FOR MANY OF US. THANK YOU>> Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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