Re: OT: Sad news (pregnancy)

[Guest guest]

> Dear All,

> To all the sweet, concerned helpers who gave me advice till

> recently

> on my pregnancy. I learnt this morning that it got aborted about 3

> weeks ago

> soon after my 1 st transvaginal ultrsound

This is sad news indeed, Suneeti and we all commiserate with you and

hope you will be more successful with a future pregnancy.

Carol F.

Celiac, MCS, Latex Allergy, EMS

SCD 6 years

[Guest guest]

So, so sorry to hear this!

Please be comforted in knowing that the baby is with God.....

Hope

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> Dear All,

> To all the sweet, concerned helpers who gave me advice till

> recently

> on my pregnancy. I learnt this morning that it got aborted about 3

> weeks ago

> soon after my 1 st transvaginal ultrsound

This is sad news indeed, Suneeti and we all commiserate with you and

hope you will be more successful with a future pregnancy.

Carol F.

Celiac, MCS, Latex Allergy, EMS

SCD 6 years

[Guest guest]

Praying for you.

Sandy M.

>

> Dear All,

> To all the sweet, concerned helpers who gave me advice till

recently

> on my pregnancy. I learnt this morning that it got aborted about 3

weeks ago

> soon after my 1 st transvaginal ultrsound (close to finishing 6

weeks).

> Since last friday I noticed very pale pink smears on the tissue

after

> visiting the toilet but just a couple of times in a day. I had no

other

> signs or aches and pains whatsoever. I saw a friend's Gyn that

evening (my

> Gyn could not meet me but asked to call him monday morning), who

didi a

> pelvic exam and said the uterus seemed small and to come back

Monday for an

> ultrasound, but to call on the weekend if things got pretty bad.

> This Monday morning after breakfast I had to go to the

toilet and

> noticed I had red staining and panicked. Called my Ob/Gyn who

proceeded to

> do another transvaginal. I first asked him if it was really safe

to do the

> transvaginal and he reassured me about the time of exposure and

the

> temparature used. Well, I knew I had to proceed with this 2nd one

for the

> medical reasons. He dated the time I miscarried to have been just

after the

> 1st ultrasound. The embryo never grew beyond the measurement noted

during

> the 1st ultrasound (3mm) - we obviously heard the heartbeat that

day. He

> feels it could have happened due to my age (44) and/or chromosomal

> abnormalities. Who knows.

> I have been naturally emotional even though one was aware of

the

> variables weighing against my situation. I am still trying to keep

myself

> busy and that certainly helps. The fact that I can open my heart

out to

> friends like you is a wonderful balm in itself.

>

> Thank you for listening to me.

> Suneeti

>

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[Guest guest]

Praying that God will comfort and sustain you.

[Guest guest]

I was so saddened by your news.Sending you love and light and some reiki

tonight, Josie

[Guest guest]

I am very sorry about your sad news. The same thing happened to me minus the

spotting you experienced. That was even worse. If possible. I went in for a

" scheduled or normal " appt and there was no heartbeat. I know it is of little

comfort but I believe now (not so much at that time in my life about 10 yrs ago)

that things happen for a reason. I must say if nothing else having an autistic

child has given me a greater, stronger faith. Hang in there. I've been there

and its horrible. You are strong. Keep your head held high. Your friends are

always here to comfort or to listen when you need us.

April.

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April,

I appreciate and take comfort in your words. You are very right when

you say that things happen for a reason. I was thinking the same just this

morning as I went about finishing up usual morning chores. One has to move

on even if it is step by step.

Thank you.

Suneeti

>

>Reply-To: pecanbread

>To: pecanbread

>Subject: Re: OT: Sad news (pregnancy)

>Date: Mon, 19 Jun 2006 20:00:11 -0700 (PDT)

>

>I am very sorry about your sad news.

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[Guest guest]

Dearest one, I cried when I saw this post. It is not easy. I know.

I lost four to miscarriage. I hope that you have support at this

time. It can become very difficult dealing with those who clearly do

not understand your pain. Try to ignore their stupid commits. I pray

that God gives you the strength to get threw this and then you embrace

your truth. My OBGYN said something rather alarming after we lost

Kiki's twin (this was the forth baby we lost). He claimed that they

where thinking of raising the miscariage rate to 1:3 in the USA. This

alarmed me. I could not believe it. After the third loss, we

decided to adopt. And then when Kiki was born with so many problems,

celiac and now autistic.....when she was five months old our new born

Bubbles came....she too was so sick. It can't help but make one want

to cry.... " what are we doing to our world and to our beautiful

children?! " But I truly think I got my " twins " , but God did it in a

trickey way! Yet, Without SCD I feel rather powerless over it

all....without SCD I would truly be broken hearted, my surviving

daughter(s) would have had just horrible lifes. Hang in there, it has

to get better if you are eating this way! I urge you to get healthy

and try again....or adopt or something. I will never regret it.

Loving embrace and support to you at this time, Antoinette and Family-

Kiki -2 celiac/autistic, Bubbles -1 hyperekplexia SCD 2/06

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Dear Suneeti,

This happened to me about five years ago... I'm very sorry for your loss.

You are in my prayers for healing and restoration.

Agape,

Suneeti Sahgal wrote:

Dear All,

To all the sweet, concerned helpers who gave me advice till recently

on my pregnancy. I learnt this morning that it got aborted about 3 weeks ago

soon after my 1 st transvaginal ultrsound (close to finishing 6 weeks).

Since last friday I noticed very pale pink smears on the tissue after

visiting the toilet but just a couple of times in a day. I had no other

signs or aches and pains whatsoever. I saw a friend's Gyn that evening (my

Gyn could not meet me but asked to call him monday morning), who didi a

pelvic exam and said the uterus seemed small and to come back Monday for an

ultrasound, but to call on the weekend if things got pretty bad.

This Monday morning after breakfast I had to go to the toilet and

noticed I had red staining and panicked. Called my Ob/Gyn who proceeded to

do another transvaginal. I first asked him if it was really safe to do the

transvaginal and he reassured me about the time of exposure and the

temparature used. Well, I knew I had to proceed with this 2nd one for the

medical reasons. He dated the time I miscarried to have been just after the

1st ultrasound. The embryo never grew beyond the measurement noted during

the 1st ultrasound (3mm) - we obviously heard the heartbeat that day. He

feels it could have happened due to my age (44) and/or chromosomal

abnormalities. Who knows.

I have been naturally emotional even though one was aware of the

variables weighing against my situation. I am still trying to keep myself

busy and that certainly helps. The fact that I can open my heart out to

friends like you is a wonderful balm in itself.

Thank you for listening to me.

Suneeti

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