Guest guest Posted August 22, 2000 Report Share Posted August 22, 2000 In a message dated 8/22/2000 9:36:13 AM Eastern Daylight Time, taniaday2@... writes: << I am crying right now so if I am not making sense please forgive me. I just hate this. Tania >> Bless your heart Tania!!! I'm so sorry. I wish there was something I could say to make you feel better, some parents just don't seem to get what making a promise to their child (any age) and then backing out does. I have always made a point of never promising my kids anything I wasn't willing to follow through with. I do so hope things work out for you. I'll keep you in my prayers!!!!!!!!!! Cathy Morrow in Lenoir, NC BMI 42 A journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 22, 2000 Report Share Posted August 22, 2000 Will they still lend the money for the surgery if the insurance doesn't approve? J =( > Ok you guys.... > > I am totally devastated and crying my eyes out. This started yesterday. My > dad is not totally against me having surgery. Back in July when I got > another denial letter from my insurance and was crying my dad, who was here > visiting here with my mom, said that him and my mother would lend me the > money for it if need be but to keep fighting my insurance. Now, even though > my mom is still for me (she goes both ways but supports me cause she knows it > will make me happy) and is still willing to lend me the money, my dad is > telling me I am not doing the right thing, I should wait another year (he > thinks I will change my mind) he doesn't think I try hard enough with > dieting. I have been dieting since I was 12. If I could have lost weight > this way and kept it off, doesn't he realize I would have done it a long time > ago and this wouldn't be an issue? He is still willing to go to NC and be > there for me cause he loves me but he is making this so difficult because he > is actually get mad at me. I was telling him, I have been dieting and > excersing since almost all my life and that he doesn't see my struggle with > this and he hung up on me. I am crying right now so if I am not making sense > please forgive me. I just hate this. > > Tania > > > > This message is from the Mini-Gastric Bypass Mailing List at Onelist.com > Please visit our web site at http://clos.net > Get the Patient Manual at http://clos.net/get_patient_manual.htm > > To Unsubscribe Send and Email to: MiniGastricBypass-unsubscribe (AT) egroups (DOT) com > > > Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest guest Posted August 23, 2000 Report Share Posted August 23, 2000 I am sorry to hear that tania. Hopefully your dad will come around for you. Give him a little more time. If a person is not fat, they don't really know what we go through even though they are around us and see for themselves. I will be praying for you and may God bless you is my prayer. (waiting to start a new life) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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