Husband gaining weight

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Hello to all. I have a dilema and need some feed back. Have any of you

experienced a significant other meaning husband, wife, girl friend, boyfriend

ect

gaining alot of weight after your surgery?

I am concerned for my husband as he has really shot up and I don't know if

there is anything I can do. he already complains(mildly) about his back, legs

hurting sometimes hard to breathe. he has beginning signs of asthma and has had

high B/P long before putting on wieght as this runs on his fathers side of the

family.

Watching this tears me to pieces and we do talk and try to catch myself when

i become nagging as I know this is the worst thing you can do to someone who

is overwieght. I am really scared that I will be a widow before the age of

40(1.5 years away)

Any suggestions, anything I can do? I need help

Oh one more important thing we are in marital counseling and address this

everytime we go and I recently started WW and try and get him to do the point

system along with me and he seems to like it but still makes horrible food

choices,

Again any suggestions would be greatly appreciated.

Always be Optimistic as a good Positive Attitude takes us a long way and

remember our new motto " a little bit of something is better than a whole lot of

nothing " .

Please feel free to Email me or call me as I am always here for you and you

have been for me.

Ronit ( Row-Neet) Kalmanor

Dr.Andrei SPMC New Brunswick,NJ

11/10/00-LAP RNY

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